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15 Signs He's Just NOT Into You (Move On Alert!) | Adam LoDolce

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It's time to wake up from that dead end relationship and realize when to cut your losses. Here are 15 telltale signs that he's just not that into you. Watch more videos like this: http://www.SexyConfidence.com/secret Learn how to trigger emotional attraction here: http://emotionalattractionformula.com/ ---------------------------- Follow Me On Social! ---------------------------- FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/adamlodolce My mind is telling me no, but my boddddyyy is telling me yesss!! Ok, I'll never sing to you through email again… … unless it helps me make a point. Like right now. So many women know they are in bad relationships that aren't going anywhere… … but they don't do anything about it. They convince themselves that it's just in their head and that things will get better. Time to wake up! This video has 15 telltale signs that it's time to move on because he's just not into you. Not every man has the same tells, which is why this video has a list of 15 different potential signs. Keep an eye out for these, and you'll know if it's time to double down on the relationship… … or hit the eject button. Watch it now, and wake up from the delusion. You'll be glad you did. Your Coach, Adam P.S. In the Emotional Attraction Formula (https://emotionalattractionformula.com/) I teach you EXACTLY what to do if you're seeing any of these signs. And more importantly, I'll teach you how to trigger emotional attraction so that you never have to deal with these signs again. Summary - 1. You Know He's Not Into You If your gut is telling you "no," then it's no. When it's "yes," you're gonna know it. 2. You're Always the One Initiating to See Him When a man is into you, he's gonna be initiating to want to see you as well. 3. He's Not Interested in the Things that You Do ... or the things that you like, or, quite frankly, in anything about you, other than sex. If that's the case, then stop this dating mistake, say goodbye, move on, find the next guy. 4. He'd Rather Spend Time with Other Women That's an obvious one. 5. He doesn't really look at you. I mean, when a man really likes a woman or has an interest in a woman, science has proven that literally, he can't take his eyes away. 6. He's Asking You About Dating Advice For Another Women Huge deal-breaker. He just doesn't like you like that. 7. He's Never Done anything Nice For You, Whatsoever Now if you've known each other for more than three months, and he's never gone out of his way for you, then you know what? He sucks. 8. He Actively Flirts With Other Women And not to make you jealous, but because he's just flirting with other women. 9. He Doesn't Care When You Are In Crisis Men are natural providers, and a man who's interested in you as a person, if he sees that you're in a crisis, or knows that there is something wrong, he's going to want to come and help you fix it. 10. He's Never Trying to Impress You Now men can sometimes go overboard on this, and that gets annoying, but if he's not being a little bit douchey every once in a while, showing off his cool car, or whatever it is that he does, then he's probably not interested in you. 11. He Never Opens Up Emotionally Everything that he talks about is just very like factual-based. 12. He's Only Hearing You, He's Not Really Listening to You When a man's heart is really open to a woman, he doesn't just hear the words that she's saying, he really listens because he actually cares what she's saying, and what she's feeling. 13. He Doesn't Seem to Care About Your Relationship With Other Men, Even the Slightest If a man is really interested in a woman, he is not going to like seeing her with other men, and he's usually going to show at least small signs of jealousy. 14. He Treats You Like Everyone Else He's basically indifferent towards you. You need to realize that you're an amazingly unique woman, and if he doesn't see that, then he is done. 15. He's "Always Busy" He's using the classic excuse that men use when they're not interested… "he's always busy". And that's just his excuse for never being there. Now I get it, some guys are just legitimately busy. They got work stuff, they got stuff with their families, whatever it is. But if he is always busy and can't put in the time to be with you, then why would you want to be with him? He's out. [Like this episode? Make sure you check out: https://emotionalattractionformula.com/] bad relationship commitment dating mistakes
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lyfe with Liam (1 year ago)
Thank you. Just deleted his number
Victoria Cipullo (4 days ago)
Wow, that is great
Zeba Pasha (10 days ago)
+ken zie 😂😂😂😂😂 you are sooo like me hahaha
void ten (21 days ago)
+Nerma Bajramović he probably doesn't even know 🤣😂🤣😂
Nerma Bajramović (1 month ago)
Go girl!!!!!
Sandra Green (2 months ago)
I just deleted his number off my phone..plus im not going around him any more
Arc_Angel silapan (23 hours ago)
Wow, I really like this guy, but suddenly he slowly disappering.. Maybe your right maybe he don't like me :(
Jessica Evil Pisces (1 day ago)
I just gotta say I would loved to feel your cock in my throat. your so cute 😍💖🍆
N M (2 days ago)
Thankyou his done
LeilaLamb (2 days ago)
OMG, he does like me!
Mikayla Stewart (3 days ago)
People who say it's easy if you feel he doesn't like you he probably doesn't that's hard because I struggle with anxiety and I don't think anyone likes me
Catchyourgucci (4 days ago)
I don’t know within my gut when someone isn’t into me, I will never know unless the person actually tells me they aren’t. I’m so delusional.
Quartz Universe (6 days ago)
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, idk, no, no, no, no, no.... i’m still not convinced he likes me lmao
Not you, You! (6 days ago)
He IS into me, well, last year. But now, I don't even know If we had a chance to talk to each other. Well, at least he's still posting "Never give up on her", but it's probably on other girls.
Ella Michaelsen (7 days ago)
I dated someone b4 and he asked me for “my women stuff” . And on time we went on a “date” and he started flirting with my teacher while we were TOGETHER. And he came back 20 minutes later. I was just over him so I broke up with him but he still stares at me and it’s making me so uncomfortable
lucia lisotti (7 days ago)
He is perfect because he did (and he does) all the 15 things with me. So he shows his interest 100% but... He betrayed me with another girl😐... What should I do?
Zeba Pasha (8 days ago)
I think a guy should talk and sort things better then ignore them, i was into a guy still a bit he was doing 6 7 things what he said on vedio then i realise that i should give him space and leave him so i delete his no., before that i was also asked him, i m very confused what are you upto he said i was quite busy.. You are never too busy to send a single emoticon to someone you love.. Its always about priorities, i moved on and he still doesn't care.. I just wanted him to b clear with me and not to make such excuses coz that hurts more💔.
Shalonda Fielder (9 days ago)
Zeba Pasha (10 days ago)
My God such a positivity in such painful topic.. Thank so much sir.
Katherine Ek (10 days ago)
What should I do if my feonce is fighting with me a lot and hits me and won’t let me sleep outher my friends house I have friend that are men he get jelles he I also live with him with my 2 dogs and 2 rabbits I don’t know what to do no more
Jhoanne Mae (12 days ago)
Hi. .. Thank you so much for this clear advice. Bless you.
Kata rin (12 days ago)
I’ve never lied to myself about this because my self-esteem is too low. Rather, I lie the other way around: I usually tell myself they are really not into me when they actually really are.
lilmiss pinkypie (12 days ago)
What if he does everything accept for a few?
Sairy Demesa (13 days ago)
Ok guys help me out here. #1 when i make eye contact he looks away while we are talking. #2 he is nice to everyone including me #3 I mentioned in a group that I was having trouble tying my leash unto my surf board but someone else helped me out with it not him even though I think he heard #4 he asked me if I was working next week Friday and I asked no and why. He said he wanted to see if I wanted to go surf with him and his friend next week. When another guy asked him “hey when is the next time we are going surfing he said “uhh I don’t know...” then he hesitated but said uh probably Friday I was within earshot. #4 he once said he was free to surf during the week but I said I was busy. He offered an alternative week day #5 he made sure to use my surf board and caught some waves in front of me. When he came out of the water he made sure I knew that he caught waves with my board by letting me know. #6 he doesn’t initiate too much conversation with me. Just sometimes #7 my gut feeling is he says yes he may like me but I may also be fooling myself into thinking he does. We met 5 months ago and were totally strangers before then. He is shy I believe
Sandra DiBiaso (13 days ago)
I lacked the self-confidence in myself. I lacked self-worth. I was very insecure. I stayed with a guy who said douchebag things like "Remind me not to have sex with your sister." He said that jawdropping thoughtless sarcastic comment after I told him about my sister crazily showing her hemorrhoids to our mom's doctor in my mom's hospital room. I thought my boyfriend was going to respond like a respectable man by just saying something like that is crazy what she did in your mom's hospital room. He said it was a sarcastic joke but honestly that is a classless thing to say sarcastic or not. Before he responded like a jerk he was playing Joshua Kadison's song "You'll Always Be Beautiful In My Eyes" in his car for me and telling me to listen to it. What a narcissist!
cecelia tayla (13 days ago)
I like your video. I am exactly in all these “15” signs. I am in to a guy who is not in to me as much as I do; I always come up with ideas or things for us to do, and at the end he “I can’t; my busy schedules”. That all I hear, so am now trying to forget him, which is always not easy but hopefully soon.
Moon Girl (14 days ago)
Well he never done any of this and talks about his problems however he ignores my texts
Dear Miranda (15 days ago)
The only one my boyfriend of a year and 4 months fell into was number 15... only because he had a 3 month internship in another state. I’ve known him long before we dated, we had 5 months actually seeing each other every day and the rest was long distance. We have kept the relationship strong and there are times were it’s snot and tears but I have never loved anyone else who has ever told me he loves me just as much in return. We are both assholes in a dark humor type of way to each other and that’s what I love about him. We share so many things in common, we both love anime, being healthy, conspiracies and just laughing about ridiculous things, stories and just stupid situations we’ve been in. The fact I trust him going out and it not bothering me says a lot. He’s even been there for me when I was depressed and in a very dark place. I have never been in love with anyone. I’m glad it’s with him.
Xiomara Rincon (15 days ago)
If he does a little bit of them does that mean I am in the friend zone
Talitha (15 days ago)
Good one
MEREDITH LOGGINS (16 days ago)
Lol dont kno how many more of these videos I need to watch to wake the fuk up..lol I've had guys that really care about me and I know the differences..thus is just sad.
Still watching while married...
Eyja Azhari (19 days ago)
im totally lying to myself right now😭😭😭
jewsnu ngahnu (20 days ago)
My boyfriend never replies my messages, never calls back even after seeing my missed calls. He'd be silent for 2-5 days after getting those messages that I sent. But after that he would show up to me surprisingly and stayed for 1-3 minutes without telling me and explaining about those messages and calls. He would just leaved again. He continues this for almost one year now. What would be the best advice for me? Please I need your advise to make him confused or to get back on to me
Sora Wakaki (20 days ago)
There were only two signs that he does towards me but the rest he doesn’t
Katrina Gosse (21 days ago)
Yeah I seen this am was like, " sure let's see if my crush might like me ". Everyone of these he didnt pass.😶
Wombat Happiness Girl (22 days ago)
15 signs. He did only 1 of the 15 signs he’s not into me. So he must really like me. Thankyou. 🙏🏽
Sonu Sri (22 days ago)
All the signs in my ex. As if, you're literally describing him. How trashy was I!!!
Blah Blah (23 days ago)
He does the exact opposite of this and everyone in my college thinks that he likes me including his close friends and they kept teasing us but he told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship coz he just likes to hv fun and that I'm just the same as any other girls to him. Is he really not into me? What should I do?
Aminah D (24 days ago)
Block n move on
Ashleigh (24 days ago)
3/15 were solid...two maybes this didn’t really help lol
Sabrina Scott (24 days ago)
You dont even need the 15 signs its common sense when his not into you 😕but for those who do, great advice 😊
Darcy Marie TCB (24 days ago)
It's his loss if he isn't into me cause I'm a catch and he's a moron.
Zariyat Shiraliyeva (24 days ago)
This video is really so interesting.Right now it is more coherently
Ashu Chauhan (24 days ago)
OK he passes all 15.
She Wolf (25 days ago)
He calls me everyday and sometimes talks about other women and then sometimes throws in we could possibly get something going in future haha. I find it silly. I'm not interested in him. We're just friends. He asks me so much about my life and shares very little about his. But he calls me sometimes 3 times a day. At least once per day. He's very intelligent and is a pretty good friend and is always a helpful problem solver. But there's nothing going on. He doesn't come to my rescue or provide. This has been going on for at least a year... He's asked me if he could sleep over on a cot or foamy one day because I live in a resort. I don't feel comfortable with that. It's a good phone relationship, but I don't feel comfortable about this sleepover thing. Not because of him, just any man. I'm a single mom. Guys always try to get in your pants so I just avoid physical closeness.
She Wolf (25 days ago)
BUT at first, I'm not into anyone because as a woman, we have to be careful, there are weirdos out there.
Maija Reynolds (26 days ago)
Dulce Orozco (26 days ago)
We don’t care if he’s into us or not we care if were satisfied.
Diliana Nikolova (26 days ago)
2 minutes introduction seriously? that is too long
Aliya Fatima (26 days ago)
Mi Feke (27 days ago)
Men, if you are watching then pay close attention, he has just given you 15 things you must make sure to do if you want a woman to remain or even get interested you. Yes I did say "do" these things. Show her you're not into her and she will be all over you. Female nature is the way it is, no matter what bullshit is served up about what they think they want. They will always do the opposite. Just look at all these comments here about women obsessing over guys that are not into them.
Navya Aggarwal (27 days ago)
This breaks my heart
Mansueta Libaro (27 days ago)
Yeah i always have time for him but doesn't
Mayu Tsukimura (27 days ago)
Have to replay again and again to slap the fact on mah face.
Jeyena Sumi (28 days ago)
very true..he nvr looks at me and all the signs,it really happen to me😣😢
Katrina Rapoza (30 days ago)
Yeah..my ex fiance was like all of these, but then his friend best friend was really helping me, and connecting with me, all the things a relationship needs. It was weird. My love life is a mess right now, but thank you for helping me secrete that i made the right decision of leaving my engagement.
r3tro kill3r (1 month ago)
I'm watching this so I don't do the wrong thing and drive her away 🤣🤣🤣
Bettina Puskás (1 month ago)
I liked someone who just told to me a damn year later that he thinks that i am very pretty and that he can imagine things between us but he is not ready for relationship and wants to be friends. He is afraid of losing me as a friend if we will be more than friends (friends with benefits stuff). So, umm we have been talking a lot, and i think from his words that he is really happy that he can talk about his things and feelings honestly with someone like me but i haven't told him that i used to like him and now he comes to me with compliments and mentions things i am not into this way (it seems he knows that and also scared af). Obviously this situation kinda surprised me. But bitch please, im not a toy. 😒
Jonathan Nebu (1 month ago)
It seems like you're blaming the guy for not being into a woman. Lol. Its his choice if he wants to or not.
Cat Lelis (1 month ago)
I came here to verify that this guy I really liked did not really like me, BUT NOPE I'm even more regretful now uuugghhhhh (I pushed him away wtf, and it's been years ago T_T)
yuri050791 (1 month ago)
Thank you. A big thanks!
priyanka sharma (1 month ago)
My ex exactly matched with 10 surely .....we are over . Dumped me just by giving excuse of saying we arent compatible.
Hailey iam (1 month ago)
LoL all of this is my ex when we broke up. well, first he was fine. and things was getting “nah” about me 😡😂
Celeste Ross (1 month ago)
I've been with him 7 seven yrs. And I've been more misreble in my life bit i can't leave cause of finical reasons
xm377Moyocoyatzin (1 month ago)
_"Financial reasons"_ seems to be the only real reason women are attracted to and stay with a man.
Bevearly Bernal (1 month ago)
10/15 f*ck him!!! His out!!!
Donny7704 animal jam (1 month ago)
Some of these I can't tell the answer for because I havnt known him for long. but for the little time I have known him I find we clicked. If It turns out he doesn't like me I want to atleast be his friend maybe even a close friend if possible.
Akani Deka (1 month ago)
Can somebody help me? So there's a guy who is a flirt and flirts with almost everyone , I belong to one among them. I have noticed many times that he do stare at me and listen almost everything I talk with my friends . Now a days he has completely stopped flirting with me. Whenever he talks with me his tone atomatically lowers down. He doesn't seems for some reason so confidant while speaking with me. He still keeps staring me but always tries never to get noticed. He did't follow me back on insta. He is someone who will surely get 10/10 on flirting and wooing girls and is very confidant on talking with them even... I am really very confuse about what the hell do he feel about me. If he isn't into me why those silent stare then ? I really hope someone would help me... please ...
krishna mishra (1 month ago)
I hv experienced that type of horrible relationship .i knew that he was not gd guy for me but i loved him blindly even with his single lie that i believed. At the end he left me when i needed him so much. You know what i took as a lesson now i am happy ,free,single,and self obsessed🤘😇
Jonathan Nebu (1 month ago)
Not his fault.
Yandelay Aguilar (1 month ago)
video actually starts on 1:47
ALT Right Killa (1 month ago)
This is bullshit. Women respond well to men that ignore them and treat them like these 15 signs. There are guys in the friend zone that meet all the qualities they are looking for but for some stupid reason women chose the guys that is awful for them. 1k comments of women crying on why the guy they want don’t want them should be ignored.
xm377Moyocoyatzin (1 month ago)
Women are silly creatures aren't they?
You're awesome thanks for the tips
Vladimir Dan Jay (1 month ago)
3 out of 15 only.. does this mean he loves me?
Pam Grace Valdegor (1 month ago)
Right, how stupid i am. I still looking for that chance that he might change. I should probably follow this. Move on, he doesnt deserve me at all
Jossael Manasse (1 month ago)
I had this one guy I was talking to who would blow my phone constantly I had to cut him off way too clingy
NekoNicz (1 month ago)
Everything he is says is True and it happens me in irl
joan Sheekey (1 month ago)
well thats so trew im not texting him no more now im wort more thank yu
CARTERMADE 86 (1 month ago)
Their not into you until you find a great guy and get married then they give you the attention you wanted 😒
Natasja K (1 month ago)
My eyes have opened...and I am gonna dump him on Christmas Eve. Thank you.
xm377Moyocoyatzin (1 month ago)
Yep that won't send him on a vendetta at all. Subtle...
Emma Burton (1 month ago)
Why would a guy be really into me one day and even tell his friends he’s attracted to me but the next day he ignores me and doesn’t make eye contact with me what is up with that ?
Seventeen Gotaway (2 months ago)
... Thank you 😶
Pm K (2 months ago)
I had doubts about his feelings but after this video I am 100% sure that he is in to me
Trinidad Arafol (2 months ago)
mariyah ligaya (2 months ago)
Yahoo.. he's into me. ❤❤👌
Nikita SK (2 months ago)
Never mind, I actually thought he liked me back .__.
azzta shrestha (2 months ago)
Hey Adam, I see few of these signs in the guy I like. But I have noticed a lot of time that he notices me, keeps looking on what I am doing, or whom I am talking to. I am confused!!
Jessica Keo (2 months ago)
awe, shit. most of these match with this guy that i’ve liked for 4 years.. oh no. we’ve liked each other before at the same time and we’ve never admitted it because i was so oblivious. i really want to ask him out, but, now i know he’s not into me. :/ thank you. <3
Inkk Vibe (2 months ago)
What if you only like the ones that are not into you cause the ones that are into you are uglier than Freddie Krugger?
Alma S (2 months ago)
Hahahah THEN WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM!!!!??? love this! Crazy!!
Etta Smith (2 months ago)
So like, if your crush does the EXACT opposite of all these signs....?
luna li (2 months ago)
he passed 12
shonette Bute (2 months ago)
Cassidy Turton (2 months ago)
Thank god I seen this
G H (2 months ago)
What if my gut is telling me yes and no
Angelbreeze (2 months ago)
soooooooo how do I drop a hint that I want him to ask me out XD... highschool for background info
Ganiswary Sugumar (2 months ago)
Superb 👍
Drew Alexander (2 months ago)
Good vid, solid basics. As a guy in my 30s here's 2 big things I see myself and other men do when they are really into a woman: 1)Focused eye contact, paired with totally attentive body language (eyes and whole body indicate attention and sexual interest) and 2) I am always eager and available to help her with something I can be of service in that will impress her and help her out; like car trouble, shoveling snow or offering her a ride if she's stuck. Men pay a great deal of -attention- to a woman they are into. It's a big one.
Helen T (2 months ago)
Love this 8/15 hes out...free to move on.
Nicole Lamb (2 months ago)
People need to stop texting me "Do you want me to come over" i get it you don't want to come over.
brieze 1 (2 months ago)
It hurts am crying most guys I like are talking to are never into me..or lead me on. Gonna build resilience..thanks so much for tips
Britaney Burnett (2 months ago)
Thank you very much.. ....😊☺☺😊
Diamond Sky179 (2 months ago)
Good concise video 👍🏾
Aishwarya Singh (2 months ago)
Loved this video
XRose Gold (2 months ago)
Rosa Artiles (2 months ago)
He said he liked me but how do i know he is telling the truth.

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