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6 Signs She's Not Into You (Abort!)

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http://www.KateSpring.com -- 6 Signs She's Not Into You Have you ever been in a situation where you cannot tell for the life of you whether or not the woman you have spent so much money and time on is interested in you??? I'm Kate Spring, and I'm here to share 6 signs that she’s not into you. Too many people are passive aggressive and have a serious inability to face their problems head on. When I was young, I would have preferred to write a Chemistry exam than to talk openly about my feelings. And, unfortunately, too many women are still like this today. It's not malicious. It's more of an act of self-preservation because we genuinely don't want to hurt people's feelings, and we surely do not want to deal with the guilt that follows rejecting someone. So I'm going to share 6 ways you can tell she's not into you. I'd say the first sign that a woman is not interested in you is if she isn't responding to your texts. This is the MOST passive aggressive way to let someone know you're not interested. Ghosting is such a shitty habit of our generation How have we evolved to such a place where this is now considered normal? If you’re not familiar with ghosting, it is the act of just not responding to someone. Urban Dictionary defines it as “fading, or quietly disappearing from someone’s life and cutting off all communication.” Horrendous. And If you yourself do this, don’t. Have more respect for people and their time. Ok, rant over. Another way to tell if she isn’t interested in you, which you can tell through text messages, is if her answers are short. If her texting is like those one-word fridge magnet poems where you just piece one word together after another. And getting a full sentence out of her takes longer than reading the Harry Potter series in its entirety, then she is not interested in you, and you would find your time better spent finding someone else. Another way to tell that she isn’t into you, which is even worse than ghosting, is if she makes out with someone else. This happens in dating today, and it is a very key thing to look for. As well, it doesn’t matter how drunk she claims she was. She is not thinking about you or your feelings; therefore, move on. Plain and simple. Involved in a go-nowhere relationship, having drank himself into indifference, I had this pulled on me once. The guy I was seeing started having a dance floor make out session. My response was brief: "See you later, see you never." Needless to say, I felt like shit and had to have a serious sit down talk with myself about the type of person I wanted to be with. It started with understanding that I had missed all of the signs and had refused to let my situation speak until I needed to hear it as a scream! I know that they say that love is blind, but, in the early stages, before your heart is invested, make sure that she is into you as much as you are into her. And that means reading the signs. If you want to avoid situations like I just mentioned, head over to katespring.com/free and grab a free copy of my attraction building handbook, which will help you get any girl you want and keep her interested. That’s katespring.com/free. And you will find the link in the details below. The third sign that she isn’t into you is if she hasn’t introduced you to any of her friends. This might be because she's embarrassed of you or sees no future with you. Or her friends just suck or maybe she just sucks? Regardless, move one. If someone doesn’t want to show you off, then I think we are entering the friend zone, or maybe she is just not into you. The fourth sign is a lack of eye contact. If she does not look you in the eye, you have a serious problem. Eye contact has to do with our level of comfort in a situation. If we lack eye contact, or it is sporadic, then that is usually a sign that someone is uncomfortable, whereas if someone has strong eye contact, then that usually means that they are comfortable. And, plus, if a woman likes you, she will look at you and probably won’t be able to take her eyes off of you. Do you guys have any questions yet? No, well when you do, don’t forget to leave them in the comments below. Ok, the fifth sign that tells you that you should abort the mission is if she puts no effort into her looks. Most of the time, women will dress up for any situation where the two of you are hanging out. It is a way for her to show you that she is interested in you without having to say it. So if she is putting little to no effort in, I think you have entered the friend zone, my friend.
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3fiddy z (21 hours ago)
So I met this girl on tinder, it was a wired situation, my car was in the parking lot of the place I work, she loves cars as do I she took a quick clip on snapchat of it and later on that day, I matched with her on tinder she's new to my area and needed help finding someplace to get weed so I offered to try to find her someone she can go to, we hung out later that day and talked for like 6 hours and really seemed to have some good conversations, when I left she offered that we could go and do something in a town next to mine since I had already planned to go a pick up some weed for her the next day, we ended up going to the movies and things seemed to go well, it seems like she's someone who likes to take it slow so I didn't make any moves but only matched her body language, ever since the date it seems like she is sending alot of mixed signals her responses became alot slower most the time it would take hours for a responce one minute she seems interested the next not so much I tried to hangout with her again one night and she seemed enthusiastic and interested, when the time came she ignored my message and messaged me 3 hours after the planned time when it was obviously to late cause we both work and said she fell asleep, and then I told her to not sweat it and if she's ever free and wants to hangout to let me know, and that I'm gonna get some rest and I said goodnight, after this she said "Yeah I was gonna say I'm free, and she said maybe tomorrow" can anyone try to break this down and explain, I don't want to keep trying to hangout if she's not really interested anymore and is just trying to be polite... or just using me and holding on to me until I find her a weed guy lol
John Mangan (7 days ago)
I was ghosted pretty hard after a girl told me she was genuinely interested in me. I think she was trying to tell me what I wanted to hear, then ran the other way. Pretty crappy move, but, her loss!
John Mangan (4 days ago)
Kate Spring even though it went on for two months? I knew her for several months before trying to start an intentional dating friendship. Doesn’t seem fair.
Kate Spring (4 days ago)
You got the right attitude by not chasing her but we never know what the future holds or what her reason is so don't close the doors just yet John 😉
Justin R Varga (19 days ago)
I still have friends both male and female that take ghosting as a serious insult 😂. Who cares???? There are tens of thousands of great people out there. Sooner someone ghosts or tells you there not interested the better. The sooner you find the right partner and your time is not wasted but that’s the thing we can’t buy time.
JT Latshaw (1 month ago)
Marry me kate
Kate Spring (27 days ago)
Oh someone already beat you to it buddy 😉
Castel Lps (1 month ago)
Help me i am not interested in thing guy but i don't wnat to hurt his feelings
Joel Peter (1 month ago)
Question: I have a crush on this girl, she switched from long, interested texts to those short im-talking-to-a-wall texts without a reason and has ignored my last two text the past day. Is this a red flag or is she just busy? Honestly I got way too much into promising my support to her and I never break my word so I will still support her as a friend (and move on, im kinda over the crush already, this stuff turns me off real fast). Now the question is how do I honestly tell her that I have had a crush on her, but have noticed her behavior and accepted its meaning (if it indeed is a red flag as I fear), however will not reject her as a friend and continue supporting her. I do still want her as a friend. Shes going through a tough time rn and the last thing she needs is another source of guilt.
Joel Peter (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring thank you for your informative answer!
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Did she say she was busy? If she didn't, then it's definitely a red flag Joel, though it's not exactly a deal-breaker for you since you said she's going through something right now. Just pick your timing right so she gets the idea that you're not just thinking about yourself, but hers as well.
Brysen Dale (1 month ago)
Lol I met a chick ended up spending the night with her and most of the next day but she doesn’t text often and leaves me on read but still wants to go on a date this weekend it’s really hot and cold.
TranquilDark180 (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring May wanna make a vid on that if ya havent already? I know I'm a horrid texter.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
There could be a lot of reasons for that Brysen. One of the most common reason is that she's busy, but you also have to consider the fact that it could be because of the way you text. You wanna make sure to make your texts interesting and not just the usual hey and hi. Try to spice it up a little bit. Ask open-ended questions that would catch her attention and make her want to answer 😉
SHARPY (2 months ago)
*SHIT* I THINK IM IN THE FRIENDZONE
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Ooh tough luck there. You better watch this video ASAP to know more about escaping the friend zone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juo5zwRe3mk
Ron Lambert (2 months ago)
dam she's cute.
Pcb explorer (2 months ago)
I got ghosted. I met a girl at a sub shop got her number we texted nice long conversation for a couple days then suddenly no response. May be a couple weeks later I went to that sub shop and saw her she spoke to me like we never met before. I didn't question her or anything I just let it go.
Pcb explorer (2 months ago)
The weird thing about this is we were chatting on Facebook messenger and then suddenly she stopped responding and it shows my messages weren't being read anymore. I messaged her again yesterday and no read and no response. May be she put me on ignore. It's no big deal I just wanted to be friends Any way but wish she would have at least said something.
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
You can totally try and shoot her another message. If she suddenly goes out of the radar again, give it a week or two and try again If she goes dark on you again after that, then that's most likely a good indication that she isn't interested. It's a bit of a long shot but you don't want to waste a good chance 😉
Jose Flores (2 months ago)
I very much enjoy your videos. Thank you
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Good to know that Jose. Stay tuned for more! 🙂
Cecca Letifer (3 months ago)
KATE SPRING....r u in a relationship right now or r u still single?
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
I'm in a relationship Cecca! Gonna get married real soon 😉
Daniel Salazar (3 months ago)
Wow Kate, What you just said is exactly what's happening to me. I've been seeing my coworker for almost almost a year and a half. Taking her out dinner and drinks. When she messages me I drop whatever I'm doing and go. When I tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks that I find her attractive she loves it. But nothing. When I tell her that I'm tired of being alone that I should out and meet women she tells me to wait that the right girl will come to you not to go out looking for women. I tell her that I'm ready for a relationship but she tells me she likes being single and I should do the same. Not to be looking for other women. It's sad to say but I beginning to realize that all I am to her is a friend to her when she has no plans on the weekends or only wants to company when she's having drinks. I have told her that I do have feelings for her but all she has is not now it's for us being single. I don't want that Kate. I want to have a relationship with her. It's a hard pill to swallow when but I guess I will have to go and move on maybe some other women will appreciate what i offer because I know I can make them happy.
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Awww, so sorry to hear that Daniel. It's always hard when you're stuck in the friend zone. But not all is lost. Have you seen my video about escaping the friend zone yet? If not, watch it(link below) as soon as you can! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juo5zwRe3mk
Acharich Speaks (3 months ago)
Yay, thankfully the girl I'm interested in pursuing hasn't shown any of these.. lol she did ghost a lil bit, but I think she was genuinely busy & she wrote a lot when she finally replied.. 💭💭💭 - @Acharich
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
That's good to know Acharich! It really goes a long way if you give her space when she says she's busy. It shows that you're not needy and that's definitely gonna help you a lot! :-)
Zyzor (3 months ago)
So this chick I’m into keeps leading me on and she’s smiling when I talk to her and she always texts me back. She uses a lot of smiley emojis and when I talk to her I purposely look around and then look back at her and she never breaks eye contact with me. She also never really avoids me but since we just met she wants to hang out but didn’t want to commit to a time. She said she’s going away for a week but looks forward to hanging out when she gets back. I think I’ve been duped but can’t tell. I said she could block my number if she didn’t want to hear from me and she said she didn’t want to because she wanted to hang
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
She probably needs more time to get comfortable with you Zyzor. Whatever her reason is, she's totally got you in the friend zone and you need to get out of it soon! I've talked about that in this video so give it a look as soon as you can 😊 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juo5zwRe3mk
Zyzor (3 months ago)
Also she gave me her number right away at work even tho we had only spent two hours at work chatting
ARC 77 (3 months ago)
There is a girl in my class who I’m very attracted to. When I look her way she looks back at me. I tried to say something when she came in to class but she quickly left the room before I could say something. What does all that mean?
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Does this happen everytime? If not, then try again and make sure you've got a better timing next time you do. She probably had to go somewhere urgent at that time 😉
Wyattsarus (3 months ago)
Seem to be getting alot of mixed signals. She's a co-worker. 7 years older than me but doesn't act that way. Getting all the physical signs from her that shes interested. Touching, deep eye contact, playing with hair, showing neck. Gives me reasons to come visit her. We have great conversations and I have no problem making her smile and laugh. But she does ghost sometimes and hasn't offered a good time for her to hangout outside of work when asked out. She's been single for a long time and maybe she's just not sure what she thinks yet? What do you think?
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
That could be a reason, yes. But by the looks of it, she's totally got you in the friend zone. I say try to keep your options open and start seeing other girls. I'm not saying you close the doors on her, but a healthy jealousy is pretty handy when used right. Maybe once she realizes she's not the only girl out there, she'd stop playing hard-to-get. If not, then you've already got a head start by seeing other women 😉
zombiekillin (3 months ago)
All these points are spot on, but it's just a little distracting watching you as you read your cue cards. Otherwise, good video.
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Heey! Thanks for pointing that out. I'll try to improve on that part on my future videos and I really appreciate feedbacks like this! You're awesome! :-)
Guero Cruz (3 months ago)
😔😔😔😪💔
Stephen Blackwell (4 months ago)
I'm 49 and basically have been in four relationships can take me back to 16 I'm super loyal and despise cheaters I have ended long time friendships after finding out my friend is cheating on their spouse or even if they are in a relationship that both have agreed to be monogamous This information is to give a small example of my personality Three of my four long term relationships have ended badly These three would not leave me alone after our break up The one relationship that ended before texting came about is slightly different She would leave nonstop voice mails call my house 100s times a day show up my work this went on for almost a year The other two did the same but would also sent nonstop text messages It would be so bad I would have to turn my phone off I was at my sister's house and bet my sister if i turned my phone on it would ring with in 5 minutes and it did this was at 3 am I'm going through i break up right now and dealing with nonstop text messages and phone calls If I block her number this does not help at all because she has an app that can generate new phone numbers My question is since this has happened three times then I must be attracted to women with a certain personalities that leads to this behavior but I cant figure out what this personally trait is I dont ever want to go through this again I'm so scared of making this mistake again that I have not so much as texted a woman since my divorce two years ago Thanks for any advice you can give me Stephen
Stephen Blackwell (3 months ago)
+Kate Spring Thanks for answering my question and your advice
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
I understand how what you went through was really tough for you, but you need to know that it wasn't your mistake Stephen. And I don't think it has something to do with the kind of women you attract. Instead, it speaks of the volume of quality that you have with women where it clearly shows they're having a hard time letting go of you, so stop thinking it's all your fault. Once you get over that fear, I think you definitely won't have any problem getting back to the game with the kind of quality that you have. Good luck!
karthik kalimuthu (4 months ago)
This is a typical one . the matter is that she used to like me more than anyone in my class and she used to even call me with some nick name . but all of sudden she stop avoiding me like anything , she doesn't even replay to my message too . may I know why she is doing like that .? but I am sure that I didn't do anything that hurted her .
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
It doesn't take rocket science to figure out she's lost interest with you Karthik. You can watch this video on how to avoid it from happening again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IEcTgdxl-c&t=61s
Ranshika Hettiarachchi (4 months ago)
What if she used to flirt when texting,and after some time she kinda trying to neglect.
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
That means she's losing interest Ranshika. This is a common scenario when women don't find it exciting as it used to be. I've got a video that explains why this happens so you better watch it to make sure it won't happen again! You can watch it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IEcTgdxl-c&t=61s
pete thompson (4 months ago)
there is this girl that works at a store down the street from my house. i go in there all the time to buy food since its close. she would always say hi hi hi made me feel uneasy. i go in there to buy food and the guy behind the meat counter over charged me . i told her about it and it was fixed. i go in there now she pretends like im not there. i was nice as could since i woked retail before. now the hi and smiling stopped, what did i do wrong she went from nice to mean to me over night what to do
pete thompson (4 months ago)
hi kate spring thank you so much for taking the time to write me back ill do this next time i go in there thx
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Maybe the whole "overcharging" incident caused this. She probably didn't want to be dragged into it? Asking her about it won't hurt though Pete. Just a casual "Hey, what happened to that friendly and beautiful girl who used to always say hi?" will probably do the trick ;)
brian jake (4 months ago)
Hey,I've got a situation.. so I have this ex girlfriend who we broke up like an year ago and I tried to get her back but she said she has a boyfriend,I let her go but after some months aroundDecember she texted and we linked up but then went along mute again for months.. two weeks ago she texted asking me to help her find a good quality TV which I did and later asked if we could hang out next weekend and she agreed though she strictly suggesting if I bring up relationship issues she'll ghost again.. should I invest any feelings or is there any hope in this?
brian jake (4 months ago)
Kate Spring Thanks for replying,I've watched almost all your videos and I'm getting some signs from some video you did,I never stopped thinking about my ex even after I tried it out with other chicks,.. so since that day we linked up,I was looking way good btw.. she has been texting me up first but making sure there's a reason for texting like *hey,the TV is working okay just need some aerial stuff but I ll buy*.. laughing alot on phone calls instead of being serious like when she was mad at me for whatever mistake I did.. You still suggest I should move on? You the pro here
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Nah, I think you're better off moving on Brian. As much as I'd love for you to get your ex back(if you still want her), I also don't want you to waste time and effort chasing her around. I'm not saying there's no hope at all but you deserve someone who appreciates you so I suggest you give it an extra thought if you're planning to give it a go with her again ;)
Adin DuBose (4 months ago)
Have you ever had someone use your handbook on you
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Oh you have nooo idea Adin. I see it coming a mile away ;)
Paco Mermelas (4 months ago)
Okay so I have this problem and I would like to know what you think , me and my girl have been dating for 10 months and lately she has been acting different she’ll be texting short and whenever I ask her why she told me that she’s busy and she doesn’t even like texting , Also every time I try to do something for her she’s like ...you’re cheesy or if I say ...hey I miss you ,she’s like okay and idk if she’s losing interest or what’s up with her , I asked her and she told me everything is fine but she hasn’t changed ...do you know what this could mean ?
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
It does look like she's losing interest. This is a very common scenario with almost every relationships Paco, something you can definitely prevent from happening again. It's good that you've noticed this on it's early stages before it becomes something serious in the long run. You just need to fire up that spark again and make her feel excited whenever she's with you. I've got a video that talks about this and you'll definitely learn a lot from it. Watch it here! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IEcTgdxl-c&t=61s
Freddie Khawlhring (4 months ago)
Wow..all of the point is accurate..its actually very true..atleast from my experience
Freddie Khawlhring (4 months ago)
Kate Spring well that a relief..
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Not just yours Freddie. Including mine and a whole lot of other people I know :-)
gatorsinthebayou (4 months ago)
Your advice is correct, however, how are you supposed to get into that situation when women are forever absorbed by their phones 24 hours a day.. I can't remember the last time I had the opportunity to have a conversation with a female, they are more interested in their online presence than the real world
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
That means you've got to be more interesting than what she's doing with her phone. Pick an activity that both of you can enjoy or talk about a topic that both of you can relate to. There's lots of ways to keep her engaged and interested enough to make her forget to even check on her phone. I have a video that's definitely gonna help you with this! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlM-jy6dJ7c
I want to talk about the fifth sign. ok, I met up with a woman who I'm talking to for coffee yesterday. she didn't exactly dress up, just a pink long sleeve shirt and white jeans. But she did put on eyeliner and glittery stuff on her eyelids and said she put it on just for me. But considering the fact that she didn't dress up and even admitted she didn't dress up, could that possibly be a sign?
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Definitely a yes Vincent. The sign doesn't exactly limit itself to just clothes but can come up in the form of makeups as well. The fact that she made an effort and told you just so you'd notice is a sign enough ;)
Federico Neumann (4 months ago)
What if she speaks crap about her boyfriend? Sometimes when she sees that I’m better than her boyfriend in some situations she complains about him...
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
If she does that, it means she's comfortable enough with you to be sharing these kind of sensitive stuff. That's both good and bad news. Good, because of course, she finds you trustworthy and as I mentioned earlier, she's already comfortable with you. Bad, because this definitely puts you in the friend zone. If you haven't seen my video about escaping the friend zone yet, I suggest you check out my channel, and watch it as soon as you can Federico!
joe36026 (4 months ago)
I have a question Kate what if you text your Crush and she text you the next day or if she text you late?
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
That means she knows her business Joe. I've talked about this topic on this video, so watch it as soon as you can to know more! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULa8Ty90IgU
Boost Head (4 months ago)
69k subs , hot..
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
70k as of July 17th. You guys rock! Keep 'em coming 🔥
1inAtrillion (4 months ago)
Kate I wish I had of know this a few years ago because that's exactly what happened to me. Thanks for helping us guys out. I can't find the heartfelt emoji kiss so thumbs up xx
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
This one? 😘
Saad Mahmood (4 months ago)
hey kate, should you tell your partner about your past relationships, or just say no relationships?
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
I don't see any reason why you should hide your past relationships Saad. Being honest with your partner is a good foundation to any strong relationships 😉
k4mco1015 (4 months ago)
This explains SO much.....coulda used this years ago
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
At least now, you can use what you've learned moving forward 😉
NARENDRA Sonkar (5 months ago)
U r so sensible
Evgenios Megas (5 months ago)
thank you
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
You're welcome Evgenios! 😊
Justin Thomas (5 months ago)
Hi. I met a girl on Tinder a few months back. Things were going great. Great first date. We started hanging out. All of sudden she goes rogue. Don’t hear from her for 2 weeks. Then she’s back. It’s all great. She even came to get me from the airport. Haven’t seen her in 2 weeks. She has brief or no text responses. The thing I don’t get is this girl talked a lot wanting kids and a life with me. I really believed her. We had such a great time together. I’m just so confused. She leaves for a few days to go visit some fiends I’ve never met and everything changes. What is up with that???
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Tough spot you're in Justin, but I think you should just tuck her into your "almost there" folder, and think about moving on. There's really no point in overthinking about it as she might not be *that* interested with you as she says she is. If you hear from her, great! Have fun and enjoy! If you don't, well then just shrug it off. Last thing you'd want is letting this get into your head when it's supposed to be *her* who should be feeling this way. Try going out with someone else. Maybe seeing you with another girl would make her think twice about ghosting you again. Good luck! 😉
Usman Mukaddam (5 months ago)
Hi My name is Usman and I wanna ask that there's this girl in my class basically she's a nerd but she's too cute and I haven't talked to her due to hesitation since the first day of my class but when I accidentally look at her she smiles back so please tell me how to approach her without hesitation?
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Pretty easy Usman! Work on your self-confidence! I know it's easier than it sounds, but the only person that's holding you back is yourself. I understand the negative side of your hesitation, but it's all about taking risks and trust me when I say you'd feel much worse if you didn't take your chance and find out that it's already too late. So *just do it*! Good luck! 😊
Kevin Allen (5 months ago)
Deep down I always knew she's not into me
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Aww, I'm sorry to hear that Kevin. But I'd rather you face the cold hard truth than waste your time wondering if she into you or not. There's someone out there for you but you can't find her if you fix your eyes on the wrong one, so look on the bright side! 😊
Annuar Zirene (5 months ago)
I love you girl. U are a queen. Keep up the self ✊
All I trying is get out of the friendzone but sometimes she give me mix signal and I get very confused
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
I got the whole "escape-the-friend-zone" topic covered in this video Gregory. Hope it helps! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juo5zwRe3mk
Marko Nation (5 months ago)
She was responding to my text until I called her bud 😂😂😂🤷🏽‍♂️
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Wrong three-letter code bud. You could maybe try "bae" next time 😉
Goe Bann (5 months ago)
I have no idea if a certain girl is into me or not. I noticed many things but these could be interpreted incorrectly. I'm at a loss. I have no idea how to find out if she likes me or not.
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
This video's like, the opposite side of what you just watched, but I hope it helps you shed some light on your situation Goe. Good luck! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Neil Parmar (6 months ago)
Great information, I'll definitely be looking for these things.
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Sounds good Neil! There's more helpful videos on my channel so make you subscribe and check out the rest! 😊
Hannibal Lecter (6 months ago)
How would you be texting someone who isn't interested in you? Why would they give you their number?
Gwain Knight (6 months ago)
I know why you left me on the street last night Kate, and didn’t invite me into your home and Umm... bedroom - it’s because you didn’t want to hurt my feelings that you have Canada football posters on your wall, where as I support Scotland! I knew it. Well, I am hurt but not enough to not come round to your house drunk again :) see ya tonight babe :D
Bestest Inventions (6 months ago)
Kate i think sometimes it's perfectly good to not answer people if the conversation is not worth continuing. Silence is an answer.
dany m (6 months ago)
Why am i loving you? :3
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
🤔 Did you try googling it? 😉
yankee77 (6 months ago)
Idk... im pretty sure she's not into me coz im still a virgin now. D
Mike Buckley (6 months ago)
What if you asked her if you can be more than friends but she says she wants to know you better and it’s a possibility is that good or bad
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Definitely good Mike. Take her word for it when she says it's a possibility because if it was me, I'd say no right away. This means she wants to build a foundation of friendship by getting to know you more before jumping in to a relationship 😊
MKforlife9 (6 months ago)
She has a very special vibe.......Compared to many women that like to tutor to guys on how to talk to ladies but use words like creepy, weird, childish, she actually doesn't put herself or other women on a pedestal and just says it like it is-which is awesome!!! Not many women are like that nowadays......What a shame Big ups to you though Kate Spring! I wish you all the best and much success, because you truly deserve it!
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
THANK YOU! CAPS LOCK FOR THIS COMMENT 'COZ I MEAN IT WHEN I SAY I APPRECIATE IT ❤
aloyce kalimba (6 months ago)
hello kate! please do help me with this, my girl is like sooo close with this guy whom she says tc just her friend and i shouldn't have to worry about them... so now tell me should i listen to her or this is like a warning sign already??
iLoveMichael (6 months ago)
Yes, I have a question: Kate, are you single?
Dan Basta (6 months ago)
michael davids The guy probably is rich and has trillions of dollars in his bank account. If you've got the money, you get the honey. Otherwise, they want NOTHING to do with you. That's the defination of a broad today.
iLoveMichael (6 months ago)
I’m very, very upset
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Engaged 💍💖
Donovan Wright (6 months ago)
Thanks Kate
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
You're welcome Donovan! :-)
LukeIamYourFather (6 months ago)
She’s into me, Wahoo!!
Alfredo Diaz (6 months ago)
There is no link to download the e-book on the site
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Hey Alfredo! You can use this link instead: http://www.katespring.com/free 😊
justoldog (6 months ago)
Usually, when they recoil in horror and run away from me, I consider that some sort of sign.
Limuel Dela Cruz (6 months ago)
Thanks! :)
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
You're welcome Limuel! 😉
Jeff Guzman (6 months ago)
Girl likes me but doesn’t want a relationship. She says she only wants “something chill”. Today she texted me asking why I haven’t been texting her, thought I was playing her and said she’s not ready for anything serious but wants to be friends. So I agreed and she got mad blaming me for playing her because I wanted to be friends? What’s she mean? What do I do & why’s she like this ?
Jeff Guzman (3 months ago)
Feelfreetosayhi Me(23M) have Been dating a girl(20F) for about a month. She was supposed to come sleep at a hotel with me but she wanted to party for a few hours. She got really wasted and sat on guys laps, and flirted etc with everyone and I took her outside and broke it off. She started crying and apologizing / kissing me. She blamed it on being wasted and didn’t realize she fucked up. Then she threw up the whole night (alcohol poisoning) and I had to babysit her, she threw up on me. I had to carry her up to the hotel. She made me shower with her. I took care of her up until when I dropped her off. People were saying I should just block and ignore her but I like her a lot... what should I do? (She’s also dating a few other guys besides me) TL;DR: girl was being a hoe at party, broke it off, she cried. What do I do
Jeff Guzman (4 months ago)
Feelfreetosayhi I found a new girl who is way cuter and super cool. Makes my ex look like nothing 😂😂🤷🏽‍♂️
Feelfreetosayhi (4 months ago)
Jeff Guzman you deserve better. Fuck her tbh.
Jeff Guzman (6 months ago)
I’m so scared to trust girls now.
Jeff Guzman (6 months ago)
Should I text her in a few months ? I don’t think she’ll text me. She’s the type to date new guys all the time
Tim Horton (6 months ago)
So, the girl I like a lot does the opposite of all of these things. Does that mean anything?
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Why, yes of course Tim! And it means exactly the opposite of this video too! You might wanna watch the video on the link below and if you think she's really into you, go for it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Stirling Worden (6 months ago)
Very informative..thank you
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
You're welcome! :-)
Gregor9O9 (6 months ago)
Im gonna learn a lott from this channel, and then Im gonna try to seduce Kate Spring. LOL
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
While I'd be happy to be your practice buddy Gregor, I'm afraid it's not gonna work with someone who's engaged already. You might wanna try someone else 😉
Robert Collins (6 months ago)
I have more respect for a woman say she not interested because I'm ugly, then a woman say she wants a date then ghost me!!
Robert Collins (6 months ago)
Kate Spring Thank you ! I'm sure guys ghost too, I think it's a weakness in character to just ghost someone, just prefer a brutal rejection over lies and false hope :) I know is good people in this world too but there usually taken for a reason !! :)
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
It sucks I know, and I'm totally against ghosting too Robert!
Wolf Sleigher (7 months ago)
Kate you're dressing up for the videos and looking super good. that must mean you're in to me right?
Kurx (7 months ago)
6 signs shes not into you: if she doesn’t play fornite with you
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
As long as she's not better playing it than you ;)
Daniel Jensen (7 months ago)
Oh shit!!!! You’ve described everything that I have noticed!
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Oh man, tough luck there Daniel. But hey, look on the bright side. Maybe you can finally start moving on and stop wasting your time if she's not the one for you right? :-)
Navin Sahdav (7 months ago)
❤️
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
❤️
Curtis Fernandez (7 months ago)
Hey Kate. If a woman says she's torn between two men, what would be the best way for one man to win her heart? Scenerio: Guy 1: was engaged then she broke it off a month before the wedding. The reason: She wasn't"in love" but loved him for the man that he is. And was trying to fall back in the deep love they had before. She hadn't seen guy 2 since she told him she was to get married. Then all of a sudden she says that's where heart lies. Guy 2: guy 2 had been seeing the girl off and on over the course ofva year. Because he was in a relationship. She didn't see it progressing. However, while her and guy 1 were on vacation. He decides to tell her he kicked his then girlfriend out. Now, she's in love with him. Sorry this so long. But what advice can you give, to either guy, so one of the guys can come out ahead?!?? Thank you for your time.
Jeremy Thompson (7 months ago)
true I would prefer if someone doesn't they should let you know, and if they do surely just tell you plus add what they want or expect out this
Miguel Santos (7 months ago)
So, this means that this girl doesn't care about me? She is my friend on Facebook and she used to be my neighbor but I see her a lot in my street almost every day and we talked only once on Facebook back in 2011, every time I see her she doesn't look at me but she bites her lip a lot, last week I found out that she works at a clinic where I had to go and she did look at me but she looked away, I have a feeling that she doesn't know who I am.
Miguel Santos (7 months ago)
Good morning Kate, thank you so much for your reply, in 21 years we talked only once and it was on Facebook, she seems shy, I'm shy as well, she is Virgo and I'm Pisces, according to Google we are compatible, is that true? I have another question for you: what if a girl shows a very shy smile to a boy like she did to me a few months ago? Last week I was at the clinic where she works and I was waiting for my heart exam and I was sitting right in front of her, she looked at me when I was looking in another direction and with the corner with my right eye I looked at her and she looked away, did I scared her? :/
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Not exactly. There's just no communication between the two of you except all these glancing. Why don't you go and ask her out and build that connection?
amr amr (7 months ago)
Hello Kate, the video is helpful but still confusing me, I dunno if she is into me or not, can you help me in the decision
John Whodat (7 months ago)
My wife has all 6 signs towards me. Lol
Acharich Speaks (3 months ago)
💀💀💀💀💀
Michaela Telcy (3 months ago)
John Whodat 💀💀💀
Fahrudin Catic (4 months ago)
You need to upgrade to new and better wife
Old Man hendo (5 months ago)
Lmao
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
I have a married friend who says the same thing too. Pretty hilarious! Hahaha :-)
Manuel Muñoz (7 months ago)
Hi Kate. Wondering if you could shed some light on my situation? Or maybe i just need to be told to get my mind right lol. I like this girl who ive known for about 10yrs. Just recently i told her i had feelings for her. I told her in a sutle way almost jokingly so not to ruin the friendship we have. After that we began spending time together but i kept it as a friend and made no advances. Only because i wanted to show her i respect her . also because her baby daddy was getting ready to leave town for 6months. There not together but i know they still sleep together. Now because he has no interest in serious relation with her is why i spent time and $. now that hes gone shes been cold and distant. pretends to be on the phone and wont even make eye or verbal contact? Whats that all ablout?
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Sounds like you're smack dab in the middle of the friend zone Manuel. Watch this video on how to escape it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juo5zwRe3mk
Barca57fan (7 months ago)
Katie was staring at me the whole time. Guess she likes me
Lionso Delmo (7 months ago)
damn girl you're so pretty
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Thanks Lionso! Appreciate it :-)
Haynes72 (7 months ago)
The only one that she has shown is that she didn’t put on any make up or dress up.
Haynes72 (7 months ago)
So I’m in a bind. I met this girl two weeks ago. We danced the night we met and had a great time. If she wasn’t dancing with her girlfriends then I was the only guy she danced with. At the end of the night she gave me her number. Then the next day texted me saying she wasn’t interested in a relationship and would just like to hang out. Well then she starts texting me everyday. Asking how I am and what I’ve been up to. Then last night she called and asked me to come with her to join her and another couple for dinner. Then said she would like to hang out one on one sometime. I’m just confused because I would like to ask her out on a date. I just can’t tell if she’s just being friendly or wants more.
Purple Python (5 months ago)
Joe Black Fell asleep, but I think that's probably the best thing to do now I think about it, I'm sure I'll most likely see her around, she actually kinda lives not too far from me according to where she's been tagged alot lol thanks for the advice man!
Joe Black (5 months ago)
Purple Python If you see in her person again just act normal and say hi, maybe you can open a normal conversation and back peddle to build rapport. But I dont think you'd have much luck communicating over a computer to her, you can end up easily looking crazy with texting especially when you start double texting because their not responding and dig yourself into a hole. lol
Purple Python (5 months ago)
Joe Black Ah damn you're probably right.. the kinda funny thing is though she kinda like more kissed me (like slowly started to touch my face n move closer) so yea.. but feel like I should apologise or something somehow, we have a lot of mutual friends n seem to be into the same stuff, not sure what to do..
Joe Black (5 months ago)
Purple Python What happened, is it happened all too fast. You build rapport, comfort then sexual advances. You skipped all the steps right to sexual stuff before sex with some woman you don't know. Now she is at home in her own world and thought about what happened, she knows exactly why your adding her and what the next step is. It probably makes her uncomfortable, your a stranger to her, so she ignored your fb request.
Purple Python (5 months ago)
Lol pretty much same thing i got going on, was out for my buddys birthday n this girl caught my eye, she gets closer n closer as the night goes on then we're dancing, holding hands, eventually kiss (romantic af right) the place was jus about to close so I went n got my last drink. So we leave, about 2 days later I'm on Facebook n I come across her profile, naturally I sent a friend request and... she doesn't add me! Maybe she wants to be chased but if anyone got an explanation for this id love to hear cuz im confused af lmao
Stacey Fonseca (7 months ago)
:)
patrick andrivaux (7 months ago)
Thanks Kate. Your videos are EXCELLENT !!!
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Thanks Patrick! Don't forget to hit that subscribe button! :-)
snooze button (7 months ago)
I am now a huge fan of kate spring. ghosting is inconsiderate. there was a person at work, she smiled at me. great. we played this eye contact game but it was obvious. one day, she gave me a dirty look and turned her back. she waited for me to look At then did it. wtf, whatever, i just forgot about it. the next thing she is walking past me desk like twice day. it was like ghosting, but more rude. wtf do you want??? it has happed, not from her, 2 other times. texting or not, ghosting or ignoring isn't cool.
Sydney Mkhwanazi (7 months ago)
thnx mamas i need not see this coming
Chris Green (7 months ago)
I need some advice....
AaronThicc (7 months ago)
Could it possible that she is not making eye contact with me just because she's shy or nervous?
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
That's possible Aaron, but almost every girl I know(including me) would want to look at the eyes of the guy that we like. And that's every chance we get ;)
TheGamingMelon (7 months ago)
What if she looks at me a lot and it's obvious that she wants to look at me but when I text her the way she replies is just like what you described as "one word fridge magnet poems"
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Probably something about your texting that you need to work on. I think this video's gonna help you a lot. Check it out! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7LCxSU4iTxE
Palacios Blogs (7 months ago)
Hi I have a question I like a interpreter in my school she is 23 and I’m 18 and I want to know her but I don’t have classes with her how can I talk to her?❤️❤️❤️❤️
iJames (7 months ago)
ight so we ft sometimes, but when we do we do it until like 3 in the morning and i sometime catch her staring at me in bus. ugh, why are girls so confusing lol
Bboy Mannases (7 months ago)
Where is the free ebook
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Hey there! You can download it using this link: http://www.KateSpring.com/FREE
The Checkpoint (7 months ago)
I have no any idea... She has got a boyfriend and post photos on social media... We had few talks too... But what do i do further????
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Got a video for this specific scenario. Check it out at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0u29m6UbYSE
Harold G. (7 months ago)
At the end of the date we asked a stranger to take a pic of us together and yeah I am aware of the touch rule and when the camera was ready I stood straight with no touches but she leaned on me too much touching my right shoulder lol.
Laza Amafirin (7 months ago)
What's your sign? Curious. enjoy your vids btw
Brian Hoffmann (7 months ago)
I think Ive been afraid of the " ruthlessness" of situations with women! Im making women to powerful when women are not so scary because their not! Learning allot here! I go so defensive on women; then I expect them to rescue me! I do the same things to women that I dont want done to me! So, Ive got allot to learn here!
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Glad to know the videos have been helpful Brian. There's a couple more on my channel so go check them out :-)
Marvin Nabor (7 months ago)
What if she always reply at my messages but she never starts conversations herself.
sam correia (8 months ago)
Hi kate, you mentioned.owning rejection and move on. Could you explain? Is it my responsibility i was rej3cted? Thanks, great work
Ribbitdafrog (8 months ago)
I am a ghost to society but people respect me
Music lovers (8 months ago)
I love honest women I would rather a lady say, Thankyou but I'm not interested in you the way you are in myself. I would rather deal with that and be able to put her mind at ease by replying don't worry it's okay, hey the answer will always be no if I don't try asking her out.
Rob Stefani (8 months ago)
She not only ghosts you, but she only initiates contact when she needs something.
Mohamed Ali (3 months ago)
sounds familiar
Hiram Guerra (7 months ago)
Rob Stefani I hate that shit, I’m done with that hoe.
Skialar Mahar (8 months ago)
What if the woman just has bad anxiety and just gets nervous, therefore explaining why she's ghosting and avoiding certain situations?
Skialar Mahar (8 months ago)
Kate Spring Thank you, that's good advice.
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
Then it's really up to you if her explanation is good enough for you to take all that Skialar. I mean, if she's got an understandable reason behind it, why not give it a shot?
sytze-jan smit (8 months ago)
now i am even more confused about wheter this one girl is into me or not
Samuel Smith (8 months ago)
How do uk if shes just using u for just attention and not really into u

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