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6 Signs "He's Just Not That Into You"

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Have you ever been “into” a guy, but wondered whether or not he’s “into” you? In my experience, what most women do is spend 1,287,907 hours talking about it with their friends, family, colleagues, neighbors, roommates…you name it, they’ve all heard about this guy. I'll teach you how to meet the right guy - watch this video: http://www.sexyconfidence.com/secret And lesson #1 is the following: if you’re spending this much time analyzing where a guy likes you, then chances are…he probably doesn’t. The harsh reality of dating is that most women waste so much of their emotional energy on men who are really just not that into them. And you know what? That’s OK. It’s a mismatch. You two aren’t meant to be. So move on and find a guy that meets all of your standards and IS REALLY into you. Watch the video below to learn the 6 signs a guy’s just not that into you:
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Ashira Ami (13 hours ago)
These tips are great!
Isaac Salinas (4 days ago)
Lmao the drunk voice 😂
Artist Video Creator (10 days ago)
If the guy won’t even go as far as just being friends and going out just as friends then he’s not interested.
Spiritual Gangsta (14 days ago)
AND if you have to wonder if he is into you or not, trust me— he’s not into you
mariela de cuba (19 days ago)
sushmita saha (20 days ago)
Ur absolutely right....it's disappointing though to realise that the guy u like isn't that into you but in the end u should move on coz u know u deserve better
videogames (21 days ago)
Ummm is that signs are the same for the men who love each other 💔
maria mistretta (25 days ago)
If a man is not into you dump the guy fast. It's funny I'm not into him either because a waste a time. Immature man boy not a man. Doesn't text or call only want to hookups shorts causal relationships avoid hookup and don't respond to him either way. Just ingore him more. A guy is a waste a time. Keith Martin and so not into him. Yeah who fuck cares about him. Keith Martin yarn zźzzzzzzzzzz boring games man. Move on Next. 👏🙂😁
Alter Ego (26 days ago)
Stupid women
Farrah Thornburg (27 days ago)
Thank you! Who the [email protected]%# cares!!Great advice; painful to admit ..
Eduardo Mora (29 days ago)
Okay so I am trying to find videos about it being with two men. Here's my story and it's very recent. So, I am working at a grocery store, I REALLY like this guy at work, my coworker. I try not talk to him ALL the time but I still talk to him every few times to see how his day is. I tried asking for his availability and he seems to make this excuse that when he is free, he likes to go to the gym or hangout with his friends. I am under this impression that he is playing hard to get, but, I don't think he is, I just want to know if he likes me the same way I do or not. I just want him to be honest with me, it won't hurt my feelings. Yes, I know I say that now but I honestly wouldn't care if he said it to my face. When I was talking to him during his lunch break, he was all smiley and I just wasn't sure if he was doing that because he has never had a guy chasing after him OR he just doesn't like me and doesn't know how to tell me without hurting my feelings. I really don't care about my feelings because I have been rejected before. I can find other guys, it's not the end of the world if I find out he doesn't like me. I think I see it but like he says in the video, "denying it" and still chasing after him. I think I will ignore him for the rest of the month and see what happens. I will get my answer then otherwise. If your also gay/bi and in the same situation, lmk how things worked out for you guys. Feel free to reply to this comment or Snapchat me at dinosaur_1997 Yes, I am gay, ignorant assholes get over it -_-
Ebby C (29 days ago)
"unless he's really, really, shy...." *convinces self that he is really, really shy*
Orvana Dawn (1 month ago)
Mine he was attracted to me and would keep communicating with me like reply my texts within an hour compliments me about my dressing sense my looks I told him I wanted something deep but he said lets be friend with benefits I agreed and he planned to meet when we met he did nothing !!!! He just kissed me loads on my head my face toook me out to watch a movie cuddled and slept on another bed at night like what went wrong m wondering ????
ERRICK OKUTA (1 month ago)
Oh Jesus..I think I'm single
Michelle Leung (1 month ago)
I was dating a guy since Nov last year, but he is travelling for work frequently (73 times last year) and has very limited time staying in town. He would make plans and see me everytime he was in town, but that only made 12 times since we met. But we texted each other almost everyday or every other day. He was not talking much about feelings, so I thought he only wanted things casually or just go with the flow, I was okay with it because I am not trying to find someone to get married right away and am happy to go with the flow and not trying to set a timeline for relationships. However, I felt that there was progress between us over time, and really felt a change when he was visiting his sister last month he finally talked a bit about feelings. Like how he liked the last time we were together. Then after few days when he left his sister’s place and travelled from Dubai to Thailand then to Singapore, he suddenly texted me that he wanted to take a break in dating, because he has some personal issues to handle, I told him I respected his choice and happy to stay friends, then he started to open up and told me that he has questions about what he really want or to build up with someone in future, he said he might had hid his loneliness. So he needed to take a break to figure out things. I told him that he might be avoiding to feel things and talked more about what might be happening to him. I told him since he opened up with me about it, I am happy to chat with him as a friend but being my friend he has to really tell me about his feelings. And he agreed with it. So I thought that is we ended. And I tried to move on. However 3 days later, he started to text me asked me how was my shoulder injury and told me he was going to Melbourne, we talked and I asked if he was feeling better, he appreciated and I told him that tho I am still getting over him but I will try my best to care for him like a friend in a platonic way and joked that I am not trying to get into his pants, I hoped to make him smile. Then he asked if he can meet me for a run when he gets back in town. I said okay. Then 2 days later he texted me again and I was on vacation, asked me where I was. We chatted and I also tried to access about his feelings see whether he is happy by asking him to remember to smile, he said he was smiling replying me that text. Then 2 days later which was yesterday when I was going back home from vacation, he texted me while I was on the plane and said looked like I had a great time, then I replied him and chatted for a bit, and I still reminded him to stay happy, at the end of the conversation. He texted me “ you too dear” which was the first time in 8 months that used this word tho it is really common, but he is not a sweet talk guy and he never wanted to even want to flirt on text. He used his words very carefully when we were dating. Now I am very confused by him, are we friends ? I don’t understand what was happening ....
Irena (1 month ago)
Poor Jenny
Betty Cooper (1 month ago)
That fart was awesome!!!! Lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Y (1 month ago)
i am happy ... actually he doesnt do all these things ... he talks to me and asks me not to talk to other guys and sometimes becomes possesive but the problem is... he is not able to see a future with me... how can i explain him that i am not going anywhere ... though he likes me he tries to distance himself thinking things are impossible between us
Edie Lott (1 month ago)
Yup, time to move on.
sacheverelle (1 month ago)
24 hours?! I get upset if a guy takes 10 minutes to text me back. I tend to ask questions they will have to answer like "can you please pick me up? I'm stuck at____."
ExoAmiK (1 month ago)
Colline Caldea (1 month ago)
bRiShTi SaRkAr (2 months ago)
I wasted a year on him😌
jess nickle (2 months ago)
1:03 had me laughing my arse off! 🤣🤣🤣
No Ragrets (2 months ago)
I don’t like the ugly fatties which most women are today
Betty Cooper (2 months ago)
Hey I got something for you,,, ( Fart)
kaileneee 3 (2 months ago)
he made me feel like i was enough, then switched up
kaileneee 3 (2 months ago)
“When he treats you like one of the guys” I hate that, that always happens. my ex had the nerve to say “ I was his homie” Like????
kaileneee 3 (2 months ago)
Redfather Imagine a guy claiming he’s in love w you, To say you’re his homie infront of his mom. That hurt lol
Redfather (2 months ago)
What's wrong with that
Sam S (2 months ago)
Who the fuck cares awesome
Sam S (2 months ago)
Thank you for the info. Your the best
raschida washington (2 months ago)
Valeria Hernandez (2 months ago)
Really needed this right now. Bookmarked this in my bookmark bar for future reference. Just deleted our chat history and blocked his messages. :( Ugh.
Amalia Syakirah (2 months ago)
He is right, my BF now came all the way from Dubai (I live in Malaysia)after only meeting me one time in Japan to show how much he was so into me, and he has been doing that ever since, I never had to move a finger! He is Still putting in effort and constantly chasing me even after two years, plus he is gorgeous!!
Amalia Syakirah (2 months ago)
P No I wasn’t insecure, more like confused which was why I resisted in the beginning, we were so different! After months of pursuing me and reassuring me of his feelings for me only then I put my guard down.
P (2 months ago)
+Amalia Syakirah don't you feel Insecure....I would start feeling inferior....😖😖 and if the girl doesnt feel that way, the boys family and friends always point that..."oh he could do better" and all that crap! Good u're so confident...
Amalia Syakirah (2 months ago)
Definitely not, it’s the other way round. Works for a prestigious company, tall, beautiful face, and really he is Super funny! I was actually the one out of his league. Wayyyyy out😂😂I Guess I got lucky!
P (2 months ago)
I bet you are above his league....only then he is doing that.....right? At least much more better looking than him...
Sue V (2 months ago)
Does this apply to women over 40? Though not like I am, I am only 35 sos I got a me a couple more years haha!
Zelda 194 (2 months ago)
These are also signs of someone not ready for serious relationships
Star Runner (2 months ago)
I’ve evolved beyond the need for relationships A girl asked me out it only lasted 2 days love is just a chemical it hits hard and slowly fades l lost a lot of friends when I graduated high school so there’s no point in caring about anyone or anything not even my family when you know nothing matters the universe is yours
Sade Adu TV (2 months ago)
I did a similar video like this on my channel! If you like my content come sub! I’ll sub back!
Zahra’s Channel (3 months ago)
Ouch then
Heather Wanders (3 months ago)
I’m not gonna text anyone anymore. I’m already decided, I will never marry anyone.
Heather Wanders (3 months ago)
Ugh he’s not into me
Jade Jumilia (3 months ago)
How do you know his not into you.. If you only met him online.. And we never met
Frances Holbert (3 months ago)
Find a man that's really going to give you his attention or if not just move on
Copper FireStarter (3 months ago)
If two people agree to just talk with no title or relationship than these signs dont apply to you. When you are at your best the top potential prospects appear in your life but until then just enjoy yourself dating, its not that serious. You can control your time more when you are at your best
Money Money (3 months ago)
Thank you, next
Mbao Solotji (3 months ago)
I love this , Thanks
the snakeu loves hobi (3 months ago)
video starts at 0:58 btw
Tilly G (3 months ago)
Who's Jenny ? 😂😂😂😂
mansi singh (3 months ago)
void ten (3 months ago)
How I text with female friends:hello😋 Texting with dudes:MY NI🅱️🅱️A!!!! GET CHO CHUNGUS ASS OVER HERE!!!!!! (I chat with meme pages)
Fernanda Salazar (3 months ago)
You are so funny 😂
Mash Feliciano (3 months ago)
Khyra A (3 months ago)
Block n move on 💅
Jessi Dawkins (4 months ago)
My bf doesn't share any of his problems with me. And every time he post some sad memes saying that ppl don't love him fuk love and stuff and then when i ask him whats wrong he wont tell me...am always asking if hes ok... but then the ine time i didnt ask he says that i didnt even cared to ask lije seriously...
Arjole 2001 (4 months ago)
I asked a guy to go see a film. We share a passion for cinema and we are friends. He said he was going with his sister already...I thought that it was a subtile way to say no. But we’re still talking like nothing happened. I figured I might be friend zoned. What do people think ? It is an excuse right ? #manslator
Taehyung's Bestfriend (4 months ago)
Carey Allen (4 months ago)
I'm fifty seven and im going thruogh this believe me it doesn't matter how old a,guy is it happends no matter the age!!
Patrick Montanari (4 months ago)
Rejection? We don't know that girl
Monalisa Malaquias (4 months ago)
He does take forever to respond, and he never has time. So thank you, next☑️
Latisha Moore (4 months ago)
Oh well...... I got my answer 😟💔😟
Ruri Suoh (5 months ago)
Agent K (5 months ago)
#1 wrong. Men will tease a girl he likes. #3 semi wrong. men will act aloof so that you think he is doing more than just waiting for you to call. #5 Meh. Men will use the friend zone tactic to get you to want him more. #6. ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.
Sleeping Cinderella (5 months ago)
the saddest part in my life is not that some guy's not just that into me. there is no guy. WHERE'S THE GUY
Cheri Weber (5 months ago)
Who the F cares I love it !! Yes indeed and Thank you !
Chi-Chi Monroe (5 months ago)
Yep....my dating life in a nut shell
brieze 1 (5 months ago)
I have never had a guy that was in 2 me..sad but true
Lirissa Hardy (5 months ago)
I feel that because he make plains and then break them off and I deiced to go on the dating website and he been on, couple time. So I am trying to move on. I feel like I am no good for a guy.
Kaaaelin L (5 months ago)
Your first name is my crushes name..🤪 major oof..
xStacyx (5 months ago)
Thank you next next
Linni S (5 months ago)
Truth! Dealing with a guy that is always busy. At first he was more responsive and then becomes less. I’ve given space and let him know I’m into a possibility of a date. Now I’m back to swiping and talking to other potential matches. This week I’m not going to text Mr. Busy at all and see if he reaches out on his own.
File Sender (6 months ago)
If you already confessed your feelings for someone and they just ignored your message, then it just simply means that he's not into you. If he already tells you directly that he only wants you as a friend, then he really means it. A guy who likes you won't quickly say that. Love and value those people who are always there for you. There will always be that one right guy for you. Appreciate your friends and family who are there for you in times of need and really cares about your feelings. Love animals and enjoy practicing compassion to those people who are in need. That's how we practice healthy and true love. That's just simple as it is.
Sarah Ismail (6 months ago)
Hahaha yeah, right. Who the fuck cares!!
Mel (6 months ago)
Yes I like when you've said who the fuck cares. Lol My thoughts exactly. Invest time if you're not investing bounce✌
KatA Potato (6 months ago)
My crush is super shy around me, but is not when around anyone else :/
Mya Estelle (6 months ago)
I can swear that this guy is flirting with me,but then I find out that he is having someone else(they are still not official but there is definitely something between them).I feel like I’m just a replacement for that girl for awhile.At first,I thought I would found a boyfriend after long ass years being single,turn outs it was just me being dumb for thinking that we would have something and he is an asshole.
Himmat Badal (6 months ago)
If you a girl too much then she will get uninterested ....
RIZE Wannabeツ (6 months ago)
Im only here to see if im doing anything wrong...
Crazy Eh (6 months ago)
..heh wow
1 23 (6 months ago)
What if the guy is living in another counties that has 12 hrs time different between us, and I have my bf back in my hometown. While the guy doesn't care letting me know he is hitting up with other women in the social media and the guy said : I love you but I don't think we have a chance to be gf and bf. Does it mean he is lying and doesn't like me ?😂
zazo zeez (6 months ago)
Let me tell you something ... This video is the best so far
Dana Hail (6 months ago)
who the f cares?😂😂
Lauren M (6 months ago)
Heaaayyy JENNNAAYY whaaatter ya deewinn Righh nnnow😂😂😂
me chloe (6 months ago)
Poor Jenny.....
Vanessa Ideliz (5 months ago)
KAIJU MECHA (6 months ago)
Never meant to be! Nothing is never meant to be!
Angie Rae76 (6 months ago)
OR.....if you send him a TEXT asking him "HOW HE'S DOING" or "WHAT HAVE U BEEN UP TO LATELY?" and he FINALLY ANSWERS YOU 8 WHOLE DAYS LATER.....then THAT'S a PRETTY GOOD INDICATOR that he OBVIOUSLY has SOMEONE ELSE OCCUPYING the majority of HIS TIME &/or HIS LIFE, or he's a TOTAL FLAKE, He RARELY ever has HIS CELL PHONE BY HIS SIDE.....and LAST but DEFINITELY NOT LEAST......he invites you over to SMASH and then while your cuddling together on the couch afterwards.....he asks to see your cell phone for a minute because UNBEKNOWNST TO YOU he's sending a TEXT MESSAGE to YOUR PHONE from a NEW PHONE that HE just got that ALSO has a NEW NUMBER which he obviously DOSEN'T PLAN ON GIVING TO YOU or you or you PROBABLY would have been the FIRST PERSON to RECEIVE IT which you OBVIOUSLY WEREN'T even the 10th person and THE WAY in which you even FOUND OUT that HE HAD A NEW NUMBER was because you decided to TROLL on his Facebook page (Because you're GOOD ENOUGH TO SCREW....but somehow you're NOT WORTHY of being one of his FB FRIENDS.....SMH. WHY are SO MANY MEN just COMPLETE and UTTER MORONS when it comes to picking a GOOD WOMAN????
Shook Shistar (7 months ago)
There was a guy I really like him...I texted him a lot and would compliment him alot😂 any who I realised he rarely replies to me and the only time he texts me is really late at night🙄 so we were texting and it was like like 30 minutes and when he texted me “cool” I replied “k bye”. I don’t know what happened but after that he was wondering why I ended it like that. He started to become obsessed with me😂 oh well I got him hooked but I don’t want to reel him in.
Trex 98 (7 months ago)
He really isn't into me isn't he? That's why i'm watching this hahah
Amel Poulin (7 months ago)
Man! You're funny
Cecilia Hinojosa (7 months ago)
I noticed those signs in 3 weeks. He said he was looking for a relationship, he would text me in the morning but through the day I would initiate conversations. We we talked about sex he I asked him when was the last time he had sex he told me 3 months, then a week later when in a conversation he mentioned he had sex a few weeks ago. Wait? What? Lol I dropped him. He obviously isn't looking for a relationship, at least not with me. Boy bye
Sexy Confidence (7 months ago)
Charles Kennedy (7 months ago)
Sounds like women when they are not into you
Sam Khan (7 months ago)
Well fuck!!! 😒
jazzmen rain (7 months ago)
Thanks. I really appreciate this video. Unfortunately I should of viewed this 14 years ago...LMAO. I would of spared my self a lot of pain and heart ache and meds. LMAO!
C AR (7 months ago)
A guy I’ve been dating for about two months now he always .calls me by my first name all the time And says “thanks for stopping by” every time I come over... I find it weird being that he’s my boyfriend. Please any advice is appreciated.
Chad Dasovich (7 months ago)
beautiful chicken nugget (7 months ago)
We used to see each other a lot but now he doesn’t text me saying he wants to see me..I don’t know if I’m just too awkward for him or if he’s just shy😭
Gemma Rose Guttierrez (7 months ago)
hahaha your funny adam!!!
YeahMe Paclipan (7 months ago)
One of the best vids of you I've ever watched! Thanks, Adam!
Jay is Random (8 months ago)
Why am I even here I was watching Markiplier
Lhong Raymundo (8 months ago)
Hmmmm.ok I'll do that next day thank u
Catherine Mccann (8 months ago)
Like your honesty
Judgment Proof (8 months ago)
You can actually end up wasting your life on the wrong one if you're not careful

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