"Hi Sandman, I am a middle-aged Korean guy living in the United States. Your videos have solidified my observations about women and I think you are saving many lives with your work. Today, I wanted to share that Korean women are some of the most insidious, cerebral, and controlling women in the world. I was a MegaMangina all my life. Back in high school, I dated a girl who was about two levels out of my league. As a self-proclaimed hippie, she was beautiful, talented, and very charming. I was so whipped from the get go that on the night we started dating, I came home after the first kiss and recorded a selfie video about how "I'm in heaven and how I can't believe I kissed an angel." Then I showed her the video the next day... I can imagine the satisfaction and salivation she felt, knowing that my heart was on a platter for her to devour. For the next 2 years, she openly flirted and caressed other guys right in front of me, broke up with me because her feelings for her ex-boyfriend had returned over Winter Break, and admitted to "accidentally" hooking up with another dude at a party. Even after all this, it was she who had to break up with me because I was too whipped. Writing this depresses me, and I'm ashamed of how easily I got trampled by women, but after watching your videos, I felt compelled to share this with you and the MGTOW community to serve as a reminder of just how powerful and blinding the vagina is. Needless to say, all of my ex girlfriends ended up cheating on me. But here's what's interesting. I've dated an Indian, a few Caucasians, and a few Korean girls, and the Korean girls were the only ones that never admitted that they cheated. My most recent relationship was with a Korean girl, and I thought that I had found a NAWALT. She was cute, reserved, down to earth, goofy, seemingly non-materialistic, and fed my ego with compliments like "you're so manly," and "you're not like other guys." But after about a year of dating, she began to reveal her true colors, one layer at a time. She did things like never picking up the phone and calling back a few minutes later instead. Getting wasted at "mandatory" company functions that lasted late into the night three times a week, and flirtatious Facebook messages from her male coworkers on her page started popping up. But like a moth encircled by a spider's web, I still couldn't see the truth. The only way I eventually woke up from this mangina coma was after finding out from a friend that she was riding the cock carousel with her coworkers as well as a few of my friends from college. At the end of the day, I blame myself for the delusion in my head. Sure, she was deceptive and manipulative, but it was just as much about how I didn't want my fantasy to end. Because we are imperfect, I suspect that even the most discerning MGTOWS have blind spots, and can fall pray to the most patient female predators who study their pray for many years and sting them into submission as soon as they discover that blind spot. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. chesterf - woman holding happy letters red flags, christmas theme http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-108562082/stock-photo-woman-holding-happy-letters-red-flags%2C-christmas-theme 2. sakkmesterke - Sexy Brunette Woman Holding Usa Flag Outdoor http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-99792254/stock-photo-sexy-brunette-woman-holding-usa-flag-outdoor 3. RossHelen - Woman with macedonian flag in Skopje city http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-93980234/stock-photo-woman-with-macedonian-flag-in-skopje-city 4. Nikkolia - Beautiful Patriotic Girls With Lollipop http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64086349/stock-photo-beautiful-patriotic-girls-with-lollipop 5. Nomad Soul - Woman holding a red flag stands against building http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-105933071/stock-photo-woman-holding-a-red-flag-stands-against-building 6. smithore - Pretty young Vietnamese woman with a lovely friendly smile holding up a the national flag of Vietnam http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85015925/stock-photo-pretty-young-vietnamese-woman-with-a-lovely-friendly-smile-holding-up-a-the-national-flag-of-vietnam-as-she-stands-in-an-urban-street-against-a-brick-wall 7. Nikkolia - Sexy Suntan Girl In Short Jeans Shorts Against Green Brick Wall http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64080223/stock-photo-sexy-suntan-girl-in-short-jeans-shorts-against-green-brick-wall 8. Gilmanshin - Red flag flying in a stiff breeze against clear blue sky. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-107480681/stock-photo-red-flag-flying-in-a-stiff-breeze-against-clear-blue-sky 9. Foxline - Beautiful girl in jeans and a shirt http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-88345832/stock-photo-beautiful-girl-in-jeans-and-a-shirt 10. sakkmesterke - Sexy Woman Portrait With Usa Flag In Sunset http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-94396922/stock-photo-sexy-woman-portrait-with-usa-flag-in-sunset
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"Hope you have a great Christmas and New Years, Sandman. Thank you for all you've done for men this year and in years past. We're lucky to have you. You serve as a positive male role model to countless thousands. Please use my donation to highlight a response by a particular poster you admire. Thanks again." Well Brian thanks for the donation. Yes I will use your donation to highlight a response from someone I admire. I admire her courage coming back to my channel after I made the last video about her called MGTOW Baffles Women. I'll put a link to it in the description in case any of you guys missed it. Well Annastasia is back and after having tens of thousands of guys laugh at her story. I admire that she's back trying to shame me and I admire her courage to come back and embarrass herself once again. Here's what she has to say again: "Hey Sandman, it’s Anastasia again. I wrote a comment for you! Well, more like an essay. I censored the swear words, but the passion is still there. I must say; I’m flattered that you actually made a video on my comment. You must be running out of material, or perhaps my comment struck a chord? Anyway, let’s get a few things straight. The guy I met before, all of that happened a few years ago and the physical intimacy was certainly wasn't sex. Although it was not sex, it was very special to me. But, he did not feel the same way, obviously. It only went on for three months because I was smart enough to cut him off before I expended too much time and energy. You are right, we were “testing each other out” and I found out quickly that he was a manipulative man. Maybe you should have done the same with your wife (I assume you were married?) instead of shackling yourself to a woman whom you should have known to be abusive at that point. Did it really take ten f##king years to “test her out”, you idiot? At least I was efficient with the boy I dated! This is just anecdotal evidence, by the way, but about 75% of the marriages I know of personally are more or less happy. However, it’s usually only the optimistic, persistent ones that end up with a happy ending. Hell, I know a woman who was divorced at 55, and she was happily married for another ten or so years before her 2nd husband died of cancer. But I swear, the woman is made of steel; she found another person to love even after losing one husband to divorce and losing another to cancer. They’re happily living together out west now. All I’m saying is that I would rather end up like her than like you, Sandman. She posts cheerful photos of the new life she’s making for herself every week, and you’re just wallowing in your own tragedy. Sorry for “unloading my personal toxic waste” on you guys (or whatever immature menstruation metaphor you compared it to), but it’s the only way I can think of to get my point across. MGTOW Baffles Women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zh0HYzYWWFc 45 Most Popular Stripper Names http://www.star941fm.com/photos/star-photos/45-most-popular-stripper-names-399231/#/10/22961080 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Dean Drobot - Portrait of a shocked woman talking on the phone and looking at camera on gray background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-107103854/stock-photo-portrait-of-a-shocked-woman-talking-on-the-phone-and-looking-at-camera-on-gray-background 2. Voy - Stress. Young Woman Frustrated Pulling Her Hair On White http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64010092/stock-photo-stress-young-woman-frustrated-pulling-her-hair-on-white 3. Kinetic Imagery - Business Bull's Eye http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-4549669/stock-photo-business-bull-s-eye 4. Nyul - Facial portrait of woman in party makeup in shock of glamorous gem handheld. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-111305576/stock-photo-facial-portrait-of-woman-in-party-makeup-in-shock-of-glamorous-gem-handheld 5. Dean Drobot - Portrait of a shocked blonde woman standing over holidays lights background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-111706223/stock-photo-portrait-of-a-shocked-blonde-woman-standing-over-holidays-lights-background 6. buso23 - Shocked blond woman eating Chinese noodles and looking at the camera isolated on white background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-103695929/stock-photo-shocked-blond-woman-eating-chinese-noodles-and-looking-at-the-camera-isolated-on-white-background 7. Beornbjorn - Girl With Afro http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-66766630/stock-photo-girl-with-afro 8. olly2 - Shocked Girl http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-54576047/stock-photo-shocked-girl 9. djile - Shocked Woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-76821428/stock-photo-shocked-woman 10. Voy - Scared Pretty Fashion Woman In Fur Winter Hat http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-101322935/stock-photo-scared-pretty-fashion-woman-in-fur-winter-hat
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The photos for today's video are of women that have hit the wall. These women are still in their prime with porcelain skin and luscious golden hair. The wall has not taken them yet. As a woman enters her early thirties the emotional ground beneath her feet begins to shift. And most women are not prepared for THE WALL. The Wall can be understood as a generic term used to describe the point in time when a woman has moved past the prime of her physical beauty. This usually starts happening to a woman when she reaches her early to mid thirties. Many women in their early thirties have spent almost 20 years getting male attention without fail. They were able to go on dates with men from their early twenties all the way up into their 50s or 60s. Men of all ages and socioeconomic backgrounds have been giving them attention and affection. (All photography and sound recording done by Sandman)
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"Hello Sandman, The topic I wish for you to cover is being male and single. It seems as if it's always been socially unacceptable for a male to be single, and I'm not completely certain as to why. One personal example of this takes me back a number of years when I had dinner with an old school teacher and his wife. As we waited for our food, my teachers wife began asking me different questions in an attempt to get to know me better. She asked the usual questions, but eventually she got around to the matter of relationships. First she asked if I were married and I kindly told her no. Next she asked if I were engaged and I told her that I wasn't, and the third question was if I had a girlfriend. For the 3rd time I told her no. Looking back I'm not terribly surprised at her line of questions, but it was her reaction that puzzled me. After my 3rd no, she had this confused and disappointed expression on her face. After her barrage of questions, my mind was thinking gee lady sorry to let you down! This isn't some rare occurrence either as I've spoken with other male friends over the years that have given me similar stories. Over the years, I can't remember any female friends or acquaintances going through anything similar. It seems as if societies reaction to a single woman is along the lines of "girl power", or "you go girl, you don't need a man!" But if you're a man and single it's the total opposite. To me people generally respond to single men as if they're failing to meet some societal obligation. A single man can get any reaction from "well why don't you have a girl?", "are you at least dating anyone?" or in the extreme somebody might suggest "he's probably gay!" Maybe a year or two ago, a female friend asked why I'm single. My answer was that I don't want to be in a relationship, but promptly her response was that I lacked confidence! What does confidence have to do with anything I wondered. A woman can choose to be single and it's completely fine, but a man can't do the same. What's your take on this? Thanks for your question NEVER MIND. You've described a lot of different situations and I'll take them one at a time.
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What She Brings to the Table? - MGTOW "Hello Sandman, Bucky here! I have donated to you in the past and would like to fund another excellent video from you. Sandman, when I find a woman wants to date me I put her through a mental checklist to see "what she brings to the table". I've told many of my friends to use my system as a guideline to avoid worthless women. They call me too demanding and a sociopath! So I want to run by an abridged version of my "checklist" to you and see how you feel about my methods. (I'd be lying if I said I didn't use this list as an excuse to keep myself on the straight and narrow path of the MGTOW man. More or less using it to convince myself that most women aren't worthy of my time or efforts. I know this sounds vain, but I have my own house, car paid off, and working hard on a career; so I feel I'm in a good place to be a little vain.) Anyways here's an abridged version of the list: 1. Does she bring something more into my life, other than her vagina? (I get more sex being single, and I want personality qualities that make her stand out and compliment my own) 2. Does she have her own life outside of my company? (Her own living space, car, hobbies) 3. Is she aware that I won't sacrifice my goals and dreams to please her? (I won't give up something stupid that I enjoy, or sacrifice financial gain to appease her) 4. Does she understand that I don't wan't kids or marriage? 5. If she claims to understand my wants and demands, what is the likelihood she is full of shit and lying to get what she wants? (Always very likely) In three years since I've been using this list not one woman has passed it to my satisfaction, and by avoiding these women I have dodged many bad situations. Let me know how'd you'd tune it, or if you feel it's just silly and unnecessary. Have a great day! P.S. Get to feeling better I hope the voice to text programs are doing wonders for your ailment." Well Bucky thanks for the donation and yes my hands are getting better but I constantly have to massage my palms. And not in the dirty way. I'd like to get on with the topic which is what does she bring to the table besides her boobs, bum and overly banged vagina. There's a double standard because women demand that a man have a job but if he demands she has more than 1000 dollars saved in her bank account then he's the asshole. Talk about double standards. I talk to friends all the time about this. One has over one million dollars in paid off property. My friends and I we all pay off our cars and lots of savings yet women look and say well that's not the latest model of BMW in one of my friends cases. So one woman shamed him for that. Meanwhile she doesn't even own a vehicle and she has the nerve to criticise him. I'll tell you what the majority of women brings to the table these days. A dirty bathroom counter covered in makeup, personal credit card debt, no assets, school debt for a worthless degree in marketing, no cooking skills, maybe a child from a previous relationship. If she has a retirement fund it's usually locked in with her company and it's not her choice. MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qJc_D7ufoTg 9 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-154333895/stock-photo-anonymous-sad-woman-with-empty-plat-sit-at-the-table-alone 2. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-27061565/stock-photo-poor-homeless-young-woman-wrapped-in-plastic-tarpaulin 3. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-115897694/stock-photo-unhealthy-eating-or-healthy-eating 4. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-71783074/stock-photo-vulnerable-teenage-girl-sleeping-on-the-street 5. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-154177709/stock-photo-young-woman-cannot-resist-the-temptation-and-wants-to-eat-sweet-cake-diet-concept 6. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-18722390/stock-photo-silhouette-of-a-young-girl-in-sewer-pipe 7. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-130590416/stock-photo-hungry-young-woman-waiting-with-an-empty-plate 8. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-115464248/stock-photo-depression 9. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-112751006/stock-photo-beautiful-sexy-girl-with-long-leather-boots-sitting-on-chair-relaxing-with-legs-on-the-table
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$hit Tests? Who Cares? - MGTOW "Hey Sandman , if you have not already chosen a video to dedicate to me, I have a possible topic. Hypocritical women. They always say they are looking for an honest man, however I have found they are turned off by honesty. I don't mean blatant, hurtful honesty. One example I can cite is a while back, a woman had the hots for me. I told her I would never date her because she isn't my type, however I would sleep with her. She got angry and started calling me a pig. I then explained to her that I could have smooth talked her, took her to dinner, got in her pants, and THEN told her I wasn't interested in more than sex. She let that thought process in her mind for a minute, and said "yea , I guess you're right". It may be a bad example, however I find quite often that the worst way to get a woman's affection is to tell her the truth. Do you have any opinions on this? You can use this topic or not, it is up to you. Thank you again for being a beacon of light in a world that is so easily clouded by the flagelance of monkey branching whores. Keep up the good work!" Well Stephen thanks for the donation and topic. First of all the story you describe doesn't really have to do much with hypocritical women so I won't be making a video on hypocracy. Besides I've already made one before and I put a link to it in the description if you want to check it out. As for the story you shared you could have easily taken advantage of this woman and slept with her because you knew she was attracted to you and was making yourself available but in my estimation you failed the shit test. The majority of sexual relationships today begin on the first few dates and if you don't have sex with her as soon as she lets you than you fail the shit test. If you wait to have sex with her so that you're 100% sure she's into you than you're a coward in her eyes and a failure. By telling that women that had the hots for what was going on in an honest way you also failed the shit test. Being nice and considerate is considered man bitch behavior in this day and age. If you just grabbed her the moment you knew she had the hots for you then you would have passed the shit test. Instead you asked for sex by being honest and open about the situation. You never do that. You move in and give her a kiss and don't look back. If she says no or pushes you away than you back off but you make the first move and you never ask for permission or she already sees you as inferior because a strong man takes what he wants. You never let her know that you have the power you just take the power and you don't let her know what you're thinking. You keep your feelings inside and never share them. Recently I watched the film La La Land and you never see Ryan Gosling tell Emma Stone's character that he loves her. Telling a woman that you love her also means you failed the shit test because it means that you're weaker than she is. That you are attached to her and can't just walk away at any moment. You are less powerful. If you show a woman any kind of weakness you are a failure. Most of the men in the past somehow knew all of this but now we are rediscovering it. But even when we realise that 90% of interactions with women are shit tests meant for us to fail or pass there comes an understanding in a man's life that what's the point living to pass one test after another so that a woman doesn't walk all over you? Hypocritical Women LOL - MGTOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ns496qL4TLg MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9y5CyA06848&t=0s 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-100339334/stock-photo-bad-boy-arguing-with-his-couple-breakup-concept 2. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-94448855/stock-photo-lack-of-work-life-balance 3. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-170287937/stock-photo-social-issue-abuse-and-violence-on-women-drunk-hispanic-man-and-sad-black-woman-crying-at-home-violent-husband-and-abused-wife 4. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-73119160/stock-vector-illustration-featuring-a-husband-leaving-his-wife 5. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-52833598/stock-photo-unhappy-man-and-angry-woman-leaving-after-quarrel 6. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-133657451/stock-vector-worn-out-cartoon-man-fell-asleep-over-formal-dinner-leaving-his-female-partner-pissed-vector-illustration-of-an-unromantic-dinner-date-isolated-on-grey-background 7. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-29963066/stock-photo-one-caucasian-couple-dispute-separation-man-leaving-and-woman-holding-back-in-studio-silhouette-isolated-on-white-background 8. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-8694883/stock-photo-relations
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A few years ago I was having dinner with a few buddies, both of whom are still single. And they were complaining about not being able to find women to have meaningful relationships. And they talked to me about the troubles associated with not being able to have sex when they wanted. I laughed at them and said you really think just because I'm in a long term relationship I can have sex whenever I want? I told them it doesn't work that way and that it only really happened if both of us were interested in it. Otherwise it would be like sleeping with a corpse. They didn't seem to understand this and I was telling them this at the end of the relationship when I was having sex maybe once or twice a month. Over time it became increasingly infrequent. And my ex told me that some of her friends only had sex once every six months or so. At that point they were supposedly focusing on their careers and their sexual gratification was almost non-existent. Apparently these women were more interested in getting drunk and eating fine meals three times a weeks. Sex was replaced by liquor and food. And I'm sure if the trend continues they will blimp up once that they hit their late thirties and early forties. But I find it kind of ironic that food has replaced sex for these women and these are all child free women for the most part. But what I found even more strange was that their husbands and boyfriends didn't seem to complain to me about not getting enough sex. Even I didn't complain to my friends about not getting sex near the end of my relationship. And my naive friends assumed sex was still coming down the pipeline (no pun intended) even a long-term relationship. I explained to them that a lot has to be in sync for it to happen and that at a certain point they are better going out and getting one night stands. All of these thoughts were stirred up in me when I read an article in my local paper called "Not tonight, honey: Man tracks wife’s excuses not to have sex." And I'm adding a link in the description below to that specific article. According to the article: "a stunned, unnamed woman reached out to the online community website Reddit, after her husband produced a spreadsheet of all her excuses for refusing sex for a month. Among the excuses he recorded were: “I’m exhausted,” “I feel gross,” and “I’m watching my show, I don’t want to miss anything.” And according to the spreadsheet the man was turned down 89% of the time by his own wife for wanting sex. Some men get turned down by ninety percent of the women they ask out and then even if they get into a long term relationship they can still be turned down ninety percent of the time. Those don't seem to be great odds for sexual satisfaction or happiness on the part of the man. And the media is having a feeding frenzy with this story because this man did the one thing most men aren't really allowed to do, complain or talk about their feelings, unless of course you're sitting next to your wife and or in a session of couples counselling where your feelings can be written down and marked by a professional and where your own wife influences those feelings. Not tonight, honey: Man tracks wife’s excuses not to have sex http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/not-tonight-honey-man-makes-spreadsheet-of-wifes-excuses-not-to-have-sex/article19712083/ Man makes sexless spreadsheet http://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2b1f5a/my_husband_m26_sent_me_f26_an_immature/ The new way to date: Don't date http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/the-new-way-to-date-dont-date/article4362778/?page=all
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"Hi Sandman, You made a video response to an email I sent you about feeling like I was a loser. I didn't think much about that email before I sent it and I didn't realize it sounded so self-pitying until I heard you read it aloud. Yet instead of the criticism I expected to hear, I heard a huge amount of support in the comments section from other men which made me feel more welcome and accepted than I ever had before. I found myself comparing this feeling to a time when I identified as a male feminist and was somehow tricked into feeling ashamed of myself as well as other men. MGTOW obviously excludes women, and it seems to me that feminism likes to pretend it doesn't exclude men. When I was into feminism so many bad ideas were put into my head and I was gullible enough to fall for it. And now people tell me I'm being gullible again falling for the MGTOW ideology. I've heard the claim that feminism and MGTOW are just two sides of the same coin. Someone asked me recently what the difference is between the things MGTOW say about women, and the things feminists say about men. I answered that person by saying that the things we say about women are accurate, while the things women say about men are not. But that response is too simple and I'm wondering if there's more to it? Taking the red pill is like uncovering a huge secret, but I can't tell anyone about it because they think I'm crazy or stupid. Maybe if we could somehow gather evidence to back up our claims about female nature then we could convince some of the skeptics. But I'm not sure what that evidence would look like. Sandman you also talked about your own inability to feel genuine happiness. That's very upsetting to hear and I wish I could help. Men kill themselves over women and I imagine that your influence has literally saved lives. I'm sure you don't need me to tell you this but what you're doing is very important." Well Rueben thanks for your donation and topic. The core of what you said in your statement is that the things we say about women are accurate while the things feminists say about men aren't. We are using either facts or deductive reasoning to prove things. At their core women are easy to figure out once you start to learn about hypergamy, solipsism and neotony. The truth is there isn't a whole lot there. It all comes down to the source of women's power which is their big secret. And that secret being that at their core they are selfish and use men to get everything they want and it's been like that forever. They act vulnerable and weak to get cash and prizes thrown at them for being professional victims. But deep down they are much stronger then they appear and they don't want us to know it. Today I was talking to a woman and she said that she enjoys doing business with men more then she does with women. I knew exactly why she felt that way. Elvis Presley - (You're The) Devil in Disguise (Audio) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=emjLXdsj6xA 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Andersonrise - Portrait of attractive girl with finger on lips, concept of student show quiet, silence, secret gesture, young pretty brunette woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-104964341/stock-photo-portrait-of-attractive-girl-with-finger-on-lips%2C-concept-of-student-show-quiet%2C-silence%2C-secret-gesture%2C-young-pretty-brunette-woman 2. studiostoks - Paper shredder top secret document destroys the Secretary http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-108860267/stock-vector-paper-shredder-top-secret-document-destroys-the-secretary 3. EdwardDe - girl with a secret . Model brunette with hairstyle of the care. Black hair and a black manicure http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-107419028/stock-photo-girl-with-a-secret-model-brunette-with-hairstyle-of-the-care-black-hair-and-a-black-manicure 4. olly2 - Whispers and secrets http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-98502776/stock-photo-whispers-and-secrets 5. mast3r - Whispering Gossip Woman Surprised Girl Talking Secret News http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-118456751/stock-vector-whispering-gossip-woman-surprised-girl-talking-secret-news 6. YakobchukOlena - Let it be our sweet secret http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-116189297/stock-photo-let-it-be-our-sweet-secret 7. Voy - Shocked Gossip Girl Eavesdropping With Hand To Ear. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-109223177/stock-photo-shocked-gossip-girl-eavesdropping-with-hand-to-ear 8. alexandr_1958 - Portrait of a beautiful woman on a tropical beach. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85637879/stock-photo-portrait-of-a-beautiful-woman-on-a-tropical-beach 9. studiostoks - Top secret silence businesswoman concept http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-106480835/stock-vector-top-secret-silence-businesswoman-concept 10. Kaspars Grinvalds - Co-workers sharing a secret http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-113492792/stock-photo-co-workers-sharing-a-secret
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"Hi Sandman, This is Chris from Austin. I am 33 now, and as I've been following MGTOW for a year. It is very interesting to get a front row seat of the carousel hitting the wall. I have a female friend who is also my age and lives in another state. We've been friends since the 8th grade. We've never dated, and I view her as a sister. And we tell each other everything. She's never been married and was once upon a time very good looking in her 20's. She still maintains a healthy body, but her age is starting to show especially with no makeup on. She's also a very astute businesswoman, but her romantic life is one flaming disaster after another, and I hear everything about it. And, no, I'm not secretly white knighting, and hoping to win her affections. Rather, I'm enjoying this candid learning opportunity. I am, after all, MGTOW for life. In her 20's she was the typical sorority girl and then a carousel rider in the company we both worked at. As an example, I was witness to her intimate with 2 guys we worked with, who were roommates, in the same day. She also told me she wouldn't be with a guy because she didn't like the size of his package. That's the type of girl she was/still is. Now, in her 30's, guys will still be intimate with her (too many to count), but these 'relationships' end, usually with the guy pursuing another girl. Which crushes and torments my friend. She has become absolutely unglued. She asks me, 'Why won't anyone see value in me?!' and also blames her insecurities on her bad relationship with her father. Its gotten to the point where she asked if she could send me revealing images of herself so I can critique her body. She's fully convinced if she was just a bit skinnier, it would all work out. I said no to the pictures, and she's perfectly in shape. The last guy she was with is a self made millionaire, who dumped her for a slightly OLDER yet prettier woman. I'm guessing her profound remorse has more to do with the resources she messed up getting, than the potential romance. Although she constantly told me how lucky the guy was and that she wasn't the type of girl to focus on his money. This is the epitome of how I've read how it goes. Pretty girl rides carousel in 20's, gets constant validation and guys chasing her, yet nothing concrete develops. The Girl enters her 30's, starts to lose the battle with younger women, yet still has the high standards when she was in her prime. She can't get anyone to commit and I suspect she isn't as focused on romance as she claims, but more on her window of opportunity on kids and locking down a husband with resources is narrowing everyday. MGTOW talk a lot about marriage and divorce, but these never-married 30 year old women is desperation I've never seen. They would never be this needy at 25 years old. I don't have the heart to tell her, when she calls me crying (actually wailing), what's really going on -- that her arrogance has caught up with her. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Hootie2710 - Attractive Woman Screaming In Terror http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-55687115/stock-photo-attractive-woman-screaming-in-terror 2. darkbird - Business Woman Hiding Behind Table And Afraid http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-77033768/stock-photo-business-woman-hiding-behind-table-and-afraid 3. B-D-S - Teenage woman covering her face with hands http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-82600280/stock-photo-teenage-woman-covering-her-face-with-hands 4. Aaron Amat - Portrait Of A Young Woman On A Yellow Background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-39474109/stock-photo-portrait-of-a-young-woman-on-a-yellow-background 5. amyinlondon - Alarmed! http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-43409368/stock-photo-alarmed%21 6. Xilius - Shocked Businesswoman Closeup On White http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85770896/stock-photo-shocked-businesswoman-closeup-on-white 7. Nosnibor137 - Portrait of surprised young woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-41953114/stock-photo-portrait-of-surprised-young-woman 8. Photosebia - What Have I Done!? http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-71216416/stock-photo-what-have-i-done%21%3F 9. Photosebia - I Am A Fashion Model, Not A Housewife! http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-89193146/stock-photo-i-am-a-fashion-model%2C-not-a-housewife%21 10. alphaspirit - Escape From Marriage http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-70348030/stock-photo-escape-from-marriage
Views: 179551 Sandman
"Hi Mr Sandman, I'm asking you to make a video concerning guys breaking up with women and would like to hear your take on the subject. The reason I bring this up is because I just broke up with my smoking hot Thai girl. The relationship lasted two and a half years and boy oh boy didn't it go down well with her. I just got sick and tired of her materialistic attitude and wanting more and more and it all seemed like a huge loss of face to friends and family and a punch in the face. I'm now 35 and ready to go my own way. Thanks for the videos, they are inspirational and put a whole new light women these days. Take Care." Well Robert thanks for the donation and sharing your thoughts. We all know that it's harder for guys to breakup with a woman because once we develop feelings for women it's really tough to breakup. We are in a trance. And these days courtship between men and women ends and the so called relationship begins once the man tells the woman he loves her. Then her true colors come out because she thinks she has him under control. Looking at relationships that way I now understand that it's if you're going to date as a man going his own way it's always advisable to tell a woman you love her before you actually do. That way you can see her true colors when she thinks she has the upper hand. But with regards to breakups a guy will usually do so with a woman if she's crazy and he becomes aware of who she really is before he falls in love. A woman has to hide crazy until he's under her spell. But once they get a ring on their finger women's behavior changes. This is the transition from equality to female superiority. Once you marry or knock up a woman up while living with her it's over. She has all the power. You are trapped like a fly in a Venus fly trap. At this point the breakup is dangerous for a man because he will be left financially, emotionally and socially destitute because of his loss of status which will reduce his ability for finding a quality woman in the future. So if he's going to find an exit it has to happen early in the relationship, towards the end of the honeymoon phase or beginning of the settling down phase. The longer the relationship lasts the harder it is for most blue pill men to leave. I say pull the trigger fast or provoke a woman to pull the trigger herself if she has the courage to do so. That's the best way to do it. If you act all weak at the beginning of a relationship and easily whipped then she obviously won't respect you but she'll believe she has you under control. So that will make her feel safe enough to invest in the relationship. But if you play submissive and then all of a sudden you change your behavior and become a dominant man instead of passive submissive just watch how quickly the woman gets pissed off and leaves you or tries to put her in her place. At that point they see you as weak and it's hard for them to respect you. When you start asking for respect when she already doesn't respect her it will piss her off and confuse the hell out of her. You see I've learned that I can love a woman but I've learned that it's far too dangerous to be in love with one. If you lose your head metaphorically then you will lose your head literally. If you have assets and can be whipped you are the perfect target. 10 Monogamous Animals That Just Want To Settle Down http://mentalfloss.com/article/55019/10-monogamous-animals-just-want-settle-down 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Voy - Husband Apologizing Wife. Angry Upset Woman. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-102065255/stock-photo-husband-apologizing-wife-angry-upset-woman 2. Kasia Bialasiewicz - Burning Photo With Ex-girlfriend http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-88624976/stock-photo-burning-photo-with-ex-girlfriend 3. Creatista - Angry Girl With Bouquet http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-25244777/stock-photo-angry-girl-with-bouquet 4. Dandaman - Woman Destroying Heart http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-40121059/stock-photo-woman-destroying-heart 5. dolgachov - people, relationship difficulties http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-93990383/stock-photo-people%2C-relationship-difficulties%2C-conflict-and-family-concept-unhappy-couple-having-argument-at-home 6. Voy - Regretful Man Husband Apologizing Upset Woman Wife http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-107096309/stock-photo-regretful-man-husband-apologizing-upset-woman-wife 7. auremar - Couple arguing http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-41835856/stock-photo-couple-arguing 8. Creatista - Upset Girlfriend Or Wife http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-14687987/stock-photo-upset-girlfriend-or-wife 9. felix mizioznikov - Man begging her not to leave http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-6834562/stock-photo-man-begging-her-not-to-leave 10. Creatista - Innocent Man With Flower Bouquet http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-24580910/stock-photo-innocent-man-with-flower-bouquet
Views: 62242 Sandman
Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6eWG7x_6Y5U&feature=youtu.be&t=568 https://www.facebook.com/sandmanmgtow/ https://twitter.com/SandmanMGTOW https://www.minds.com/SandmanMGTOW 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock. All copyright image licenses are available in the order they appear upon request.
Views: 49447 Sandman
"Hey Sandman, I just broke up from a 6 month relationship because the female was keeping up and chatting with her ex-boyfriends behind my back. She was emotionally cheating which is an enabler to physical. Especially as female emotions are very important to them. When I showed her that I can talk to girls too, she forbid me. So much for equality. Anyhow, I also realized that females today are fighting for your attention. Enslaving your consciousness which obviously will impact other areas of life like career, passion etc. I even tried to get the female to be spiritual and to share a common goal and not be focused on trying to enslave my mind. Unfortunately her patterns of male attention seeking took the best of her and I dropped her as well. I was able to keep almost all my attention off of her through meditation and keeping myself in a zen/peace piece of mind as my focus. I find spirituality solves a lot of issues for both genders. Unfortunately females need male guidance but the system today encourages them to just keep getting distracted by materialism and hedonism and getting their physical form used and abused, ie riding the cock carousal. I have decided to take up full monk mode to focus on myself and grow. I recommend to you and the viewers the book "The Power of Now". Audio book preferably so as to experience it without the veil of your mind. I am watching your videos to reteach my physical form about female nature and distance myself from the personalization of the female I was with. Thanks a lot for your contributions, they're extremely valuable. May The Force Be With you and please leave name out please." Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for your donation. I don't hear any one specific topic you want me to talk about so I want to discuss the idea you brought up about women keeping in contact with their ex-boyfriends yet they forbid us from keeping in touch with our ex-girlfriends. First of all I'm sure almost everyone has heard about monkey branching women. Women trading a lower status mate for a higher status one. And if a woman was dumped by her ex-boyfriend then she is still likely to get back together with him at a future date. If he dumped her then he has higher status so she usually keeps in contact with him and if she was the one that dumped him then she immediately cuts off contact from him. That's the general rule although I have experienced the opposite once in my life before. But the woman in question had just hit the wall so perhaps that's why she got back together with me? The reason women forbid us men from talking to our ex-girlfriends as a general rule is because they assume that if those other women are still our friends then us guys dumped that woman so our ex still sees us as a higher status male. 9 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. VadimGuzhva - Jealousy. Young sad women sitting on the couch with her arms crossed while another women and men hugging near her. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85739933/stock-photo-problems-in-relationships 2. drx - Portrait of jealous people. Handsome man in between two sexy woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-7039472/stock-photo-grunge-people 3. AntonioGuillem - Girl ignoring and rejecting to a stalker man waving her in a coffee shop in a blind date http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-127183244/stock-photo-girl-ignoring-and-rejecting-to-a-stalker-man-waving-her-in-a-coffee-shop-in-a-blind-date 4. Kasia Bialasiewicz - Macho cheating on his girlfriend with other woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-103450541/stock-photo-macho-cheating-on-his-girlfriend 5. Dmitry Denisov - Beautiful brunette woman with retro hairdo. Luxury vogue style model holding white mannequins. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-122808242/stock-photo-beautiful-brunette-woman-with-retro-hairdo-luxury-vogue-style-model-holding-white-mannequins-love-triangle-concept 6. Creatista - Cirqe ensemble love triangle with mad woman clenching fist http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-73717213/stock-photo-mad-love-triangle 7. Kasia Bialasiewicz - Image of betrayal love and jealous in relationship http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-118510442/stock-photo-betrayal-and-jealous-in-relationship 8. Voy - Passion of love hate. Infatuation love. Mistress betrayal within the family. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-81403103/stock-photo-relations-between-men-and-women-triangle 9. Svyatoslava Vladzimirska - man with two beautiful sexy girls with blond hair http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-54522365/stock-photo-love-triangle
Views: 78573 Sandman
I'd like to cover an article someone brought to my attention yesterday called "Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned." It was written by Randi Gunther over it the Huffington Post. And before you discount me and this article based on where it's published Randi gives us many reasons why women behave the way that they do and also explains why divorce rates are just as high as ever, even with men in the millennial generation doing and being exactly what women want. Men are more politically correct then ever and you'd expect the number of divorces to go down with men behaving like nice sensitive guys. But the truth is the divorce rate is just as high as ever and women are increasingly abandoning their husbands. Even the kind, caring and sensitive guys are not immune from being kicked the curb. Blue pill men are increasingly doing as they're told and it still often leads to alimony, child support and the end of their marriages. Now I want to read a paragraph from the article so you get a clearer picture of what's actually going on. So here's what Randi has to say: "It's sexy to help make a meal or take the kids away on a Sunday morning so their wives can sleep in. They are the androgynous guys that their women have asked them to become. You would think that the women in these new relationships would be ecstatic. They've got a guy who wants to work out together, share parenting, support their parallel dreams, and make their family collective central to both of their lives. They've established an equal relationship of coordinated teamwork, and the guys don't seem to miss their old need to posture for power over intimate connections. Well, guess again. Fifty percent of marriages are still ending in divorce, and women continue to be the gender that initiates those endings. In the past, their reasons for leaving most often had to do with infidelity, neglect, or abuse. Now they're dumping men who are faithful, attentive, and respectful, the very men they said they have always wanted. Why would women who have accomplished the female dream suddenly not be satisfied with it? Why are they leaving these ideal guys, and for what reasons?" So that's just a short excerpt from the article. Listening to these words would make most blue pill men confused because they don't understand what women want. Men were brutish, emotionally distant and the sole bread winners for most of recorded human history and women stayed in marriage partially because life expectancy was much shorter then it is today. Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned http://www.huffingtonpost.com/randi-gunther/marriage-advice_b_5666990.html Canadian MGTOW https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZPADQ9PNR6pr-GzPSc1lRg 8 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. warrengoldswain - couple sitting on couch with moving boxes on head having fun together http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-47914340/stock-photo-couple-sitting-on-couch-with-moving-boxes-on-head-having-fun-together 2. alphaspirit - Funny concept of bound and trapped by marriage http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-71406565/stock-photo-trapped-by-marriage 3. Willee Cole - dog bride and groom puppies http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64672705/stock-photo-dog-bride-and-groom-puppies 4. Voy - Relationship Concept Couple In Divorce Crisis http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-75814747/stock-photo-relationship-concept-couple-in-divorce-crisis 5. Pakmor - isolated Illustration with a young couple in love http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-31252922/stock-photo-isolated-illustration-with-a-young-couple-in-love 6. Voy - Wedding Couple. Bride Boxing Groom. Conflict. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-62325167/stock-photo-wedding-couple-bride-boxing-groom-conflict 7. aslysun - Divorce - Sad young couple holding billboard sign with break love heart concept for divorce http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-67786972/stock-photo-divorce 8. Lisa_A - three beautiful brides having fun http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-32282414/stock-photo-three-beautiful-brides-having-fun
Views: 158066 Sandman
Tinder is Delusional - MGTOW "Hey Sandman, I've been watching your videos for a year now and discovered you after swallowing the red pill via therationalmale and Chateaux Hertiste website which I have read daily since mid 2014. I am 37 year old IT consultant based in the U.K. I have been a MGTOW all my life, without knowing it and had small relationships here and there, as well as little flings, but could never find ( not for lack of wanting or trying ) a girl that I deemed worthy of a loyal fun loving relationship. I was told by a close friend of mine who is a girl ( a very good looking friend) a lot of girls wouldn't get with me because I extinguished their superiority, they clearly want to control the relationship and hold the cards and they quickly tasted thorough my take no shit attitude and my better then average appearance. I was in the past a 9 looks wise and was asked by some girls back then if I had done any modelling. I was always a head strong bastards with girls, fueled by my European roots and would be too arrogant to ever approach women, always saying fuck em let them come to me I don't have to chase, of course they still didn't as much as I thought, and any girl I did get with was through social circle where we had to talk and were in the same party.. anyhow I was and have been very happily single (whilst seeing all my beta friends get fat and get married) have brought my own apartment in a trendy neighborhood, and have grown my career traveled a lot ( spending out on business class tickets for long haul flights ;-) but recently decided fuck it why not try tinder or okay Cupid or bumble, just in case there is a " nice girl" NAWALT that I might be not seeing, got to be innit to win it attitude ) anyhow I put up 5 pics of myself that was in July, since then I have had aprox 60-70 matches from tinder, about 20 from OkCupid and only 8 or 9 from bumble all in all not too bad for matches, all girls are between 6-8s. I initiate the conversation every time despite girls saying men don't. so this is what happens, I start off with something cheeky and very basic, but not crude language and approximately 50% don't reply. There are girls that have carefully swiped right on me due to the fact they like what they see) still they don't talk, some just unlatch me if after 12- 24hrs I haven't initiated the conversation yet, and I have had girls talk two paragraphs with me and just unmatch, no rhyme or reason I can think of. MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmeSGwVBoao 9 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Dean Drobot - Woman making funny crazy face, isolated on white background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-131027372/stock-photo-woman-making-funny-crazy-face%2C-isolated-on-white-background 2. pasiphae - woman with fish mouth at the window makes a funny grimace http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-119015606/stock-photo-woman-with-fish-mouth-at-the-window 3. Kaspars Grinvalds - Woman going crazy over something on her phone http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-118331651/stock-photo-woman-going-crazy-over-something-on-her-phone 4. Anetlanda - Facial expressions during work. Crazy thoughtful accountant businesswoman surrounded by documents and binders in office. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-146298821/stock-photo-facial-expressions-during-work-crazy-thoughtful-accountant-businesswoman-surrounded-by-documents-and-binders-in-office 5. AntonioGuillem - Wide angle view of a geek woman with glasses smiling isolated on a white background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-56769968/stock-photo-wide-angle-view-of-a-geek-woman-with-glasses-smiling 6. darkbird - Crazy screaming retro woman on chalkboard blackboard background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-144132302/stock-photo-crazy-screaming-retro-woman 7. Voy - Fall active lifestyle concept. Happy crazy woman girl vivid color shawl relaxing in autumn park riding bicycle with her legs in the air having fun http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-95623415/stock-photo-girl-relaxing-in-autumnal-park-with-bicycle 8. darkbird - Crazy screaming woman on chalkboard blackboard background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-141712475/stock-photo-crazy-screaming-woman 9. Digital21 - Crazy or frazzled looking Asian woman with bright lipstick and ruffled hair pulling a face while looking up. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-140392823/stock-photo-crazy-or-frazzled-looking-asian-woman-with-bright-lipstick-and-ruffled-hair-pulling-a-face-while-looking-up
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Why Bother With Her? - MGTOW "Evening Sandman, I was hoping that you could discuss a topic that may benefit from your extensive knowledge of mgtow philosophy. As with many men I have digested the red pill and have learnt through experience and close observation of the opposite sex what the opposite sex has to offer the modern professional man in Britain. I have been told many times by men and women that I am a very good catch for a wo,am, I have a great career in finance, a company I run and in economic terms I know I am an appreciating asset and will continue to be as long as I focus and work with other business like-minded professionals within my network. Number One: What does a man do or can do for a woman? The type of professional man I describe literally has the ability to take a woman out of poverty and escalate her living status to a middle class lifestyle. To me this illustrates how kind, loving and caring a man is to be willing to share his success and earnings with the woman he loves. However society and most women will still question how committed the man is yet he has done an act which is actually heroic. Think about it, giving a woman a lifestyle she could have only dreamed about is an act of pure love. I now came to the conclusion that the men I describe in this topic are the real catch. Professional men have a lot to offer a modern woman, financially successful men have the ability to improve a woman's social and economic status, hence being the real prize, but we never hear this in the media or from our loved ones. My question is so with all what a man can offer, what exactly are modern women offering besides emotional baggage and stress? Look forward to hearing you view on this topic. Kind regards." Well MGTOW Finance thanks for the donation and topic. So you're a well to do man financially that apparently knows how to value what we men have to offer women financially. I also agree with you that a man is heroic for choosing to risk all of his resources to elevate the lifestyle of woman and make her life better. He may appear heroic giving a woman a lifestyle she hasn't earned but he's also stupid. Far too often he is spoiling her and she doesn't appreciate what he has given her. That's probably why we used to have very rigid class structures in the past. If you were born in a certain class particularly in Britain up until the 1970s you dressed and lived a certain lifestyle your entire life. Social mobility was not something that was easy to achieve forty or fifty years ago so women couldn't run off an marry a rich guy by trading her vaginal oriface for an orgy of dollar bills. You mention how men share what they've earned and how courageous they are but you made no mention of women doing the same thing. If hard working men are willing to sacrifice than wouldn't make sense that hard working women would be willing to do the same? What is it about sex that makes it the most powerful drug in the world? https://www.quora.com/What-is-it-about-sex-that-makes-it-the-most-powerful-drug-in-the-world MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSUWNy_-pLI&t=0s 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-45657913/stock-photo-cupcakes-woman-caught-eating-cupcake-snack-after-running-training-funny-image-of-fitness-girl-surprise-shocked-looking-at-camera-eating-unhealthy-food-beautiful-woman-in-new-york-city%2C-manhattan 2. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-138852716/stock-photo-close-up-woman-looks-straight-into-the-camera-on-a-black-background-expresses-different-emotions%2C-showing-tongue 3. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-142682612/stock-vector-woman-watching-tv-with-bad-emotions-funny-cartoon-vector-illustration 4. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-79858192/stock-photo-young-woman-having-sweating-problem 5. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-112274102/stock-photo-shy-cute-lovely-young-woman-with-curly-red-hair-lying-in-bed-and-hiding-her-face-behind-sheet 6. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-139214486/stock-vector-nervous-business-woman-biting-her-fingers-pop-art-vector-illustration 7. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-43610497/stock-photo-embarrassment-shaggy-red-haired-curly-woman-grimacing-play-the-ape 8. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-45454375/stock-photo-annoying-teen-singing
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Don't Chase Women - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znWdpx5W-e0 Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Kev and here's what he has to say: "Hey Sandman, Call me Kev It's funny how enlighten I have become about female nature since i found your channel. It's like i can spot their BS from a mile away. I've come to realize that a woman is only interested in a man for what he can do for her and everything else is secondary. I'm a MGTOW level 1 living in Jamaica and i realize the the more i ignore women, treat them poorly and call them out on their BS is the more attention i get form them. I found this particularly weird because when i was a mangina I did not get this much attention. What most men fall to realize is that the ball is in their corner and women are attracted to success, so keep working on yourself, minus the distractions. Anyways Sandman, I was hoping you could do a video enlightening men that chasing women is pointless because when we do we give them the power. However, when they chase us we can exercise some level of dominance over them. Keep up the good work Sandman. bless up! One love!" Well Kev thanks for the donation and topic. I would go one step further and say that women are attracted to the illusion of success in addition to success itself. The guys that play it cool and pretend like they aren't interested in women while mortgaging their futures to buy luxury cars get the best women in Canada's largest city. They are projecting the illusion of success, just like when an ugly girl projects the illusion of beauty by getting a nose job and a professional makeup job. It's all about appearing to be higher in the dominance hierarchy than you really are. As a man yes you can exercise authority and dominance over women. If you treat women poorly, like a jerk, they respond, because that's what she would be doing if she were in your place. Let me elaborate further. Women are attracted to self confidence. When a woman has higher marketplace value than you and you approach her she insults you, belittles you and ridicules you. How dare you hit on her when you're not attractive or wealthy enough. Just being seen in her presence is enough to lower her status. So she shames you, insults you and makes you feel inadequate so you'll hang your head down in shame. Both of them. So when you treat her a woman as worthless, the same way, she believes that you somehow have more value in the hierarchy because that's how she would be behaving if she were in your place. She enjoys being spoken down to because it proves to her that you have more value. Otherwise you wouldn't be able to get away with talking to her with disrespect because some mangina or white knight would put you in your place. But because no other men are showing up to a stop to your pageantry she believes the hype. I remember when I was in my teens and twenties I would talk up my existing accomplishments and discuss all the things I was yet to do in life to make it sound like I was going places. 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request
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Don't Talk to Your Ex-Girlfriends - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.facebook.com/Funnybady/videos/vb.416086588577160/435955086590310/?type=2&theater Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Mr. Anonymous and here's what he has to say: "Hi Sandman, Before my question I wanted to give you some sort of context for it. I found MGTOW about a year ago after I found that the “love of my life” was only using me for dates and gifts. Needless to say after that time I fully blocked her on every form of social media and contact I could find. While I 100% know she is using me and an awful person, about once a month I get the urge to contact her. While I know enough now not to act on these urges I cannot find any sort of rational reason for them. I wondered if you would have some sort of reason for why I still get the urge to contact a woman that has caused me such trouble, even knowing that doing so will only cause me more. Is this some sort of instinct type feeling or something different? Is this some sort of common feeling, or am weird for having this? I hope you will be able to give me some insight into this, as I really cannot come up with a rational reason for this urge to contact her. Thanks again for the great MGTOW content and cheers!" Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for the donation and topic. Your urge to reach out to your Ex and see what she's up to is perfectly fine and normal. I still look up my ex girlfriends from time to time to see what they are up to using social media but I never contact them in any way. I suspect women do the same to us men spying on our profiles. They keep theirs eyes peeled on social media to see if we've succeeded or failed in life. Luckily for me I'm mostly off of social media so there really is no way for my exes to see what I'm up to. But of course it doesn't help because some of their old friends are still friends with me on Facebook. So if they really want to snoop and stalk me they can just talk to their friend and get them to spy on me instead and than report. My so called love of my life nearly died in Spain from a recent terrorist attack. 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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So I finally got a chance to review Aaron Clarey´s book Bachelor Pad Economics. The book sells itself as the book that contains everything a man needs to manage his life. And that includes finances, education, career advice, entrepreneurship, women and retirement. I´m going to try and focus on all of the subjects he brings up but I´m hope to cover his advice on women as a main focus. The book Bachelor Pad Economics is not meant to be read from cover to cover but instead be used as a reference book for men at different stages of their lives. When it comes to I agree with Aaron that you have to select the right major because it´s going to change the entire course of your life. Aaron Clarey would have chewed me up for my major. I took Media in college. My parents thought it would have been a better idea for me to take psychology as my undergrad. Thank god I didn´t listen to them and did my own thing. Before starting my third year in college I realized that I wasn't going to get a job after finishing school. So I took the skills that I picked up to that point in college which were photography, video, film and web design and put them to use. So I started building an online advertising business while I was in school. And I was making as much money as my professors in my third year of college while the dot com boom was happening. Aaron says pick the right major but what about if you´re caught up in the middle of a bad major? Do you cut your losses or do you try to make the best of it? Luckily I made the best of it and upon graduation I had my own business to fall back on. I remember being so happy on graduation day because I had built my own job and was ready to go full blast the day after graduation. Most people on graduation day had a terrified look on their face and were pretending to smile. It was the most surreal thing I had seen up to that point in my life. It was my own ingenuity that got me out of that mess. And the money I made while in school paid for my education and I graduated debt free and with money in my pocket. How about that. My motto has always been D is for Degree. So if you are in a major with no future use those four years to build a business while barely passing your classes. That´s what I did. And that´s my unique advice to everyone. And I love Aarons advice: Want to be an actor start a youtube channel. Want to be on radio: Start a podcast. This is exactly what I did instinctively and now the same advice is in his book. The old men and women need the young to leech off of. That´s why it´s good to sidestep the whole thing. Aaron was also kind enough to send me a copy of his other book Worthless: The Young Person's Indispensable Guide to Choosing the Right Major. And it has a breakdown of both the benefits and disadvantages of taking certain college majors. But I don't want to spend too much time on helping men with their education and want to move onto other parts of the book. Just make sure you don't take a stupid college major like art therapy.
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I've been trying to figure out why many of us MGTOWs come here to youtube each and every day seeking out answers. The more videos I produce the more I shut down some deep part of my empathetic self and the more logical and Spock like I become. As I do this I leave love behind and the chemical illusion it creates in me my mind. More and more logic and reason are coming to dominate our existence. Now I want to read the first paragraph from an article entitled the "Brain Can't Empathize And Analyze At Same Time, New Study." I'm putting a link to it in the description below and this is the opening paragraph: "Scientists have discovered that the brain circuits we engage when we think about social matters, such as considering other people's views, or moral issues, inhibit the circuits that we use when we think about inanimate, analytical things, such as working on a physics problem or making sure the numbers add up when we balance our budget. And they say, the same happens the other way around: the analytic brain network inhibits the social network." The study is believed to be the first to show that humans have a built in neural constraint that stops us thinking emphatically and analytically at the same time. Apparently when humans are in a restful state and they don't have some daunting mental challenge to solve they become more emotional and empathetic. After two decades of seeking love in my life I've realized that I've sought it out at the cost of my own rational self. There were times over the last twenty years where I saw a glimmer of logic and reason mostly through my work. In some portions of my life where I started heading down the long and narrow path towards making myself happy. But the desire for love and empathy stood in front of that. The desire to love and be loved came to dominate my existence. Roughly seventy to eighty percent of my existence was devoted to being empathetic. And twenty to thirty percent of my existence was directed to reason and logic. Logic was the slave to love. I used logic and reason to gain access to love. I worked just hard enough to attract women with material things and I had no idea they were more interested in what I could provide instead of who I was. Brain Can't Empathize And Analyze At Same Time, New Study http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/252241.php Empathy -- A Vital Component of Love http://www.all-creatures.org/tch/empathy.html
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Men in College men starting to get the message about rape culture. They are so scared about being called rapists and getting thrown out of school through false allegations that they are now no longer going out with college girls and buying them drinks. So if a man buys a woman a drink he's a potential rapist and if he doesn't buy her a drink he's cheap. This is a game of catch 22 and men with rational minds see this is a no win scenario so they are avoiding places that serve alcohol. I'm hoping that college aged men stop taking women on dates to restaurants for fear that women will order alcohol with their meal. I hope so called rape culture takes women's free drinks and free meals away. I hope they suffer by getting less male attention. The culture is essentially training men to associate being generous to a woman with being a potential rapist. So is it wonder that men are going their own way. There is only so much suspicion a man can take before he just gives up, walks away from the table and goes his own way. Here is a partial reading from the article from the Washington Examiner talking about this issue. "Thanks to an increased focus on sexual assaults on college campuses – mostly due to an overblown statistic claiming 20 percent of college women have been sexually assaulted – young college men are starting to rethink how they talk to women. At first glance that might seem like a good thing – men learning to be more respectful of women and not be so rapey – but that’s not what this is. This is about men actually avoiding contact with women because they’re afraid a simple kiss or date could lead to a sexual assault accusation. Bloomberg reporters John Lauerman and Jennifer Surane interviewed multiple men from colleges like Harvard and Stanford who expressed concern over what was once known as a "hook-up culture" but is now labeled by feminists as "rape culture." The change in terminology ensures that all responsibility is placed on men, just because of their gender. Take Malik Gill of Harvard University, who said he wouldn't even give a female classmate a beer. “I don’t want to look like a predator,” Gill told Bloomberg. “It’s a little bit of a blurred line.” Gone are the days of buying a woman a drink – even if it’s just to be nice. Gill also told Lauerman and Surane that after he passed on the contact information of a woman who said she was interested in his fraternity brother, his friend was hesitant to call her. “Even though she was interested, he didn't want to pressure her,” Gill said. “He was worried about making her feel uncomfortable.” William Pollack, a Harvard Medical School psychologist, told the Bloomberg reporters about a patient who was kissing a girl during a party and began thinking about what would happen if things went further. “‘I want to go to law school or medical school after this,’” the student said, according to Pollack. “‘I said to her, it’s been nice seeing you.’” Pollack also noted that the media attention to campus sexual assault has led to a “witch-hunt” mentality. “Most males would never do anything to harm a young woman,” Pollack told the Bloomberg reporters. But the current focus is “starting to scare the heck out of the wrong people.” college-men-now-suspicious-of-women http://washingtonexaminer.com/fallout-from-campus-sexual-assault-hysteria-college-men-now-suspicious-of-women/article/2552346 Jezebel - Stanford Student Compares Rape to Not Locking Up a Bike http://jezebel.com/stanford-student-compares-rape-to-not-locking-up-a-bike-1625154239
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"Hi Sandman, How about a video about online dating? Every woman lists the same things: she loves her kid(s) and dogs, and comes off as very negative/leary of men. Why do they put their worst foot forward? Thanks again." Well thanks for your question Zeb. As I've mentioned in videos before women imitate each other and if they hear that a certain style of online personal ad works for one of their friends then they will try the same thing on their account. But right now there's a shift in the way that online dating works. Up until a couple of years ago, online dating was predominantly done the same way it had always been done. Women would post their online ads on websites like Plenty of Fish, Ok Cupid, Lavalife, Eharmony or other similar sites and women would get hundreds of messages from guys and guys would be lucky to get one single response back from one of the dozens or hundreds of women he contacted. In such a scenario the guys would have to spend all the effort to get a connection and a chance to speak to a woman. And women would just sit back and enjoy all of the attention. What I like to call dating two point zero which came out a few years ago includes primarily Tinder and to some small extent Hot Or Not and this new way of dating means that a guy doesn't have to writes a profile and neither does a woman. They both just swipe left for the people they don't like and right for the people they do. And once again guys are effectively bombarding women with attention because most guys will close their eyes and swipe to the right so that they can increase their available pool of women. And the ugly and unattractive women will also swipe to the right for most guys, especially if they are a three or a four, or below. As an experiment, after Lui Marco said that most guys flick to the right for every single girl they see I decided I would do that on Tinder to see what type of results I could get. And sure enough I got some of the most overweight and unattractive women matching me back. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. conrado - Handsome couple dating via internet http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-14491133/stock-photo-handsome-couple-dating-via-internet 2. Pavlo Kolotenko - Happy couple looking through tablet frame http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-66152311/stock-photo-happy-couple-looking-through-tablet-frame 3. EpicStockMedia - young beautiful happy woman using a laptop computer at home http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-49787786/stock-photo-young-beautiful-happy-woman-using-a-laptop-computer-at-home 4. Rudall30 - An illustration of a couple online on computer http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-7638565/stock-photo-virtual-love 5. AndreyPopov - Person Chatting With Woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64059862/stock-photo-person-chatting-with-woman 6. BCFC - Attractive young woman working on laptop computer http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-36574453/stock-photo-attractive-young-woman-working-on-laptop-computer 7. AntonioGuillem - Arab Couple Sharing Social Media On The Smart Phone http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-70888759/stock-photo-arab-couple-sharing-social-media-on-the-smart-phone 8. Yastremska - Beautiful young woman sitting with laptop in room http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-47594323/stock-photo-beautiful-young-woman-sitting-with-laptop-in-room 9. Kletr - Love of my life - virtual reality. Internet addiction concept. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-59182703/stock-photo-love-of-my-life-virtual-reality-internet-addiction-concept 10. dolgachov - business and office concept - surprised businesswoman using her laptop computer http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-59131031/stock-photo-business-and-office-concept-surprised-businesswoman-using-her-laptop-computer
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I See Ugly Women - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eo-GDzysQ9E Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Mister T and here's what he has to say: "Hello Sandman, Oops i upset my sister. My sister said she liked the movie 'Loving Pablo' so i decided to watch it. I was expecting the story of the most successful drug lord but instead it was the story of a gold digger. I write to my sister telling her that the woman in Pablo is an excellent example of hypergamy. My sister responded by saying that she's a gold digger. I got intellectual and responded by saying that if i were cynical, I would say that what differentiates women is only the level of hypergamy they employ individually. My sister said that was bullshit. she's a woman that is involved with a married man. I told her that amongst animals, a female is willing to share a male if he has the resources. Alpha males even have several females whereas beta males have nothing. When I said this my sister called me bitter and sick and that I should study bad male behavior. I asked her why would I be bitter? I alreayd understand male behavior therefore I don't need to study them. My thinking is that when you have no argument in front of science, you just say that people are sick. My sister then asked me why do I generalize? I responded by saying that in life, there are people who can and people who can't. It is just a matter of options. this is the reason why the most beautiful women in the world are not with the most beautiful men but the ones with the most resources and social status. Sandman, am i OBSESSED because i see the truth of female nature everywhere? do i talk about it too much because i can't not react when at work people talk about wage gap or when they ask me to be a mentor for 'he for she'?" Well Mister t thanks for the donation and for sharing your story. You're right you see the truth and it sure is ugly. Most women are ugly on the inside because of female nature from a male perspective. That's why I believe that women work so hard to increase their outer beauty with makeup and clothing to cover thier inner flaws. Pay no attention to the hermaphrodite midget standing behind the velvet curtain with loose meat curtains. Instead pay attention to the shallow image I present to hide the person you would never accept. The problem is that we live in a politically correct society so you're not really allowed to bring up things that you see as being part of the ugly truth. As a man going your own way it's probably insanely difficult not to respond when people say things about the wage gap or when women insult or shame us men in general. If you stand up for yourself you don't look like you're standing up for your opinions to others. Instead you look like you're being mean to a woman. You see ugly female behavior all around you but if you call it out for what it is you either get shamed by women or they escalate your actions to the higher ups if you're in a work environment and because of that you aren't allowed to express yourself. With each passing day of being red pilled and not being able to act out on the truth that you see all around you it means you will become more bitter and spiteful. 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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Awakened While Married - MGTOW "Hi Sandman, I am in my early fifties, married for many years to my high school girlfriend. Many of the problems faced by young men now (including my own sons) we simply did not have. No history of the cock carousel makes a big difference in the specialness of a relationship. We generally follow the traditional roles that were successful for thousands of years. We have lived in a frugal way and tried to stay focused on the important things in life. But nothing is perfect. I’ve made a few notes below after viewing many of your videos and added a few observations of my own. I don’t have a specific question but would welcome your comments on my notes or another topic of your choosing. Number one: MGTOW economics: The price of poon has become too high; a large supply at a high price and a shrinking demand means that the market does not clear. MGTOW is the segment of potential poon buyers that refuses to buy at the current price. That price can be measured financially, emotionally, in life fulfilment, sanity, and self-respect. MGTOW serves a larger purpose, knowingly or not. MGTOW and the rational refusal of men to buy will eventually cause the price of poon to fall. The worst women and their useful idiot manginas now want to coerce MGTOW and others to buy at the current price. Vicious shaming tactics, and proposed unmarried man taxes are examples of this. Coercing men into yet another involuntary transaction at the cost of their lives will not work in a large system that has alternatives for red-pilled men. Eventually female behavior will change though it may require a degree of collapse and radical reform of their supporting institutions. The MGTOW trend could go to extremes: Can you imagine the response to men buying eggs from higher-quality women, completely bypassing the low-quality ones, and then raising children solo with a well-behaved robo-mom? MGTOW is right to hold a hard line. Number Two: MGTOW and your video essays have value for married people. Underlying MGTOW is a basic desire for fairness. A relationship that structurally always gives advantage to females over men is bad for both. MGTOW red pills identify quite a few female (and male) behaviours in a perceptive, blunt, and unapologetic way. I have used these observations for myself and to red pill young men around me. I want them to see the truth, make their own clear-eyed choices, and live fulfilling lives. Number three: Many of the female behaviours that you discuss fade somewhat but don’t go away. They must be managed. Shit testing and other forms of manipulation always bubble up. There are varying degrees of NAWALT, but there is no 100%er. Men in long-term marriages should expect to push back if they want to live real lives. In my own experience, men tend to settle differences with some form of negotiation, then more-or-less hold to that agreement; their inter-relationships tend to be relatively long-term and stable. Relations and agreements between men and women are far less stable and constantly tested. Men in marriages cannot simply give up, put their heads down, go into ‘yes dear’ mode for their last few decades and expect anything other than a miserable life. And playing only defence means you can only lose or draw at best. A man’s mind is indeed biochemically muddled around women, especially in emotional moments. MGTOW red pills help men recognise bad female behaviours that they would easily recognise and never accept from other males. Occasionally playing offence and deliberate push back are required to keep a long-term relationship respectful and viable. MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lw-DFGFaVUY&t=0s 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-12411395/stock-photo-elegant-man-running 2. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-149890085/stock-photo-husband-and-wife-yelling-and-arguing 3. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-107888225/stock-photo-stage-a-failed-marriage 4. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-30416606/stock-photo-nerdy-guy-escaping-from-his-girlfriend 5. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-65216152/stock-photo-young-couple-arguing 6. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-151522370/stock-photo-escape-and-fly-away-mixed-media 7. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-164269589/stock-photo-husband-and-wife-yelling-and-arguing 8. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-154852730/stock-photo-businessman-kicks-and-destroys-concrete-letters-crisis-with-confident-face-expression-to-overcome-the-crisis-do-not-to-break-down-strength-of-will-believe-in-yourself
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Women Hate Bachelors - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xujgH_C2q8 Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Mr. Anonymous and here's what he has to say: "Sandman, Could not help but think about you and MGTOW listening to the old classic song called Mr. Sandman. I think you would have some fun examining and identifying the MGTOW messages unintended by the Chordettes, yet perhaps reflective of the era and women's nature. I have never been married or engaged and as I get older, less motivation to connect my heart and soul with any woman - even if she is or professes to be a NAWALT. Soon turning 63 and I take anywhere from 3 - 8 Red Pills daily to repel any amorous thoughts. Love your high quality videos and I have decided only to listen to you since you speak calmly without vicious anger against women while you respect each MGTOW's choice. Glad you call out the fake MGTOW's and deliver excellence. Enjoy and respond how you wish." Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for the donation and in case anyone wants to hear the song they can just search for Mr. Sandman song on YouTube. As for the song and it's lyrics it's just typical fluff about Mr. Sandman bringing a woman the man of her dreams so that she's no longer lonely. She of course doesn't have to be lonely and can go out and find a guy no problem but she wants the guy to be the cutest that she's ever seen. It's just an exercise in hypergamy. She's hoping that there's a matchmaker out there that can introduce her to a man that's outside of her social circle. Remember before internet dating back in the ancient days the only places you could meet people were at school or work or social functions that you needed to get invited to. This song is just about women singing out their frustrations about there not being any good men around them. Even in the 1950s their standards were too high. As for the rest of this video I'm going to rant about why women get upset when men go their own way or become confirmed bachelors as well as the phenonmenon I've noticed where the longer I go without dating or relationships the less interest I have in going back to them ever again. The more comfortable I become being my own master and making my own decisions. The longer I spend on my own the more irritable I am when it comes to being alone and the more irritable I become around other people. Especially the ones trying to control me or tell me what to do. The side effects of going MGTOW monk include increased productivity, happiness and irritability when it comes to other people's actions. Especially women trying to control me or weasel their way into my life. I find myself increasingly only interacting with women in environments where they have to be well behaved like work environments and professional settings. When you're interacting with a female cashier, sales associate, waitress or any other hospitality job she could hate your guts and want to treat you poorly but she can't because she risks getting in trouble with her employer. For all you guys out there that still crave female validation that's probably your best bet because she has to be on her best behavior and her attitude has to be positive and uplifting because her manager is watching. You have her at an advantage when she is facilitating some sort of product of service for you. But if you see her outside her work then she can treat you as poorly as she wants and can get away with. 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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"Hi Sandman, my topic request is this: I am a widower, I was happily married to my wife of 19 years before cancer took her away. In the past three years I have learned that she may have been the only true unicorn NAWALT alive. I feel very much like Rip Van Winkle re-entering the dating environment again and have dated a significant number of borderline women. I'm wondering what your advice to men like me who have just awakened to this toxic cesspool of a dating pool. Mgtow and your channel in particular has been a great help to me in understanding female nature. The women I've met make me want to adjust my law practice to become a pro-bono divorce lawyer for men only. If I didn't make a deathbed promise to marry again one day I'd go full MGTOW and ghost my way to a nice cabin in South Dakota. keep up the good work. Hope this donation helps. Cheers!" Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for your donation and topic. I know exactly what you mean about going back to dating after a long period of time. I did it after fifteen years and I was shocked to find that the available pool of women was as bad as it was. I haven't met any women that were anywhere near as good as the dysfunctional ones I left behind in my past. That tells me all I need to know. It's like that scene from UHF from the made up television show Wheel of Fish. In that show the woman wins a tasty red snapper by spinning the wheel of fish. She has the fish and it's very tasty but she wants what's in the mystery box instead. So the host gets one of his lackies to lift the box and when he does there's absolutely nothing in the box and he calls her stupid on live television and makes her cry. That's kind of how I felt after getting out of a ten year relationship. If I hadn't gone my own way I would have felt like an idiot giving up a good thing because my ex didn't nag me and for the most part wasn't very demanding. And she wasn't mean because I think she had some serious self esteem and abandonment issues. So she didn't rock the boat all that much. But she didn't want kids and she didn't want to move forward in life the way I did so it was Adios Amiga. But returning to the dating market after almost fifteen years was a real wakeup call to me as well. If you're going to date stand your ground and don't let them get mean and nasty and try and walk all over you. That was my experience recently. Women trying to manipulate me to do what they wanted. I never fell for that before and I never will. They were straight up bullies telling me what to do and how to do it. One girl told me to shave my entire body and put on thirty pounds worth of muscle. Another one tried to trick me into getting pregnant. Both times this happened barely a couple of weeks into the relationship. There was no honeymoon period. They were instantly barking orders and I was bolting for the door. Red Flags - MGTOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMpsva2Atzg 9 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. MrCat - Fashion photo of sexy elegant couple in the tender passion http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-66993013/stock-photo-fashion-photo-of-sexy-elegant-couple-in-the-tender-passion 2. Auntieink - Couple eating at restaurant woman stuffing herself. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-3340193/stock-photo-eating-couple 3. AntonioGuillem - Man ignoring and rejecting to a stalker woman in a coffee shop http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-127183649/stock-photo-man-ignoring-and-rejecting-to-a-stalker-woman-in-a-coffee-shop 4. Fisher Photostudio - Happy valentines love story concept of a romantic couple against chalk drawings background. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-93252848/stock-photo-catch-your-destiny 5. John Takai - An cartoon image of a girl who is being rude to her date by being obsessed with taking selfies. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-96557171/stock-vector-an-cartoon-image-of-a-girl-who-is-being-rude-to-her-date-by-being-obsessed-with-taking-selfies 6. pxhidalgo - Woman holding flowers up behind mans back with hopeful expression and man expressing dismissive attitude. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-96057110/stock-photo-woman-holding-flowers-up-behind-mans-back-with-hopeful-expression-and-man-expressing-dismissive-atti 7. Stasique - Stressed woman in hair curlers preparing for a date. Pretty blond female model with hairdryer. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-120390719/stock-photo-stressed-woman-in-hair-curlers-preparing-for-a-date-pretty-blond-female-model-with-hairdryer-isolated-over-white-background 8. deagreez - Cheerful funny couple in love making selfie photo with smartphone http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-108462407/stock-photo-cheerful-funny-couple-in-love-making-selfie-photo-with-smartphone 9. Nicoleta Ionescu - Portrait of a funny girl with present box in a restaurant http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-111305090/stock-photo-surprised-beautiful-woman-holding-heart-shape-gift
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"Hi Sandman. I am looking for a second opinion as well as any input from your listeners. I am a recently separated man who was in an 8 year marriage where the sexual frequency was 10-12 times a year. This was before we had children, after which the frequency was even less, but was at least understandable. When we were intimate, she would complain that it wasn't romantic enough. This from a woman who never reads, yet devoured all 3 50 Shades books in a weekend. Before we were married she never said no, and would happily allow me to take care of my needs even if she was not into it. As soon as we were married, it was like a switch was turned off. She still refuses to acknowledge that her lack intimacy played a major role in our relationship ending and she simply stated that if I brought her flowers more I would have gotten more attention. Ironically, she claims she needs intimacy just as much as me, which I believe is just more of the "you go girl" compete with men in everything mentality. I am mid 30's, very fit,(she does not exercise) well groomed, good job, clean, help with children etc. Can you help me to decode her behavior? I don't want to change her at this point, as I am quite frankly exhausted from the lack of unfulfilled desire. It's more about wanting to observe and take notes on this bizarre behavior that I have lived with, to help others in a similar situation. I still want to be in my children's lives and the marriage may be salvageable, but I fear my needs will never be met within the relationship. Cheers!" Well Mr. Anonymous what you're experiencing is normal. What a lot of women do is use being intimate with a man as a way to gain his commitment, get him to fall in love and get married to her. After that she works on having children with him to ensure the commitment is even stronger. So long as she wants children to begin with. He also has to make sure he's a good plow horse and provider. Intimacy is the carrot and each progressive act of conquest from her relys on her using her charms to get what she wants. Each time he gives her a piece of she wants she gives him pleasure but then takes it away and prepares the next hurdle for him to jump over. Once that's done then the next thing then she cools off once again. Mr. Anonymous I'm glad you didn't buy her flowers and stood up for yourself and didn't become a simp. And in your thirties no less when a man's testosterone level drops and he starts to become aware of how women use their feminine charms to manipulate men. In my past relationships the women I was with were desperate to give me attention because they knew I could control my sexuality. They knew I could function without it and for some weird reason they felt insecure and were literally throwing their attention at me. I could see their desperation. And sometimes they wouldn't give me a choice they had to be physical with me so they could feel wanted and desired. I didn't complain because I was still young and having a good time. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. HalfPoint - Proposal Scene http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-40609444/stock-photo-proposal-scene 2. Mukhina1 - Happy couple. Man is giving flowers to a woman. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-69508384/stock-photo-happy-couple-man-is-giving-flowers-to-a-woman 3. Macrovector - Will you marry me, marriage proposal http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-62879542/stock-vector-will-you-marry-me%2C-marriage-proposal 4. dolgachov - faces of couple in spa salon lying on the massage desks http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-47577241/stock-photo-faces-of-couple-in-spa-salon-lying-on-the-massage-desks 5. RTimages - Businessman making a loser gesture with his hand http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-6379171/stock-photo-businessman-loser 6. Goodluz - Man giving flowers to woman in Paris by the Eiffel Tower http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-35756828/stock-photo-man-giving-flowers-to-woman-in-paris-by-the-eiffel-tower 7. Ocus Focus - Young Man With Blue Eyes And Tape Text Out Of Order On Forehead In Dry Empty Mind http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-78548606/stock-photo-young-man-with-blue-eyes-and-tape-text-out-of-order-on-forehead-in-dry-empty-mind 8. Marsy - Tired And Weaken Man On All Fours On Sunset http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-54094126/stock-photo-tired-and-weaken-man-on-all-fours-on-sunset
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F U Money - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yChZqCeb8iY Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Mr. Anonymous and here's what he has to say: "Sandman, I know that there’s little chance of you taking me up on this offer. Nonetheless, here we go… I’m an over 50 divorced mgtow-even after the Family court destroying my life. I own my own house and live alone by choice. During your travels, I’m offering you a place to stay completely incognito and without any obligations, except maybe a Starbucks. I live in California about 15 miles from lala land. Just one mgtow dude going his own way offering a place for a fellow mgtow dude going his own way-a place to stay. This is not a “got’cha” or insincere. Just another thankful listener. (no fatcat here) If you have any interest- we can work out the detail…" Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for the donation and offer but I'm sure you understand why I can't take it. I also hand another offer from someone named Ryan in Charleston, South Carolina offered me a place to stay as well. He even says that his last girlfriend was from Canada and that he got to experience just how awful these Canadian city bitches are. Thank you too Ryan but you must also understand why I can't take you up on the offer. If I was an ordinary video blogger and didn't have feminists and crazy women trying to destroy me I would take both of you guys up on the offer. When I first started my channel I was making a list of people and their contact info because they offered to let me stay all over the world but once my channel get over five thousand to ten thousand subscribers I knew I was wasting my time because I didn't know who I'd be meeting and where. What if I were jumped by a bunch of manginas. So with that out of the way I'd like to talk about the importance of F U Money. That's essentially the money you have that allows you to say or do whatever you want in your public life and not have to worry about losing your job or your ability to keep your lifestyle. Many people including myself were on their way to having enough F U money to say whatever we wanted until the YouTube fiasco. I pretty much used the money I earn as a videographer and photographer to pay most of my monthly expenses while trying to bank as much of the YouTube money as possible. Of course now that's changed and at this point it could be another ten to twenty years before I have enough to say or do whatever I want and show my face if I want without repercussion. 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-115026659/stock-photo-portrait-of-a-very-happy-young-man-in-a-rain-of-money 2. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-141741338/stock-vector-man-with-sunglasses-with-dollar-sign-vector-illustration-in-retro-pop-art-style-business-success-concept-rich-man-thinking-about-money 3. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-14505581/stock-photo-happy-businessman-with-bundle-of-euro-money%2C-good-business%21 4. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-167109977/stock-vector-escape-with-money-concept-vector-flat-design-success-financial-crime%2C-tax-evasion%2C-money-laundering%2C-political-corruption-illustration-smiling-man-in-mask-robber-sailing-away-on-boat-with-money 5. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-158925005/stock-vector-financial-success-businessman-with-money%2C-pop-art-retro-comic-book-illustration-lottery-and-cash-prize 6. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-161141084/stock-photo-concept-savings-with-man-s-hand-putting-money-into-piggy-bank-with-stacked-coins-on-reflective-white-glass-table-and-man-in-white-shirt-background-horizontal-composition-front-view 7. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-137102252/stock-vector-business-man-and-wads-of-money-pop-art-retro-vector-financier-accountant 8. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-180803242/stock-photo-happy-young-man-holding-piggy-bank-with-money-on-color-folding-screen-background 9. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-128250818/stock-vector-businessman-athlete-money-pop-art-retro-style-the-business-profit-finance-and-profit 10. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-179920798/stock-photo-riches-and-fortune-young-happy-man-with-a-lot-of-money-on-black-background-winning-the-lottery-concept
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Rejecting Her - MGTOW "Hey Sandman, anyways, after contemplating and hesitating, I finally decided to quit acting like a high school girl deciding which shoes to wear on prom night, and go full MGTOW. I am an 18 year old college student who is fed up with the barren wasteland known as dating. Growing up, girls always attacked me for no apparent reason. I've heard that I apparently "look like a paedophile", I'm "not that good looking", and other insults from girls in middle school. After not only these constant put downs from girls, but constant rejections, I decided it wasn't worth it trying to find a worthwhile female. I've told female friends that I don't plan on getting married or having kids because of my abysmal past with women, and as usual, I am met with the usual "not all woman are like that" or "you just haven't found the right one". I've even had a female get mad at be because I didn't want a relationship with her, and after explaining why, she flips out and repeats over and over again "I'm not like them though, I wouldn't hurt you." Fast forward to now, I have no desire to dating or woman. I see my male friends in relationships and living with their girlfriends in college (the best four years of your life). I have completely focused on me. I play football, wrestle, and kick box. As an athlete on the rise, and considering my track record with bitchy woman, I know it take one salty woman who's angry that I dare not settle down with her to falsely accuse me of rape to kill my career before it even starts. Could you do a video for fellow athletes like me and bitchy woman ruining careers. Thanks in advance." Well David thanks for the donation and topic. I'm going to discuss women chasing athletic men and trying to ruin their careers but first I want to talk about the general rejection when men tell women No! That's a word women expect men to respect when they say it but when a man says No far too often the woman keeps coming after you and refuses to take no for an answer. It's a double standard. As for male athletes think about peacock feathers. A man's muscles are like his peacock feathers and when women see him perform on a sports field with those feathers it's a mating display ritual they can't resist. You've learned the secret that it's not worth it finding a so called worthwhile female. It's much easier if they come to you. But that's the thing I've never been approached by worthwhile women on the damaged and crazy variety. The secret is you don't go looking for them when you have what they want they seek you out. You found that with the woman that was interest in you and you told her that you weren't interested, most likely because you weren't attracted to her. Her fragile little ego probably couldn't deal with that so instead she started shaming you and indirectly saying that you're afraid of being hurt or that she's different than other women. MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PX50Y4GQaZs&feature=youtu.be 9 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-147112001/stock-photo-woman-confess-love-to-man-on-bench-in-park 2. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64915633/stock-photo-unhappy-couple-on-bed 3. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-145162595/stock-photo-teenager-couple-breaking-up-the-angry-boyfriend-leaves-his-sad-girlfriend 4. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-143188388/stock-photo-close-up-of-depressed-young-woman-in-front-of-couple-embracing-each-other 5. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-135814643/stock-photo-serious-man-and-crazy-woman-holds-red-hearts-over-eyes 6. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-148098953/stock-photo-young-couple-lying-in-bed%2C-having-conflict-problem%2C-sad-negative-emotions-unhappy-hispanic-man-and-woman-lovers-in-bedroom 7. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-121764125/stock-photo-unhappy-woman-sitting-at-bar-counter-and-couple-dancing-behind-her-in-bar 8. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-147624728/stock-photo-female-shows-stop-sign-by-her-hand 9. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-138975893/stock-photo-loving-couple-playing-on-date-by-sea-coast
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In this video I discuss how the Matrix Trilogy proves that there is love between the two main characters defined as chemically induced irrational altruism on the part of Neo and Trinity. I also discuss the films Brazil and Donnie Darko.
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A massive ice storm knocked out power in my city. As the power disappeared so did the women. They were all inside huddled by candlelight waiting for the internet to come back on so they could continue gossiping on Facebook. This is my Christmas experience without women.
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"Hi Sandman, I'm a 16 year old red pill guy from Norway that has never gotten any MGTOW "field experience" and i'm quite sure that other younger MGTOW's have not really felt the manipulation and lies from women. So i was wondering if this is a topic that's good enough for a video? If not, you can combine it another topic or a topic of your own choice. -Eivind Ps: In many of your videos you come with examples, but i personally think these are quite broad and would like some examples that are more specific. Example What did she say/do/act/whatever when she lied, manipulated or whatever she did. All in all I want more specific examples." Well Eivind thanks for your donation. I thought I'd go back to the days of my teenage love phase to give all you young chaps out there my experience back in the nineties and beyond. This will give you guys some back story before I started noticing girls and women's lies, manipulations and whatever else they were trying to do. I didn't really get attracted to girls until I was in the ninth grade. I guess you can call me a late bloomer or something. The first crush I had in the ninth grade and so was my second and third and fourth and fifth. By the end of the ninth grade I had a crush on more then half the girls in my class. But that first crush I got rejected by she got her friends to tell me she wasn't interested. And that's perfectly fine except I learned that women are cowards when telling a guy they aren't interested. Usually they ignore you if there is no interest. But if you don't get the message then they send you a note or get one of their friends to tell you go away if you don't get the hint. They don't want or handle confrontation well. I get the feeling that many women could be better at telling you they aren't interested once you make the first move. But they milk the attention from you because they enjoy the attention but they just don't want to give you anything in return. They manipulate you by keeping you in the dark about the friend zone which happened to me all the time in the ninth grade. That's just their nature. Attention is like pizza for girls. Even when it's bad it's still good. So after the ninth grade was over I went away for the summer and came back with some muscle on my bones. The first week of school I felt for first time what I would classify as love or infatuation. I met a girl and couldn't stop thinking about her. She was stuck in my mind all the time and she reciprocated my attention. Everything before that was purely sexual and lustful desire. If I see a picture of her today the same emotions rush back. But she was messing with me because she was pretending as though she had a crush on another guy at the same time. She liked the fact that we were getting angry at each other for her attention. He was getting more angry then I was. Women love having a crush on one guy and then trying to see if he's willing to fight for her by putting another guy in the way. And the guys get angry with each other for her attention instead of shaking hands and saying hey buddy if she's doing this to both of us now just imagine what she's going to do to the guy that wins? The first time I met her she wore a tight top and great jeans and looked like she an angel with a halo around her. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Zinkevych - Portrait of funny mime couple with white faces and emotions isol http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-71880826/stock-photo-portrait-of-funny-mime-couple-with-white-faces-and-emotions-isol 2. Ashrafov - Young Couple Watching A Movie On Tv. The Guy Is Interested, While The Girl Is Bored http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-18279995/stock-photo-young-couple-watching-a-movie-on-tv-the-guy-is-interested%2C-while-the-girl-is-bored 3. Sangoiri - Love And Hate http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-78063833/stock-photo-love-and-hate 4. dolgachov - happy friends watching horror movie in theater http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-114548642/stock-photo-happy-friends-watching-horror-movie-in-theater 5. logoboom - Mr. Dead On Vacation With Two Girlfriends http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-1876758/stock-photo-mr-dead-on-vacation-with-two-girlfriends 6. logoboom - Relationship http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-12555107/stock-photo-relationship 7. korionov - Double Portrait Mimes With Green Eyes http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-7631082/stock-photo-double-portrait-mimes-with-green-eyes 8. Micha Klootwijk - Women Eye, Close-up http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-106222565/stock-photo-women-eye%2C-close-up 9. Creatista - Hippies With Peace Sign http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-22953545/stock-photo-hippies-with-peace-sign 10. Creatista - Modest Clown Dismissing Admirerer http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-72723379/stock-photo-modest-clown-dismissing-admirerer
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Nikola Tesla invented the modern electrical system and the radio and remote control. But he was also a MGTOW and never married. He didn't want to be with women that were behaving like men. And so he stayed single his entire life, living in a state of intellectually induced asexuality.
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"Hi Sandman, You made a video for me called Dark Knights, about being a champion. What you had to say was interesting and I couldn't predict your answer, so that hit me with a lot of food for thought. I still think it's important to be successful in life, with yourself, not a basement dweller in your parent's house. The more "points" in life you can score, via hobbies, muscles, money, sex, the happier you'll be. I guess that's what I meant by champion, starting to look more at external measures as a proxy for "inner-truth", let's say. I didn't mean the 'apex alpha', like Trump or Putin or Schwarzenegger, but I used examples of people who were like that for illustration and motivation purposes. Dan Pena is a new one I found. He wants us to keep raising our standards and push ourselves and do and be our best every day- not that complicated. So many people in life seem to have no ambition, no drive. Even when I was completely lost in life- and I really was- I still had that drive inside of me. I don't understand why more people don't want to be winners, lose weight, etc? What's interesting though, is that I get the sense that a lot of self-identified mgtows are more successful than the average joe. I think we are the higher earners, getting lots of casual sex. Your listeners debate with PUAs in the comments and they're like- "pwah, women are easy. We still have sex [while being ourselves]. We have active sex lives" Well I find that amazing. I mean if that's true and is attributable to the MGTOW philosophy, who indeed would need PUA? If everyone was healthy, who would need a doctor? It's not intentional, but it almost feels like this fact of natural success with women is being rubbed in the sorry PUAs face, who either gets no women or gets women by wearing a mask. The whole PUA industry in that sense is a sham industry. MGTOW doesn't advertise that the men here make more money, and get more women than the average joe, or achieve a higher level of success, which I think is true judging by comments, though I could be wrong? If they did, it would probably attract more people but corrupt the movement, being it's the exact opposite of what it's about. It's in essence about non-attachment, both psychological as well as legal- in essence, it's like Buddhism, applied to family and relationships. It's strange though how women are attracted to indifference. It's a mind game, it's a catch-22. I don't understand mind-games. I am not a pussy but I do have a simple mind. Funny scene from Up.In.The.Air :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRKQCQVGOcI Up in the Air (2009) racist / stereotype scene https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_uNPpFZLelE 9 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. evgeny atamanenko - alone thoughtful sadness girl is sad at the window http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85276544/stock-photo-thoughtful-sadness-girl-is-sad-at-window 2. Eugene Sergeev - Young man stands in dark tunnel and looks in the glowing end http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-72252532/stock-photo-young-man-stands-in-dark-tunnel-and-looks-in-the-glowing-end 3. Kamira - Monochrome portrait of a sad and lonely girl (with space for text) http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-93270377/stock-photo-monochrome-portrait-of-a-sad-and-lonely-girl-%28with-space-for-text%29 4. Nyul - Young addicted man with a bottle of whiskey. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-100824920/stock-photo-young-addicted-man-with-a-bottle-of-whiskey 5. AntonioGuillem - Sad woman silhouette worried on the beach at sunset with the sun in the background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85984169/stock-photo-sad-woman-silhouette-worried-on-the-beach 6. FotoMaximum - Lonely women with outstretched hand. In the glass. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-130179254/stock-photo-lonely-women-with-outstretched-hand-in-the-glass 7. dolgachov - people, loneliness, alcohol and lifestyle concept - unhappy single young man in hat drinking beer at bar or pub http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-124496765/stock-photo-people%2C-loneliness%2C-alcohol-and-lifestyle-concept-unhappy-single-young-man-in-hat-drinking-beer-at-bar-or-pub 8. l i g h t p o e t - Young woman suffering from a severe depression/anxiety http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-79492342/stock-photo-young-woman-suffering-from-a-severe-depression-anxiety-%28color-toned-image%3B-double-exposure-technique-is-used-to-convey-the-mood-of-unease%2C-progression-of-the-anxiety-depression%29 9. IfH - illustation of jumping man silhouette in front of beach sunset http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-112911320/stock-vector-picture-of-sunshine
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After putting out yesterday's video on the magic wallet maneuver someone posted in the comments section and said that by using the magic wallet men are just as bad as women because that's our version of the shit test on them. Women put men through shit tests to see what they can get away with and how big of a push over a man really is. Men on the other hand put women through them for a different reason and it has to do with trust. Most blue pill men still believe that women can be trusted so male shit tests are all about testing that trust. He wants to know that he can trust her with secrets, money and the fact that she won't cheat on him. One guy once told me a story about how when he worked as a contractor people would always test his trust. They would clear out all the furniture from a room before it need to be painted or the floor had to be sanded. But one time he noticed that a would always notice that people would always leave a quarter or in Canada a one dollar coin on the ground clearly there as a shit test. Contractors are notorious for stealing money but this guy was honest. So one time he went to a clients house and found a one dollar coin on the ground and instead of picking it up he reached into his pocket and pulled out a one dollar coin and put it next to the other one dollar coin and finished up shop for the day. The next day he returned to painting and both one dollar coins were gone and in their place was a two dollar coin. So he bent down and put a two dollar coin next to the other two dollar coin. The next day he comes back and the two two dollar coins were gone. And in their place was a five dollar bill. So he drops a five dollar bill and adds a quarter as well to raise the bet so to speak. Later on the person who hired him said he was one of the most interesting people he had ever met. And the two of them built trust through humor and the ongoing joke that took four days to play out. The whole thing was a shit test between two men. But in some ways it was kind of a shit test based on trust. And men shit test women so they can see if they are trustworthy. And women shit test men to see the strength of their emotional resolve. Women want strong men so that don't fold like a cheap suitcase and can continue providing for themselves and their children even when the pressure is on. That seems to be the case many times.
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"Hi Sandman, I was wondering if all zeta males are MGTOWS or are all MGTOWS Zeta males. It seems to me that all that is required to become a MGTOW is to declare yourself as one, but I am sure that cannot be true because I am sure there are many falsely declared MGTOW. Love your YouTube videos, but my wife tells me that MGTOWS are a group of women hater males. I am sure I'm not the only one in this situation. But from my perspective, I am loving what you have to say. Thanks for your questions Stan. For everyone out there that doesn't understand the concept of Alpha, Beta, Omega and Zeta males let me explain it briefly. Alpha attract women based on charisma, beauty and behavior and betas attract women based on resource extraction and utility. Omega males live in their mothers basement and are working flux capacitors and other innovative technologies. A zeta male is against the status quo and doesn't fall into those categories. He doesn't buy into consumerism, traditional masculinity, beta male provider-ship or falling into his mothers basement. The Zeta male is that he's a fusion of the best elements of the Alpha, Beta and Omega males. So if you're charismatic, full of self confidence and are also good at producing wealth for yourself and have the creative early adopter skills of a omega male then you are a zeta male. I tried to be a zeta male in every aspect of my lifestyle in my early to mid twenties except for the idea of having a female partner as well as building financial assets and wealth. Those are the two status quo behaviors that I followed. I escaped a traditional job, wasn't forced to socialize with worker drones. I could travel and pursue what interested me and had more free time then everyone around me. I didn't have a schedule and stayed up every night and still do every night and see the sun rise. I also wasn't a provider but worked with my ex-girlfriend together in a business. I believed in true equality and expected her to pull her weight. And it worked perfectly for a couple of years. But then the butterfly that was her turned into a caterpillar. I was in a long-term co-habitation relationship. I thought she shared the same values as me. But after a few years she couldn't keep the chameleon act up and started changing. At that point she wanted me to go from Zeta to Beta and I bailed. I wasn't a MGTOW by the standard definition because I was living with her. So in that case I was a Zeta but not a MGTOW. The last few years on the other hand I've been alone so I have been a zeta and a MGTOW. That being said there are many MGTOW men out there that aren't Zeta males. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Rawpixel - Strong Powerful Business Superhero Cityscape Concepts http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-79432648/stock-photo-strong-powerful-business-superhero-cityscape-concepts 2. Rudall30 - Silhouette illustration of a superhero standing with mountain view as the background http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-74972977/stock-photo-superhero 3. breaker213 - Comic character in glasses slider art illustration. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-74290018/stock-photo-comic-character 4. Rawpixel - Strong Powerful Business Superhero Concepts http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-75854630/stock-photo-strong-powerful-business-superhero-concepts 5. Rawpixel - Asian Superhero Businessmen in Hong Kong http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-62233565/stock-photo-asian-superhero-businessmen-in-hong-kong 6. ArtOfPhoto - Muscle Man Looking Up Into Bright Overhead Light http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-72949891/stock-photo-muscle-man-looking-up-into-bright-overhead-light 7. Artisticco LLC - A vector illustration of a superhero boy in the city http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-26708471/stock-vector-superhero 8. stokkete - Succesful Businessman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-61422854/stock-photo-succesful-businessman 9. Sergey Nivens - Young man in superhero costume reading book http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-76109534/stock-photo-young-man-in-superhero-costume-reading-book 10. Rawpixel - Superhero businessmen. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-65025442/stock-photo-superhero-businessmen
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We've often heard that 80% of the women chase after 20% of the men. That is the 80/20 rule. If you can put yourself into that group of men then you'll have women approaching you and hanging around waiting for you to ask them out. When I was in high school and in my early twenties this is the situation that I faced. Women would just hanging around sitting next to me in my classrooms or making themselves available when I was working. Back then it was easy to be part of that 20% of desirable males. All you have to do was dress in a stylish way, look cute, workout and not make a fool of yourself. If you had a vehicle even if you borrowed it from your dad you were set. When I got out of my last long-term relationship the game has completely changed because I had stopped working out 10 years ago and I wasn't as stylish or cute as I had once been. In addition women we're chasing men that had a lot of money and security. I saw that I had lost my rank in that 80/20 hierarchy. When I went my own way I realized that if I were to body build again and work on my image it would take away valuable time that I could be using for personal development. On top of that pursuing a long-term relationship was out of the question so I had to find another way to use my time.The 80-20 rule is nothing more then a male competition to have access two females for reproduction. The main problem with this is that today most women are there on birth control or men use condoms so all of your efforts to pass on your genes or a complete waste of time. Sure you get to have a lot of sex but the risks false allegations, STDs and emotional abuse you have to take in a relationship are simply not worth it. Once you realize this that's when you can finally live for yourself and let other men deal with the Temptations of the Modern Woman. Most of you out there have never been in that group of desirable males and you assume that it's a great thing. But what you don't understand is that just because girls are attracted to you doesn't mean that the girls you want are coming up to you and trying to get your attention. For some reason the most unattractive women hit on the best looking guys. They probably figure but they have nothing to lose so they go for it. And if you're in this upper tier of men you're constantly having to turn nasty women away. Just when you think you've gotten rid of one of them another three show up. They might be fat or have a face that only a mother could have created by throwing them down the stairs as infants.The women that you actually want to date you still have to approach and work at it. 80% females go for top 20% of males https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1skgiq/80_females_go_for_top_20_of_males/ MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nhz9PCbnkkQ&feature=youtu.be 9 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. stokkete - Adolescents at the park relaxing one is reading a book a guy is using a laptop and a girl is using a digital tablet http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-138422276/stock-photo-adolescents-at-the-park-reading-and-connecting 2. Paha_L - MOSCOW - JUL 09, 2015: Portrait of a crew of three beautiful flight attendants in red hat and one steward at DME RUNVAY in Domodedovo http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-112362305/stock-photo-moscow-jul-09%2C-2015%3A-portrait-of-a-crew-of-three-beautiful-flight-attendants-in-red-hat-and-one-steward-at-dme-runvay-in-domodedovo 3. jovanmandic - Three friends taking a selfie outdoors on sunny summer day. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-141583100/stock-photo-three-friends-taking-a-selfie-outdoors-on-sunny-summer-day 4. Nosnibor137 - Full length of four multi ethnic businessmen playing tug of war against one woman in desert http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-41895013/stock-photo-full-length-of-four-multi-ethnic-businessmen-playing-tug-of-war-against-one-woman-in-desert 5. AntiKsu - Business a team of five people with the man the leader at the head. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-6003162/stock-photo-happy-business-team-in-line 6. pressmaster - Portrait of happy girl between two guys lying on sand on summer vacation http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-8800078/stock-photo-row-of-friends 7. alexey05 - One man and four women http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-26379377/stock-photo-one-man-and-four-women 8. boggy - View at the group of four people in a hot tub ** Note: Shallow depth of field http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-53187502/stock-photo-young-people-in-the-hot-tub 9. Malsveta - Young happy Friends running on green wheat field. One guy and two girls are jumping having fun. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-132385169/stock-photo-young-happy-friends-running-on-green-wheat-field
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Why Feminists Hate MGTOW "Hello Sandman. My name is Chris and although I am somewhat new to MGTOW I have been living a MGTOW lifestyle for some time now. What puzzles me most about our opponents are those who should be supportive, especially the militant feminists. I am talking about the "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" types that are essentially WGTOWs. And of course many of these are lesbians. I do not understand why they would be critical of the MGTOW movement, which is basically what they have been demanding for decades. What are your thoughts? Thank you, sir! All the best." Well Chris thanks for the donation and topic. Feminists and women in general tell society what they want from us men but when we give it to them exactly the way that they want it they get angry. You've noticed this and it doesn't make any rational sense to you because when you ask a woman for something you ask for what you want and you don't ask her for one thing and hope that she gives you a different thing. When feminists say they want equality they don't really want equality. What they really want is for men to listen to their request and challenge them. They are looking for an entertaining social struggle between men and women. So when a woman wants creepy men to leave her alone and only the good looking guys to contact her that's not exactly what she wants. She still wants the creepy betas to talk to her so she can put them in the friend zone and use them financially, emotionally or in other ways. In theory feminists that say they want equality between men and women should be ecstatic about men going their own way. Finally men that treat women equally and ignore them like women generally ignore men. But unfortunately they want equality of outcomes and not equality of responsibility. The only way to have an equality of outcome is to get the men to work harder than they normally would and provide for women. Men have to take on greater amounts of responsibility while providing a larger and larger share of the spoils to women.So now that men have figured this out and are walking away the women promoting equality are stuck between a tampon and a hard place. If they tell men sorry we don't want you to go because we need you to do more than your fair share andhand us over half the riches or even more in society then men will see that we are being used. But if women say they are for equality and men treat them truly equal and more men go their own way than women aren't happy about that. The feminists and opponents to MGTOW are not supportive because if they were than men going their own way would gain social validation from women and our numbers would grow and grow. Thus women would have less and less willing parasites to take what they need from. MGTOW Mystery Link: https://vimeo.com/174894236 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All images are shown below in the order they appear. 1. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-84608960/stock-photo-portrait-business-woman-screaming-at-street-car-traffic 2. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-172887668/stock-photo-portrait-of-an-african-american-woman-with-hands-on-the-head-with-a-angry-face 3. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-172847744/stock-photo-young-woman-showing-middle-fingers-on-a-gray-background 4. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-154717829/stock-photo-woman-face-upset-unhappy-expression-concept 5. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-172403510/stock-photo-portrait-young-attractive-latin-woman-desperate-and-scared-terrorized-at-cinema-hall-watching-horror-movie-looking-horrified-in-panic-screaming-in-primal-fear-emotion-face-expression 6. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-172719866/stock-photo-beautiful-woman-with-retro-microphone 7. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-172091000/stock-photo-screaming-zombie-bride%2C-night-city-on-background 8. https://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-171906164/stock-photo-young-angry-and-frustrated-maid-service-woman-or-upset-housewife-with-hair-rollers-cleaning-gloves-holding-vacuum-cleaner-stressed-in-housework-and-housekeeping-stress-concept
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She Flushed Me Down The Toilet - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0QrI-cW_as Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Mr. Anonymous and here's what he has to say: "Hey Sandman, Lately I’ve noticed a lot of your vids are from guys sharing their stories, situations, and experiences that led them to finding mgtow and taking he red pill. It gave me an idea for your channel. Maybe you could set up a category/playlist entitled “red pill confessions” and place those kinds of videos whenever you get them into it. But moving on, I wanted to give you my red pill confession and tell you and everyone else about what turned me to the red side. About 9 years ago I met a women who is now currently my ex fiancé. At the time when I first met her, I knew nothing about mgtow or the red pill and I was kind of a blue pill beta male simp. I had been in many relationships prior and each one ended in failure and the failure came from the women’s end of the relationship. When I met my now current ex fiancé I thought I had met a one of a kind amazing women (boy was I wrong). The first few years everything was great! We were living together, and even working together to make a great future for ourselves. The relationship was fun and amazing. We were traveling and experiencing new and exciting things that we had never done before. We were madly in love and I loved her more than she could’ve ever known. At that point in the relationship I thought this was the one for me. After about 4 years into the relationship. Things started to get very strange. She wanted more and more materialistic things and what I now know but didn’t know at the time, she wanted more status. She already had a good job but I on the other hand was still in the middle of getting my career at the time off the ground. Her solution to getting this status and material items she wanted was that I work harder. She even began shaming me to her family and friends whenever i was around and could hear it to get me to do so. So being the good little blue pill simp that I was at the time. I did exactly that. I began working 3 jobs. I was working so much that at times I wasn’t even able to come home, I had to sleep in my car and shower and what not at my gym in between jobs. With what time I was able to spend at home with her, she then began nagging me and saying that I’m not spending enough time with her and she even went on to accusing me of cheating. The one thing she wasn’t complaining about however was all the money she was spending that was coming from me being a good little plow horse for her. The intimacy even began slowly but surely going away from the relationship. She would always tell me she was to tired or not in the mood. Soon after all this, I landed a really great job in my career field. I started making way more money than her and also had more time to spend with her. I thought this would solve all the problems we were having. Yet again I was wrong. 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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Today I'd like to talk about the coming collapse. The collapse is not going to happen because of some breakdown in order due to the banking system or politics. It will happen because the cheap and easy energy that we use in our economy will become scarce. I've been studying Peak Oil since 2004. I've also lived in two countries as a teenager that had lost much of the their oil supply. After the Soviet Union collapsed I visited Cuba for an entire month with my family. Cuba had lost about 15% of it's oil imports because they were cut off from Soviet oil imports after the collapse of Communism in Eastern Europe. People were thin as toothpicks and food was expensive and scarce unless you were a tourist from another country. I remember my father having his life threatened by a local Cuban man for a pair of pants. The situation had become so dire that locals were resorting to the threat of violence. In 1996 I also I spent the entire summer in former Yugoslavia where 55% of the gasoline that would normally enter the country was gone due to international embargoes. I watched as gasoline gangsters sold bootleg petrol on street corners and I visited the Danube river where I saw petroleum pirates smuggle fuel across the river. (All Photography and Sound Recording and Design by Sandman)
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"Hello Sandman, Have you ever come across a woman who only saw you as a potential? You're trying your best to make it out here in this harsh world. For example, getting a job, a degree, or opening a business. Things are slow, not much cash is coming in and you might be in a bit of debt, but you are making a genuine effort to make yourself a better person, and you have made small successes along the way. A large part of you is hoping that she would be by your side when you build your empire, stick with you during the thick and thin. You will reward her for sticking with you during the good and especially, the bad times. You believe in free will, so you are not manipulating her at all to be with you. You're hoping that she will accept you for who you are and not what you have. She likes you more than a friend, and you know it. But because you are just "potential" you are not given a chance to reach relationship status. You are in a "grey area" or the friend-zone. She keeps you there, and if things go on the upswing (aka upward mobility), she has one foot already through the door since you both are friends, and only then she gives you a chance. In the meanwhile, she will give others a chance. She may give you legitimate or bullshit reasons but never the REAL reason... which is... you are just potential. You haven't reached her desired "intelligence", or "status", or "income bracket". She may be getting older and her biological clock is ticking, but since you are starting off or starting over, she can't wait. Whatever her reason is, you are a risk and she eventually gives up on you then goes on to give someone else a chance... probably an easier one at that. You're hurt because you know in your heart that the things you would do for her, you realize the hard way she may not do it for you. Did an incident like this ever happen to you Sandman? I would be reading the comment section since I am sure this has happened to many MGTOWs. Have a great day, and cheers! You're absolutely right about this situation. I know one woman in her mid-twenties that's not interested in having a relationship. She's more interested in making hundreds if not thousands of friends. When I first showed interest in her she said that we are just friends. But a couple of years later when my life was very different her attitude had seemingly changed. But for me something didn't feel right. I was already firmly entrenched in going my own way. And I thought to myself why is she giving me a chance now instead of just pointing me to one of her other friends and saying that I should just chase them instead? I was put in a situation where I was shall we say encouraged to make the first move affection wise. So I looked into her eyes and prepared to make a move but instead of feeling a strong emotional desire like I did before something had soured the milk. I didn't know what it was at that time but you pretty much nailed it Mr. Anonymous by saying that I was nothing more then potential. I had just proven my worth by showing her that I was a good utility that could make a lot of money. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. dolgachov - magic, performance, circus, show concept - magician in top hat showing trick http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-106391411/stock-photo-magic%2C-performance%2C-circus%2C-show-concept-magician-in-top-hat-showing-trick 2. PHOTOCREO Michal Bednarek - Man pushing a giant, heavy stone, rock over the mountain. Conceptual, struggle, difficult task. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-84750416/stock-photo-man-pushing-a-giant%2C-heavy-stone%2C-rock-over-the-mountain-conceptual%2C-struggle%2C-difficult-task 3. VasilkovS - Very busy office man working hard by eight hands http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-68153122/stock-vector-very-busy-office-man-working-hard-by-eight-hands 4. olly2 - young businessman pedaling a bicycle on the rocks http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-53510062/stock-photo-young-businessman-pedaling-a-bicycle-on-the-rocks 5. luckybusiness - magician from leading his performance http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-105974489/stock-photo-magician-from-leading-his-performance 6. studiostoks - Writer editor journalist academic thesis paper laptop http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-108844040/stock-vector-writer-editor-journalist-academic-thesis-paper-laptop 7. etoileark - Businesspeople Competing http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-111076664/stock-vector-businesspeople-competing 8. Rawpixel.com - Superhero Costume Businessman Cityscape Concept http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-105567683/stock-photo-superhero-costume-businessman-cityscape-concept 9. Max Somma - a concentrated magician projecting his magic powers http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-29297282/stock-vector-magician 10. gstockstudio - Hidden Possibilities. http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-80073719/stock-photo-hidden-possibilities
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Her True Colors - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.facebook.com/iDivaonFB/videos/10155585916043559/ Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from the Shoveler and here's what he has to say: "Hello Sandman, In short, I have had several long term relationships including two marriages, and all ended badly for me both emotionally and financially. The final long term relationship for me ended about 7 years ago. One pattern that made me very angry was I was always treated like a big hero when I was paying for things and white knighting, but in times when I needed help, lost a job, or hit a rough patch, the same women would call me a villain and cut me loose. I would sink into poverty alone while they quickly monkey branched to the next guy who had money. If I complained or got angry they'd say I was controlling and that I had no right to be upset with them. During my last poverty period I questioned these patterns and discovered MGTOW. I learned that many other men are experiencing the same problems with Western Women, and even with non-Western Women. I would take women out on dates, but being unable to spend much, dating was inexpensive. I would take them for coffee, maybe to a fast food place... often dates were dutch. But I noticed a pattern. I would get 1-3 dates then the women would suddenly stop replying to me, or reply late and apologize for not getting my message on time. I started to push the issue a bit, by asking these women in person why they stopped dating me but they wouldn't tell me, although I knew. Many were friends on social media, and I saw the type of men they were interested in and almost all of them had money. Some of the guys the women picked were nice guys with money... some were kind of mean but had money. The one factor that seemed constant was they had money. My financial and career situation has taken an extremely great turn for the better in the last few years. But, out of habit and also in prudence I decided to keep dating poor. Although I have money to spend on fancy dinners in steak houses, or to buy fancy drinks in classy bars... I still take dates to cheap fast food places, or for a coffee and doughnut. 90% of the time the women stop replying to messages and turn down offers to go out on dates with me. The difference today is I am not actually poor, but the women don't know that I have money. Many men and some women who are friends and know that I am doing this think I am stupid. I get a lot of comments about how I will never get laid or find love being so cheap. 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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"Hi Sandman, I recently got turned on to your MGTOW videos and I'm hooked. You have opened my eyes to the maniacal and diabolical ways of women in ways that I cannot describe. Thank you! I would like for you to discuss this article that I've attached, entitled, "Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don't Want You Anymore." It was written in April 2014, but it's still relevant today, and definitely has a profound MGTOW message. Thanks again for all you do." Well Black Crow thanks for the donation and article. I've put the link in the description so everyone knows what the hell I'm talking about. Anyways I just want to clear something up before I analyze this article about so called nice guys turning down women. When women say they want nice guys they don't mean guys that treat them well. They mean guys that looks nice and is sexy and has money. That's what they mean by nice. So many guys tell me but I was a nice guy and took her to dinner, bought her flowers and assembled her Ikea furniture. That's not a nice guy, that's a damn fool. I'll tell you what a nice guy would do in that situation. He'd take her out to dinner, force her to pay for half take the receipt and claim it as a tax write off for his business. And still go home with her and get her in the sack. Why is he a nice guy you ask? Because he turns her on physically and is her soul mate because he treats her the way that she would treat a man. She would use him and insult him so when he does this to her it just makes sense. The bad boy insults a woman and still gets her. The nice guy is weeny begging for it and nothing turns women off like a needy man. This article is mostly talk from blue pill men that are just dying to become provider mules for women. At least they were until they had the idea that they were the prize and not her. For that I have to applaud the author Leo Steven for. But he only gets it half right. Here's a short section of the article from the point of view of a nice guy so you be the judge and I quote: "I was wonderful to you, I was a gentleman. I treated you with respect, like a lady deserves to be treated. I enjoyed your company and you had my full attention. I didn’t expect anything in return except a chance to win your heart. I’m stable, I’m a good provider, I want marriage and kids in my future. I’m the man of your dreams, but you couldn’t see that. Or maybe you just didn’t care. You were pretty preoccupied with your texting. But now you’re ready to date me? Really? You’ll excuse me if I’m not jumping for joy. You’ve dissed me, rejected me, took advantage of me, dodged my goodnight kiss and couldn’t wait to get away from me. Now suddenly you want me? Sorry, I’m not buying it. In your twenties you barely gave me the time of day. Meanwhile you were jumping in bed with any guy with a neck tattoo or a prison record. Why would I date you?" So there you have it folks a blue pill man realizing that the woman was not worth the squeeze in her thirties and is now a sour lemon compared to the sweet nectarine she used to be in her twenties. She didn't give you the best years of her life but now she expects the best years of your life. Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don't Want You Anymore http://thoughtcatalog.com/leo-steven/2014/04/dear-girls-who-are-finally-ready-to-date-nice-guys-we-dont-want-you-anymore/ 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. rdrgraphe - bad boy with a black leather jacket http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-78260768/stock-photo-bad-boy 2. alphaspirit - Boy leader of a gang of slum http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-90431090/stock-photo-gang-leader 3. Ulianna - School Boy In Businessman Suit http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-82531394/stock-photo-school-boy-in-businessman-suit 4. studiostoks - Spam phone bad call business communications businessman work http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-100888982/stock-vector-spam-phone-bad-call-business-communications-businessman-work 5. Duplass - Angry Young Black Adult Male with Handguns http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-47893733/stock-photo-angry-young-black-adult-male-with-handguns 6. olly2 - Fighting Hard http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-55053821/stock-photo-fighting-hard 7. olly2 - portrait of young man grimacing http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-45695347/stock-photo-portrait-of-young-man-grimacing 8. Minerva Studio - Man listening to the angel and devil self to make a choice http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-77225522/stock-photo-man-listening-to-the-angel-and-devil-self-to-make-a-choice 9. Luna Vandoorne - Young handsome problematic boy looking up http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-28365125/stock-photo-young-handsome-problematic-boy-looking-up 10. rdrgraphe - the victory - handsome bad boy http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-103485341/stock-photo-the-victory-handsome-bad-boy
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"Hi Sandman, Yeah, I guess we have a hard time understanding how evolution f--ed up so badly that it created a group of men who don't want to reproduce. Don't blame society, there have been times in history when raising a family was much more difficult and men still did it. Your kind has some sort of disgust towards women which is simply unnatural. The course of evolution has designed us to want to live and reproduce. You don't seem to have that urge, or else you are desperately trying to repress it. Just as feminism will disappear as they all die without having children, the same will happen to the MGTOW movement. You don't have children, and I doubt many MGTOWs come from the monogamous family structure that you reject, as monogamous families tend to be happier and more well balanced. When you and your followers are long dead, there will be hardly any men that share your paralyzing fear of being "owned" by women and losing their status as "free wild stallions." I also find it funny that you mention having good intentions in a relationship only to be deceived by a woman, and then believing that you had discovered the dark secret of the true nature of women. I'll tell you a personal story. Not so long ago I entered a relationship with a young man I knew, and we dated for almost three months. Even in that very small amount of time, I began to care for him immensely. I can honestly say that I had no intention of manipulating him, or cheating him, or any other evil thing that you imagine women doing to their partners. I really loved him. The intense feelings of protectiveness and nurturing that I felt for him were overwhelming and created a withdrawal that distracted me in class. Without making this too long, I felt like caring for him and sharing my body and soul with him were the best things in my life. I was incredibly naive, because it turned out that he was using me. While I was worried about making him happy, he was not emotionally attached to me at all. I quickly noticed that he would never share any of his thoughts with me, but just use me physically. He seemed to avoid me in public and ignored me in the presence of his friends. He never answered texts and would cancel plans at the last minute. In the beginning, we spoke 75% of the time and were physically intimate 25% of the time we were together. Two months later, we spoke 10% of the time, excluding logistical and practical dialogues, and were physically intimate 90% of the time we were together. Basically, he was treating me as if I were a stupid whore, and it was clear that he went into the relationship with a certain agenda that he concealed from me by pretending to care about my feelings and opinions. He wasted my time for months, instead of simply being honest. But what I want you to gather from this story is that I did not react like you did. If I were like you, I would have become bitter and decided that all men are inconsiderate dogs who only care about women for their bodies. 10 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. alexandco - Puzzled Woman With Hands In Her Hair http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-82122305/stock-photo-puzzled-woman-with-hands-in-her-hair 2. axelbueckert - pensive young woman with interrogation marks http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-106938644/stock-photo-pensive-young-woman-with-interrogation-marks 3. olly2 - portrait of puzzled woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-48531629/stock-photo-portrait-of-puzzled-woman 4. CandyBox Images - Young girl puzzled over two guys decide photo boyfriend http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-45695980/stock-photo-young-girl-puzzled-over-two-guys-decide-photo-boyfriend 5. piksells - Suprised Retro Blond Beauty - Isolated On White http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-43357624/stock-photo-suprised-retro-blond-beauty-isolated-on-white 6. piksel - Amazed young woman http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-64401886/stock-photo-amazed-young-woman 7. Sergey Nivens - Young thoughtful businesswoman and colorful speech bubbles above http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-69496684/stock-photo-young-thoughtful-businesswoman-and-colorful-speech-bubbles-above 8. Nicoleta Ionescu - Surprised Woman Holding a Make-up Brush http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-99627368/stock-photo-surprised-woman-holding-a-make-up-brush 9. ccaetano - Pretty teenager girl with surprised expression over blackborad with signs http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-82548197/stock-photo-pretty-teenager-girl-with-surprised-expression-over-blackborad-with-signs 10. Vizual Vortex - Blonde Model With Construction Helmet And Adjustable Wrench http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-24018188/stock-photo-blonde-model-with-construction-helmet-and-adjustable-wrench
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I'm not Japanese, I've never been to Japan and I've never dated anyone Japanese. While I did have Japanese friends in high school I'm by no means an expert on the culture and mindset of the people. But that being said I wanted to cover the differences between the Herbivore Man and his counterpart in Japan The Dry Fish Woman. Herbivore men are a large and growing demographic of men in Japan that seemingly run parallel to the emerging MGTOW movement in North America. Many of you already know what a Herbivore Man is in Japan. These are men that have all but given up on having relationships and pursuing women for romantic attachments. They are comfortable spending their money on video games, makeup and pudding. These men take on feminine qualities and would rather go out for a walk in nature then go out on a date with a woman. And they are a rapidly growing demographic in Japan. They have the government worried because they aren't being as productive as their fathers. Articles: Himono onna: Dried Fish Woman http://maki.typepad.com/justhungry/2009/11/himono-onna-dried-fish-woman.html CLIPART COMMERCIAL LICENSE: Openclipart may be used for any purpose, including unlimited commercial productions, as royalty-free clipart, for schools, churches, commercial and non-commercial reasons. The Openclipart community believes that clipart should be removed of as many restrictions as humanly possible so that the clipart may spread as far and wide as un-imaginable. All clipart allowed for use in Multimedia presentations and incorporated into film, video for broadcast and/or theatrical display. License Link: http://openclipart.org/may-clipart-be-used-comparison
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Women Are Expensive - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=429pNbHcaRE Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Keith and here's what he has to say: "Hi Sandman, I want to thank you for a gift you unknowingly gave me. I was married for 12 years and after my divorce desperately lonely. I had several relationships with women that cost me greatly. Though I do not hate women I do realize relationships with women are expensive both financially and psychologically. I realized that my loneliness was based on a psychological construct that society had taught me from childhood that I needed a relationship with a woman to be validated. Your words help me to understand that it was a society bred perspective that chained me to the outdated concept of male and female pairing. I am much happier and now looking to downsize my life and live with new purpose that I define for myself. Thank You." Well Keith thanks for the donation and topic. Ironically I went to my therapist today and he asked me again if I was feeling lonely. I told him that I wasn't because I finally learned how to entertain myself. We generally feel loneliness because we are shamed into thinking that loneliness exists. But it's all based on our socialization. Men don't learn how to entertain themselves in life because they are too busy entertaining women like a dancing chimp. At least when you entertain yourself you can eventually wean yourself off of female validation and attention. Notice how the moment you're single women are nipping at your testicles trying to convince you that you need another relationship. When you're in a relationship they are telling you to treat the woman you're with better and give her more. They never say you know what take some time for yourself, do some travelling, build a business or work on yourself and enrich your own life. It's all about getting you shacked up with another woman. All at the expense of your own self actualization for starters. Obviously women are expensive financially and emotionally but guys don't think of the lost opportunity costs. Keith I'm glad you're happier on your own now and you've learned the true cost of relationships. Once again it's obvious that women are expensive. We all know that. 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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So I decided to try tinder for a couple of weeks to see if I could go on some dates and share some stories about it. I wanted to know what the difference between more traditional online dating sites and tinder really were. And I find that ultimately it's just as bad as bad as Plenty of Fish and OK Cupid when I tried those last summer. The only advantage for men it seems to be is that women don't know a man's height from the photos they see on tinder. Most guys can still see if a woman is overweight or chubby from their pictures but women don't know the height of man. And the app doesn't force you enter that information. So the conversations I would usually encounter on tinder would usually be like this: "Hi how tall are you?" or "Have you ever been married before or do you have any kids?" Women on tinder instantly want to know if you will be a tall dark provider and want to make sure your money isn't already being shackled down to an ex wife and children. Their demands seem fairly straight forward to me. But tinder is taking female entitlement to a whole other level. Average and below average women are starting to behave and feel far above average then they really are because they are getting far more attention and this seems to be the norm. What I also found interest is the idea that women are more likely to message me on Tinder then in the past on dating sites. There is no bullshit associated with writing a witty and thought provoking profile or any other crap like that. It's all about appearances and your photos. It's pure glorification of the selfie dating culture. In the past the lower quality women would have been lucky to get a handful of dates with men they met through friends and in real life. Now they are getting far more male attention. And probably going on a couple dates a month or lets say twenty four dates per year on average. And let's say ten percent of those men are guys with money that like to show off. I do my best to hide my wealth instead of flaunt it. If someone doesn't accept the fact that I choose to drive a ten year old car then that's their problem. Or if they think I'm being cheap for keeping a two year old cel phone then that's also their problem. I don't see the need to get rid of perfectly useful and functional physical objects in my life simply because they are not in style or because I can afford to purchase new ones. Why would I get into debt to make some fat banker wealthier then he already is. But also keep in mind that this is my first real date since I was twenty one years old.
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"Hey Sandman, As a MGTOW I feel that I have accomplished far more in life them my married friends with children. I'm 36 years old and have managed to become a millionaire. This is because I have been allowed to focus on my work, the stock market and flipping houses. I didn't fall into this money. I worked for it without distraction. I am saving up for the ultimate luxury good, a crazy early retirement. I want nothing else. Please make a video on finance for people. I'm not looking for the ins and out of finance but I am looking for the importance of buying ones freedom. Without money we are all slaves to the system and how self sacrifice is important in order to achieve this. Men aren't born after all, we are created through trials and sacrifices in life. I'm also sharing some links so can you please put them in your description also. These are by far the best and most informative forums on finance and investing that I have ever seen. Keep up the Good Work." Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for your donation and topic request. And congratulations on becoming financially independent. I know that if I had shunned relationships in my twenties and thirties I would be in the same position that you are in today. But I was risk averse because of the women that I was with. I just want to mention that you're forgetting something important Mr. Anonymous. What are you going to do after you retire and stop working? This is a great problem to have but it's one that can lead to depression and meaningless, pointless life. If you look at the average lifespan for a man once he retires it's usually only a year or two because he gets bored to death or drinks himself to death. After working your entire life and then suddenly quiting your brain can turn to mush quickly if you don't use it. I was semi-retired in my twenties with passive website income and I was depressed because I didn't do anything and I didn't have any hobbies. So I'd suggest before you start your early retirement figure out what you're going to do with it. Most of the guys around me are in their sixties and seventies and married and still working odd jobs as school bus drivers, occasional handy man jobs and laborers. When you're married for forty years you're broke because your wife spent your money on scented candles and baby showers and it feels like life has given you a golden shower. But many of the single guys I know have investments, paid off homes and they chose be single and financially secure versus married and broke. Mr. Anonymous think of how easy it was for you to take smart risks with your money that paid off. Do your really think if you were married your wife would have let you flip houses buy stocks, instead of spending the money on sofas and Jamaican vacations? You worked very hard and diligently for your money and it's now buying you your freedom, it's reducing your stress knowing it's there. . For Canadians: http://www.financialwisdomforum.org/forum/ For Americans: https://www.bogleheads.org/forum/index.php MGTOW Mystery Link: http://www.oxygen.com/very-real/7-dangerous-anti-feminist-groups-you-should-know-about 9 pictures paid for and licensed through BigStock.com (In order of appearance) 1. Kaspars Grinvalds - Couple smashing pink piggy bank with hammer http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-119895605/stock-photo-couple-smashing-piggy-bank-with-hammer 2. olly2 - Desperate man http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-77218343/stock-photo-desperate-man 3. B-D-S - Worried couple sitting at the table with empty wallets http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-134521637/stock-photo-worried-couple-sitting-at-the-table-with-empty-wallets 4. studiostoks - man weeps car broke down pop art retro style. Transport and cars. Why the man question http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-122733329/stock-vector-man-weeps-car-broke-down-pop-art-retro-style-transport-and-cars-why-the-man-question 5. Ocus Focus - young couple worried need help in stress at home couch http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-106012862/stock-photo-young-couple-worried-at-home-in-bad-financial-situation-stress-asking-for-help 6. coka - young couple with dog in the middle of nowhere http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-21005351/stock-photo-young-couple-with-dog-in-the-middle-of-nowhere 7. blocberry - Illustration of businessman with small income running away from tax paper monster http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-129431252/stock-vector-illustration-of-businessman-with-small-income-running-away-from-tax-paper-monster 8. Ocus Focus - young attractive broke man in stress feeling sad hugging empty piggy bank http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-70509817/stock-photo-sad-worried-man-in-stress-with-piggy-bank-in-bad-financial-situation 9. olly2 - Broke man http://www.bigstockphoto.com/image-85192763/stock-photo-broke-man
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Riding The Military Carousel - MGTOW MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/crime/accused-serial-dine-and-dash-dater-could-face-up-to-13-years-in-prison/ar-BBMzXkt?ocid=sf Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Joe and here's what he has to say: "Hey Sandman I've been living the MGTOW lifestyle about 10 years. I've always thought I was the only man acting this way. A little backstory. I was married up til 2008, had 2 children life was going well. I had an accident at work I literally broke my back. I've always done will financially made way over 100k yearly since the 80's. Getting laid up in the hospital and a lot of recovery time my wife actually decided the money wasn't rolling in like it used to because I couldn't work so she picked up everything and moved in with a guy 900 miles away as I sat in the hospital. After that huge shock to my system I decided I could never let that happen again. So 10 years later I've got myself financially set. I've been able to change my lifestyle to what I want where I want. This year I decided I wanted to spend my time on my boat the river in lake Havasu Arizona. A place I grew up going too. I've been noticing a lot of women bragging about doing life real well buying homes on there own and so on. I found one and she liked to brag too. She was real outspoken about making sure I new she had a real job and did thing on her own. Only took 1 month for her to mentally break down because hell why not use this opportunity to treat her like women treating us. Whenever she brings up accomplishments I acted like no big deal. When I did this she was literally breaking down in front of my eyes. I kept my whole life a secret. She only knows me as a guy living in my travel trailer with my boat parked next to it and my "shinny black pick up" so 4 days ago she told me she didn't want to be around me anymore because I hate women. Less then a month and they can't take the heat. She's a 5 out of 10 she has 2 grown kids both from 2 separate dads. Both the kids are in the army youngest got herself knocked up within 4 months of joining and is getting her partner demoted losing money and treating him like a cash machine already. The other married into the military as well and already hates him and wants to ride every guy around so mom keeps her husband distracted on the phone as she bangs everyone behind his back. This women and mom is the puppet master away from home. Anyway I never told her about my home I own in Vegas that's worth around 800k paid for btw. She thinks she was just with a guy off that lives in a trailer by the river. One more week I was going to leave town and ghost her anyway. But what I saw on the mom and 2 daughters working together like they did needs to be watched out for. Men need to hide there hands more then ever. The two young men in the army that this woman's daughter sunk their teeth into are going to pay for the rest of there lives. Maybe talk about women's real reason for joining the military for the mega carousel never ending." Well Joe Foley brother of Matt Foley but instead of living in a van down by the river you live in a trailer by the river thanks for your donation and topic. I'll go over your situation first and then get onto the women that hook up with soldiers for security. First of all the shiney black pickup truck gives you away. 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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Nice Guys Get Leftovers - MGTOW MGTOW - Woman accidentally admits that nice guys get the leftovers https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkWTdpwplkA MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7T6qU16fT4 Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Anson. He didn't give me a topic so I'm sharing a link in the description to a video where she accidentally admits that nice guys get the leftovers. So in this very brief video she says here's a secret that most guys don't know and that's that women like nice guys when they get a little bit older and the bad boy phase out of themselves. She says that by her late twenties and early thirties they are exhausted by the jerks so they start looking around for long-term partners they know will stick around and she says that's you. She closes by saying don't worry there are plenty of women your age too that are dying to meet a nice guy too. I'm guessing that she means women older than their late twenties or early thirties. This is something I've never heard a woman say. I would say there are only a handful of times in my life when I heard a woman tell me the truth about female nature. Half those times they realised I knew what they were saying and it was followed by an awkward silence. I guess they didn't realise I understood female nature enough to know what they were saying. They usually slip up under stress. The other half of the time they were too stupid to realise what they were saying and too stupid to know that I knew. They slipped up and kept going like nothing had happened. This woman, in case you haven't seen the video is saying that nice guys will never get women in their prime years of their late teens and early twenties. That's the time when women are playing the field and chasing the men that make great short term play partners without a safety net. Then when they look in the mirror and see they are getting too old or too many Chads start turning her down I guess it's time to find a nice gullable idiot to foot the bill for her wasting her youth. 10 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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Free Men Are Fobidden - MGTOW Mystery Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLdT95OhZTs&feature=youtu.be Hi Everyone Sandman Here, This video is brought to you by a donation from Tom the miserable married guy and here's what he has to say: "Greetings from Oklahoma Sandman, Life is very very good for the three of us. Me and my two children. However, like you stated in the last video I am getting stares and glares at Church, restaurants and school functions when I'm with my kids, alone without a mother. My daughter had a mandatory meeting and parent conference for her swim team and during the meeting, a few "swim" Moms asked where is their Mother, because we as moms do something special for the girls during the season. I only answered that she was not here. However, that was not a satisfactory answer and she asked if she could get her cell number to add to team group messaging. I think it was B.S but I am not sure. I answered that we are not together and that I am a single Dad with custody, and that their Mother lived back in New York. That did the trick, I then asked if she wanted to have my cell number and she declined. That is why I think it was B.S that group chat thing. During the season, Sandman (my daughter) made friends and had a great time. However, during one of the victory dinners (which I was only invited twice) she told me she over heard the parents mostly Moms...gossiping about the three of us saying how sad it was they had no Woman in their lives. The two parties I did attend I already knew what to expect and I was right. It was question after question about myself what I did, where my ex wife was. I was even asked what happened, which I only say things didn't work out and it shocks them I got full custody. I also get questions about my job. Which I tell them I am retired from the NYPD. Sometimes I regret doing that cause I swear you see the wheels turning in their minds. These Women started trying to set me up with relatives, friends, telling me all about the night life and what not. Even their husbands joined in one of them tried setting me up with his sister. It was very strange Sandman, the husbands were trying drag me back onto the plantation. I politely declined, I told them I like being single and having my time and hobbies, travelling on weekends with my girls. Told them how the three of us went to grand canyon for a long weekend, down to the Alamo in San Antonio on the RiverWalk. I explained that I felt I wouldn't have the time. It seemed to anger all of them even the Men. Even the girls High School demanded a contact for the mother to which I explained I have full custody, and that she was in New York. I swear that the secretary thought I kidnapped them or something. I showed the paperwork and while it satisfied her she was visibly upset. My point of all of this Sandman is that you and your followers were right, people look at single Dads with suspicious eyes and I I think the Men/husbands are jealous. Thanks again Sandman for everything you do. Sorry about the wall of text." Well Tom thanks for the donation, topic and follow up. I'm not surprised by your story. I knew exactly where this was going when I you said the part about "We moms do something special for the girls during the season.? But what about doing something special for the boys you big hairy feminst? It's all a power play and bride saying that we'll give your daughter something for free if you just put us in touch with her mother. Meanwhile all they will probably give her is indoctrination against you. 8 images licensed and paid for through BigStock.com. All image licenses are available upon request.
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