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How to Find Your Style & Start a Wardrobe

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5 steps to find the style right for you and build a new wardrobe from start to finish! ✦ http://www.instagram.com/themilkclub ✦ http://www.twitter.com/themilkclub ✦ snapchat: themilkclub ✦ SUBSCRIBE » http://bit.ly/1Y7z5Ax and turn on notifications to be sure not to miss a video! Click the bell icon 🔔 ➯ HOW TO SHOP ON A BUDGET: https://youtu.be/2hv2RQLOUvQ ON ME ➯ Sweatshirt • OneTwoFive http://www.onetwofive.co ➯ Necklace • Vida Kush ➯ Nail colour • http://shopstyle.it/l/fIv9 ➯ Lipstick • http://bit.ly/1NkCaub This was a HIGHLY requested video that has been on my list for too long, so I'm super excited to finally have it done for you guys. It's not easy when you're just getting into fashion - OR - you're into fashion but looking to explore a new or updated style. This video is a super in-depth (and a little analytical) guide to the process of figuring out your style and building a wardrobe with pieces to fit that style. Even if you're already secure in your style, this video should provide you with handy advice in finding inspiration and feeling confident in what you wear. MESSAGE ME ON TUMBLR Before you ask, please go to my tumblr FAQ and view the categories for past answers at the top of the FAQ. Scroll through these past answers to find your answer first. I'm unable to answer repeat questions at this time. I only check my tumblr inbox every now and then, so it may take me a few weeks to get back to you. Please be sure to follow the guide laid out in my video for finding your style before coming to me with questions - and if you still have questions, please make sure they are very specific! The more specific, the better my answer will be. Tumblr link is below. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ✦ Instagram » http://www.instagram.com/themilkclub ✦ Twitter » http://www.twitter.com/themilkclub ✦ Tumblr » http://crystalism.tumblr.com ✦ Blog » http://themilkclub.com ✦ Snapchat » themilkclub ✦ Shop ⤵︎ › My brand » http://shop.themilkclub.com › My wardrobe (used/new/vintage) » http://themilkclub.tictail.com ✦ Business Enquiries » [email protected] ✦ Send me mail! ⤵︎ Sofie Bartter PO Box 246 Balmain, NSW 2041 Australia GET A FREE UBER RIDE » sofieb49ue GET $10 OFF UBER EATS » eats-sofieb49ue GET $15 OFF YOUR FIRST PAULA'S CHOICE ORDER! » https://goo.gl/23AvUu - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - FAQ › My name is Sofie (spelled exactly like that!) › I'm from Australia › My channel name is meaningless, don't take it literally, and it does not reference anything ☺ › I sometimes wear grey lenses over my naturally blue eyes as they work great on-camera › My height is around 176~177cm / over 5'9" › Gear: Canon 600D, Canon G7X Mark II › Editing software: Final Cut Pro X - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - MUSIC DJ Grumble › https://soundcloud.com/gbeats - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ♡
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THE MILK CLUB (1 year ago)
Hey guys! This is unrelated, but there's been issues with subscribers not seeing my videos in their subscription box so it would be amazing if you turned ON notifications! Hit the bell icon below the video 🔔 Let me know if you've done it so I can heart your comment! 💖
army_4lifeuu (5 months ago)
I hit the bell🔔
Holographic Unicorn (5 months ago)
THE MILK CLUB i literally needed this video when i was in middle school
Kitty (6 months ago)
THE MILK CLUB thank you so much for this video lol I am now just discovering who I am and what I want to wear I threw away everything I owed and I just want something new and this helped get started
Natalia Vargas (1 year ago)
THE MILK CLUB i always have notifications for ur videos 😁💕
Ariëlle Dawn (1 year ago)
Done! I always find that I like too many different clothing styles and I have a hard time balancing them/combining them. Started some pinterest boards and it really helped me clear things up. Thank you for your videos, they're always so helpful! <3
Just Using (1 day ago)
Me: hmmm Why do I like chokers? Mind: because you want some to choke you Me:nope that’s not it because that would result in death... Mind: ...but you wanna die Me: you right
Katherine Mordi (1 day ago)
at the beginning every single word she said was 100% true about me
Asees Kaur (6 days ago)
this is such an amazing video! THANK YOU
Egle Kiskunaite (8 days ago)
So helpful video. Highly recommended
Danna Paola Albarran (10 days ago)
Ur so UGLY
Myla O'Connor (10 days ago)
looked at ur channel and you're one UGLY bitch who cant draw for shit lmao piss off 9 year old..
aesthetic bae (11 days ago)
You look like Lana Del Rey.
Just Because (11 days ago)
I like skater stuff but I can’t afford any of it 😂
Blulu Tillges (11 days ago)
I'm in middle school and I'm really self conscious about what I look like so I've never really expressed my style and I've always just worn clothes to "fit in" so this video was a really nice wake up call, it's still gonna be hard tho, since I'm broke😂 edit: I also have this one really judgy teacher (he would literally insult me in front of the whole class)
Tenya Lida (13 days ago)
side note: the set of clothing in the thumbnail is l i t t e r a l y my whole style like that was so perfectvsyejfbfjf
Angela Flores (15 days ago)
i have a style i really love but havent tried it out yet because of how unconfident i am in my body (chubby rip) and it just really sucks
weekly balcony (17 days ago)
I just want a style that nobody has, that people look at me and think "where can you even buy clothes like that" but my mother wants me to look "normal"
bun bun lps (17 days ago)
I like feeling comfy will my outfits but, i live in hawaii ;-; its to hot for sweater or fuzzy pants or jackets,
grungebob (17 days ago)
I’m too poor 👌
Victoria YS (18 days ago)
I think that I am too young to wear the stuff I like.
Peach (18 days ago)
I'm low-key obsessed with every style I need help🤦🏻‍♀️
Taylor Swanson (20 days ago)
I literally can’t afford to do my style..so while this is good advice it doesn’t help that being broke all the time and barely being able to pay the bills holds me back
OceanFacade (20 days ago)
I don't like wearing the cloth I like because, it sorta intimidates the people around me. Which leads to not much friends.. What do you suggest I do?
Sister Tea (20 days ago)
I have like two different types like a skateboarding style and a vintage one
gracebeecher2003 (21 days ago)
I'm more of a vintage person/pastel girl. I love skirts and sweaters but I also love crop tops. It's a mixture of cute but sexy for some reason.
TypicalGachaGirl (21 days ago)
My wardrobe is such a mess. Right now it has a leather jacket a fluffy purple jumper and a totoro hoodie and ofc a long grey dress. 😳
stitchesintobbh (21 days ago)
i don't really have one certain style. i feel like i have several styles and i kinda either mix it all up or just dress depending on what i feel like lol
just emm (23 days ago)
I love high waisted jeans but my mom thinks that I shouldn't wear it because of my height (I'm small, 155cm). I love aesthetic art style but i can't wear it because my mom says that doesn't look good on me. I'm so sad and angry.
just emm (1 day ago)
+alex c. thank you I wish you same too
alex c. (1 day ago)
just emm same thing happens to me!! and all i can say is that you know yourself better than anyone else, and don’t let your mom get in your way. you deserve to feel comfortable and loved in what you wear :))
Puked Eyes (24 days ago)
My problem is that I wanna donate and sell everything I don’t use anymore, but my mom doesn’t allow me to
mila panayotowa (24 days ago)
how could i style my addidas leggings
•5: A M• (25 days ago)
Finally someone gets me
hhh raychELELELEL (25 days ago)
i love jeans but my thighs are too fat
panmisio tulisio (26 days ago)
Your eyes look like Lana del rey's
AirPod User (26 days ago)
my new therapist 1:09
Marta Gómez (26 days ago)
Great video. Subscribed
Allie :) (30 days ago)
my biggest problem area with figuring out my fashion is PUTTING OUTFITS TOGETHER! I don't really know how to explain it, it's almost like my OCD takes over. for example I love the look of Hi Top Vans, but when I wear them i feel like it looks bad with my jeans or something like i have to cuff them. Or like, I would love to rock some calf high socks or whatever theyre called, but whenever i try them on i feel like they look dumb with my sneakers. it's so hard for me to go into a store and find outfits. like i dont know how to shop lmfao, ill either come out with a bunch of shirts and no pants or accessories, or the other way around. I don't know if i should shop for full outfits or just buy what i see and like at the time. i get so frustrated over these things!!!! And I also have an issue because i know my style is thrifty and streetwear type stuff, but its just so hard for me to walk into the mall and find outfits and im so bad at putting things together. i feel like i have writers block for my fashion lmao.
Emmie Alice (1 month ago)
So I'm mainly a baddie type of girl but I also love the grungy aesthetic thanks for the help!!!! 💘💘💘💘
Joonmakesmeuwu (1 month ago)
I like the 90's style, oversized hoodies, mom jeans, hair clips like butterfly clips. However I also like a the grunge or gothic style bUT I also like feminine soft style that includes a lot of pink or pastel colors and shows a lot of skin. My style is so confusing I dont know how I want to dress dnksf
Puppylover Potatoness (1 month ago)
Honestly my look is causal with a cute flare or sometimes in the summer it’s showy?
Ricardo Paixão (1 month ago)
a few years ago I totally hated on you on a video where you refferenced Nirvana and pastel goth. nowadays, I'm in a midst of a spiritual and existencial crysis, and I found your video very very warmful. I am a guy, quite broke, and I think the message you also trying to share is to connect your mind with your clothing, if you know what I mean. maybe for a woman it's waaaay more obvious than men, because the way you dress says a lot about you think and feel about yourself. lots of love xoxo
im shaped like a box and wear black leggings, a hoodie, and grey nike shoes every day aha...help.
Random channsl (1 month ago)
Literally I have multiple of the same plain tops multiple of the same leggings and loads of goodies and that's all I wear
Emily M (1 month ago)
I love your necklace 😍
Dellmain (1 month ago)
Honestly it’s so annoying because my ideal style suits a warm climate and I live somewhere that’s winter 80% of the year...
THE ANGEL CLUB (1 month ago)
I can focus only on cute and classy type of style. Like one day , i wear my pink dress with my chanel bag and pink pastel fur, and the other day i wear a pleated skirt with bear knee socks :3 But maybe sometimes i just go out of the line, and wear vans and oversized adidas tshirts hehehehe~ *:・゚✧*:・゚✧ *:・゚✧*:・゚✧
Your handwriting is so beautiful!
Dani Lynch (1 month ago)
I really love grunge and i really love vintage/retro but how do do i put them together so it doesn't look stupid. Also i see these lovely outfits on pinterest but i can never find them in the stores or in any retro shop+ urban outfitters and there always super expensive.
beatrice (1 month ago)
thanks a lot! this video inspired me to go shopping and pick up thinks that make me feel confident
iiiMackenzie Lol (1 month ago)
I would love to but I'm broke
Aesth0tik (1 month ago)
Sometimes I like primary colors and sometimes I like pastel colors and then I also love all black colors and my style is so diverse. Like, someday I'll wanna be very emo and grungy, then I want to be 90's aesthetic and then I also like the baddie aesthetic. So this video helped me realize I don't always have to pick one. 💕💕
Sydney (1 month ago)
My style is like geeky mixed with comfy clothes lol
anne gethro (1 month ago)
my style is like grunge with vintage with baddie so LIKE I TRY to like mix and match or something that'll look good on the clothing that im wearing.
Blade Britt (1 month ago)
the problem with being confident is being in school. I'm in middle school, so imagine thinking you look great when you are really being judged for not wearing skinny jeans and cropped sweatshirts.
Lena Mombo (1 month ago)
oof am i even allowed to wear anything!! (my mom) shes always like TOO MUCH DAMN SKINN bro im not 10 anymore lmaooo
Chloe Leivers (1 month ago)
Id love to have a certain style. But my 5 month old always chucks up on me
Sylvia Mist (2 months ago)
My style is everywhere I need help :/
Taehyung Kim (2 months ago)
*reads title* grabs pen and paper. *takes notes*
Reader B (2 months ago)
Yes yes yessss girl
Emma England (2 months ago)
I want to have a new style but I am worried that In a year I will hate all the things I brought
Jessica H (2 months ago)
I like my brother’s style. He usually wears Hollister, like the shirts with the tigers on it, and other animals on it. I’ve worn them before, but my mom doesn’t like those clothes. She still makes me wear “kiddish” clothes but everyone else at my school has started wearing Hollister and I do too (not because everyone else is, I genuinely like it). I want to bring up the topic to my mom about changing up the stores that I go to. Hmu with advice.
Shxgrl (2 months ago)
I Love your eyebrows
cornyeolish (2 months ago)
my style is so confusing, I'm like a vintage-vaporwave-art hoe lmao
Ria Reneé (2 months ago)
I'm too broke to find my style lmfao
Excelling Fetus (2 months ago)
I feel like I can’t get into fashion even though I really want to because I personally think clothes look unflattering on me :(
Fatima Hernandez (2 months ago)
Thank you so much I realize as I get older I need to find a way to express my self and I knew what I want but I just did not know how to do and other thoughts that were negative but it does not matter I want to be my self and thank you for helping me with that in this video 💕☺️
Self Care (2 months ago)
She’s the only youtuber who doesn’t yell to the camera to start a video lmao
Alexandra Lopez (2 months ago)
I really want to wear skirt or shorts but I'm afraid to show my dark knees😔 help me😭
Jeanne Brb (2 months ago)
That was very intelligent ! Thanks ❤
Gotbts _ (2 months ago)
let's talk about how beautiful ur writing iss!!!!!
Arthur Read (2 months ago)
I’m 260 pounds and I’m trying my best to feel good in clothes 😭
silkka _ (3 months ago)
my style is basic bitch, maybe arthoe or smth? this is why im watching this vid lmao-
adka (3 months ago)
My personal style is nonexistent. I only wear converse shoes, super ripped jeans and (tv show, marvel, band) shirt. Every time i wear something different i can only think about how much i want to wear my usual stuff and i have no idea how to change my mindset.
Jayson Aaron (3 months ago)
The issue I find it that when I try to make a Pinterest board mens fashion is really... chavvy? I'm 18, and I just want to look colourful and cool, but everything that seems to come up is nike and adidas stuff :/
a lemon (3 months ago)
I want to wear skirts or shorts but I have bow leg so um yee
Meme Hell (3 months ago)
My style is ‘ wtf is she wearing’
priscilla ramona (3 months ago)
My style is a big mess
• ᴇᴍᴇ • (3 months ago)
I love the Art Hoe and Baddie style but I hate jeans because they are very unconfotable sooooo.... yeah.
Eleri Gwen (3 months ago)
im so upset, I know exactly what clothes I like/ want but idk where to find them :((
wierd_ potato (3 months ago)
I have found my style 90's grunge, but i am broke af
Peter Marrero (3 months ago)
LangBellsChannel (3 months ago)
I'm afraid to look like a poser because I like girly and edgy styles which are opposites.
Cheyanne Danice (3 months ago)
this is very insightful, thank you so much ♥
Ava Murphy (4 months ago)
Lmao I live how the first step is called step 0
sejbomb (4 months ago)
Your handwriting =goals. <3 I'm really struggling with finding my style. I don't feel I fit into any particular catagory. I find shopping daunting and overwhelming. I always forget what I have in my wardrobe!
Sheldee 123 (4 months ago)
I like simple/cute/beautiful/sass style but I don’t like the too revealing or sexy ones
Cloe Marins (4 months ago)
1.step looking good and cute Well I’m out 👋🏼
aceofspades (4 months ago)
The background music sounds like my doorbell, I had to pause the video several times lolol
dream catcher (4 months ago)
U remind me of clare holt from the originals for some reason
CloudyGamer41 (4 months ago)
Its so hard for me to find my style lol, I started by copying other people then I realised that I was being a hypocrite so I started liking shirts with quotes, I think I went through an unfulfilled phase of wanting to be a goth but then I liked my cousins style (I still do she is so pretty) and Ive been experimenting with off shoulder tops so now they are my new favourite shirt so I THINK I have finally found my style but my skin is so gross so I cant wear short stuff without feeling like people will judge me. Edit: If you cant find stuff you like in shops try looking online, I found my favourite stuff online so I highly recommend
Ilja Nielsen (4 months ago)
This is exactly the video, i've been searching for for years!
ThePrettySweety (4 months ago)
You’re so humble, i just had to subscribe. Glad I found your channel
Typical naps (5 months ago)
I really like this style thats kinda like beige blank hoodies or like a bit bigger striped button downs but idk what the style is exactly called to develop it more... like... pale?
13 Monther (5 months ago)
I’m basic
ryehaaan (5 months ago)
i used to wear floral prints blouse but now i prefer block colour especially dark colours like navy blue, maroon. cos that's what makes me comfortable
Molly B (1 month ago)
Try an emerald green idk I just like that colour.
Olivia Lea (5 months ago)
I’ve never watched a video like this. I’ve always been so clueless about fashion and this was so helpful! Can’t wait to try this!
Anna Gregoles (5 months ago)
U remind me of Claire Holt 💞💞
Stephanie Trax (5 months ago)
I love to wear dark stuff ( I really dig 90's grunge) but I am dark skin. does someone know what I should do?
Natalie Clarke (5 months ago)
Stephanie Trax Wear what you want! I'm sure dark stuff still looks good on you regardless of whether you have dark skin or not. Also something that might be helpful is to figure out what skin tone and undertone you have to choose the best colours to suit you. There's lots of videos on youtube, I'd recommend Justine Leconte. Though that doesn't mean you have to change the style you like at all 😊
LiterallyCV (5 months ago)
Shirley M. (5 months ago)
I like a lot of styles, but my problem (besides my body and confidence) it's that I'm Christian and most of the items that go with the styles I like simply don't go with my skirts.
bts._.potato (5 months ago)
I'm into almost every type of fashion (except for all the 2000-2012 basically). I love every aesthetic and feel good style. Peachy,grunge,hippe, vintage,retro,90's,60's, and some more recent outfits that ive seen online.
disney is my religion (5 months ago)
I can’t focus on one style. It’s either a type of Amber Scholl style then it’s vintage.
luna valente (5 months ago)
this was SO helpful!! thank you so so so much ♡♡♡
Elizabete Komkova (5 months ago)
I guess my biggest problem is the lack of finance 😂😂
Kathleen Shovlin (5 months ago)
I like 90s Retro... Just me? Okie
Angel (6 months ago)
which online stores have great returns policy??? :)

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