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5 Secret Physiological Ways To Tell A Girl Is Into You

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http://www.KateSpring.com/Free --- 5 Secret Physiological Ways To Tell A Girl Is Into You Have you ever noticed a chick staring at you and wondered what she was thinking? Does she think you’re cute? Has she spotted some leftover lettuce in your teeth from lunch? If your fly is down? Trying to tell if a woman likes you by looking at her is like trying to teach your cat a backflip. Pretty unrealistic. Women have mastered the art of mixed signals and playing hard to get. So trying to tell if a woman likes you just by a glance is a pretty difficult, if not impossible, feat. Women will, however, send subtle signs that indicate that they’re interested in you with more than just a look. And that is what this video is all about: The subtle physiological signs that let you know what a woman is thinking about you. Hey guys, for those of you who don’t know me -- I’m Kate Spring. A dating and relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. If you’re new to my channel, welcome. And for those of your returning, welcome back. Before I dive into the nitty gritty details of this video, be sure to subscribe to my channel and ring the little bell where you can stay up to date with my latest videos and you can then leave all of your questions in the comments section below. Quick question, how do you usually tell if a woman likes you? If she looks at you? or if she smiles at you? Take the poll and let’s see how you all tell if someone likes you. If you haven’t got a clue, relax because women have been encouraged to be coy and play hard to get for centuries with the notion that romantic uncertainty increases attraction, and it does. But don’t remain uncertain. There are signs that give a clear indication of interest because today body language is a topic widely observed and studied. In fact, we’re now able to interpret slight changes in a woman’s body that can reveal her true feelings and motivations. Unlocking the mystery of a woman’s attraction can be as simple as looking for these 5 physiological indicators of interest. 1. Her pupils dilate when she speaks to you: You know the saying that “the eyes are the window to the soul.” I think it should be, “the eyes are the window to the libido.” I once thought that this was a fallacy, a myth circulated by one of the original pick up artists, but, upon looking more deeply into the topic, I was pleasantly surprised that there is considerable research that supports the idea that there is a biological response to attraction. The studies found that our pupils dilate up to three times the regular size when we see something stimulating, exciting or interesting in order to take in more of the pleasing surrounding. In fact, women in 16th century Italy would take this medicine named “belladonna,” which would keep their pupils dilated because dilated pupils were seen as more attractive and seductive. It follows, then, that when you want to tell if a woman likes you, see if her pupils are dilated when she’s talking to you. It’s also important to note here that if you’re in a dark room, her pupils will enlarge as a simple fact that there is not enough light in the room. So try to see it in different lighting. 2. Her feet are crossed: One of the physiological ways to tell that a woman is interested in you, not that she wants to marry and have children with you, but that she’s interested in at least talking to you, if she is standing facing you and her feet are crossed. When someone is uncomfortable their feet generally don’t point towards the person with whom they’re speaking. Their feet tend to point away, and only their torso is facing their conversation partner. Subconsciously, their feet are preparing for them to exit the conversation. However, on the flip side of this, when someone’s feet are pointed towards you, that means that they are engaged in the conversation and are in no rush to get away. And an even better sign is when a woman’s feet are crossed. When her feet are crossed, it’s much harder to make a quick getaway. This is a sign that a woman is essentially planting herself in this spot and is engaged in her conversation with you, which is a great sign. So look at her feet, are they pointed towards you, or are they crossed? If so, take note that this is a subconscious response that she is interested in you and this interaction. More at: http://www.KateSpring.com/Free
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darang sir ligoo (23 hours ago)
To tell you the truth Every ladys i meet wants to be near me or talk to me,Likewsie iam nor a player nor a talkative person.i just focus on me just to get successful, and im asian i cant see the dilated pupils everywhere black eyes😅
anthony ward (1 day ago)
bahaha romantic uncertainty increases attraction, and it does. yeah maybe for you girls, for a guy its the complete opposite. not knowing if the girl is attracted to you is the worst.
Tomka19 R. (1 day ago)
You look nice Kate:)
Jerry Tinaza (2 days ago)
You want women's attention? It's very simple. Ignore them and don't give them attention and they'll do anything to get your attention... works everytime I ignore my wife...except I get a slap on the face a pinch or bite on the lips in return 🤣
Bojo David (9 days ago)
Background reminds me of 2005
christian ogando (10 days ago)
Unless the girl has light colored eyes, it’s hard asl to tell if her pupils r dilated
Sergio Mendez (12 days ago)
nice content. The only subsconcious i´d say is regarding the feet. The rest mentions are more thinking inside or for herself rather than the subsconcious, since it´s the concious. Keep it upp
Gregory Hismarney (8 days ago)
+Kate Spring c
Gregory Hismarney (8 days ago)
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Kate Spring (11 days ago)
Thanks Sergio! There's a few more interesting topics on my channel that you might want to watch! 🙂
Sergio Mendez (12 days ago)
starts at 2:15
thejediway (13 days ago)
I've missed a lot of those. Probably more than I realize. Also get a lot of mixed messages. From these examples I've often given the impression that I'm not interested. Oh well.
Kate Spring (11 days ago)
On a positive note, you won't have to worry about missing chances anymore since you now know which signs to look for!
Stephen Forman (18 days ago)
I found this very informative!! Great video!
Kate Spring (18 days ago)
Glad to hear it Stephen! There's a few more helpful videos similar to this on my channel that you can watch. Feel free to check them out! 🙂
Joshua Chigumira (22 days ago)
I miss your vids
Kate Spring (19 days ago)
No worries. New ones are on the works and I'll have them up as soon as they're ready! 🙂
paulo sócrates (24 days ago)
Smile Kate, smile.
Kate Spring (23 days ago)
Anton Boludo (26 days ago)
Nice looking girl with big blue eyes :)
Indegruv (27 days ago)
you kind of look like Fiona Apple.
Kate Spring (26 days ago)
Yeah, I get that a lot. Thanks 😊
Deklan Kilgoran (28 days ago)
So, here's a question for you. I was out solo last night at a place I've been to several times. Black and red Merino wool zip neck sweater, black tapered leg jeans, black Chukka boots, and a slim black and gold watch along with a red soft shell ski jacket. I'm on a first name basis with a few of the female bartenders but I never "flirt" with them figuring that's uncool as they probably get that all the time. One in particular is really chatty. She's also pretty hot and smart with a mouth on her. Not swearing, just a brutally sarcastic streak that showcases an uncommon intelligence and awareness. So, she's chatty as usual but when she finishes her shift she comes around the bar, taps me on the shoulder and tells me "move over, I'm coming in". So I scoot my bar stool over to make some room and she hops up on the stool next to me and we start talking. At this point I should probably mention that she once told me she's 27 and I'm a good 2 decades older even though people tell me I look at least a decade younger than my actual age. That's another reason I've never flirted with any of those bartenders, I don't want to be that creepy older guy. She mentions that she has a boyfriend but then proceeds to tell me he has a problem with alcohol, embarrasses her a lot from what I can gather, and she generally proceeds to trash the guy. I listen but don't offer up an opinion because I really don't know her situation. Then the conversation gets round to her New Year resolution to get on a diet and lose weight. Next thing I know she's showing me pictures of herself in swimsuits on her phone so I can see what she looked like and what figure she's trying to get back to. Of course I gave her compliments on the photos and told her she looks great now too. So I start thinking she's either really really open with people in general or maybe she's trying to let me know she's interested. The chat goes on for a while and a male bartender still on duty comes over and asks if she wants another drink. I see her glance at my glass of wine which was half filled and and say yes to another drink. Mind you it's 10:30 and she got off work a half hour ago at this point. So next, another female bartender comes over and tells her a couple of guys even older than my geezer ass want to buy her a drink. The bartender pours her a shot and she toasts them from down the bar but stays planted next to me. A guy from her clique plants himself on the other side of her. She exchanges greetings then literally turns so her back is to him and we go on talking until I finish my wine. I ask for my check and when I look at the bill it's ten dollars and change. Mind you I had dinner, three glasses of wine, and a couple of cokes. I look at her and she gives me a big smile and says "I take care of my own". I thank her and slip a $20 bill into the little folder with the bill. Now I'm really thinking she's giving me signals. But I can't help thinking it would be creepy to ask her out because of the age difference and because she told me she has a boyfriend. I say goodnight, we hug and I give her a kiss on the cheek then head out. So OK, I know I'm a moron when it comes to reading women. But is any of this a sign she's interested? Is she trying to give me a green light to ask her out? Or am I just a delusional older guy reading too much into it? LOL, stupid guys need help with the obvious.
Deklan Kilgoran (24 days ago)
@Zero Wolf.....You think I should get it cut down to 12"?
Zero Wolf (24 days ago)
Too fucking long lol
Deklan Kilgoran (25 days ago)
LOL, I'm not being hard on myself. More like chuckling at the situation. I just have trouble accepting a woman that much younger and that good looking would try to flirt with an older guy like that. Maybe that's just a cultural hangup I've bought into. She's done it more than once but not as overtly or for as long. And I'm not really as clueless as my first post indicated, just trying to be self deprecating rather than cocky about it. But it was really nice to get a woman's perspective on it. So thank you for that and the advice Kate. Actually, there's another woman bartender there, 37 years old, blonde, and even hotter but at least she's closer in age. I've never really had a conversation with her per se. But she acknowledges me by name when I come in even though I've neglected to find out her name. Feel bad about that. It feels rude. Not my style. So I was in there a couple of weeks ago to see a live band and the brunette I mentioned wasn't working that night. So this blonde bar tender comes over and wishes me a Happy New Year and we chat for a minute while she sets me up with a glass of wine and a menu at the bar. I should mention that this isn't some neighborhood bar. It's an upscale wine bar and grille in a tony bedroom community in the suburbs of New York City. It was sort of a dead night. So the next thing I know she's back and chatting with me. I found out she's single with a 7 year old daughter. She told me about her day job working sales to restaurants and bars for a liquor distributor. We talked about her New Year resolution to get back in the gym. Meanwhile she looks like a fitness instructor and she's positively busting out of a pair of black stretch pants and a low cut black top. At some point she admires a new cashmere zip neck sweater I was wearing then reaches over the bar and places her hand on my upper chest then proceeds to run her hand from there slowly down my left arm all the way to my wrist while locking eyes with me. Gulp. That got me excited. She basically never left me all night except to wait on customers and then come back. I never got around to asking how she knew my name or getting hers. Gotta work on my manners. So, after that night and then the brunette basically doing the same thing a couple of weeks later I'm wondering..... Am I in the middle of some sort of bet between them? Have I stumbled into some female competitive thing? Is this just the culture in that place? Does the lighting in that place do wonders for my appearance, LOL? I'm certainly enjoying all the attention but I have never been a lady's man. I'm really fit and I dress well but I've never exactly had women falling all over me. Especially much younger women this hot. I should probably just go with it and stop over thinking things. Yes?
Kate Spring (26 days ago)
You're being too hard on yourself Deklan. It's normal to actually get confused in situations like this and it takes a lot of man to admit it than pretending to know what's going on. She's definitely flirting with you but the fact that she's still in a relationship makes it a bad idea to make a move on her. Last thing you'd want is to be the "other guy" that she can dump anytime. I suggest you keep things as they are for now. Maybe she'll break the status quo one day and say she's now single. That would be your green light to ask her out if you want. Good luck! 😉
Rick Uyeda (28 days ago)
I've never had to talk to women. Matter of fact, my first "crush" at 13, she sent her friends to tell me she wanted to dance. I said no because I thought they were teasing me. My first girlfriend asked me to have lunch with which is how we met. The next was a waitress that gave me an apple pie on the house. My roommate liked a girl whose best friend was his Boss's daughter. He use to pick them both up to go cruising. My roommate suggested we get something to eat. His Boss's daughter was waiting for me by my car. She said it was too crowded in my roommates car and wanted to ride with me. The list goes on and on.
Vishesh Singh (29 days ago)
4:42 that guy 😂😂😂😂🤭
Anthony deville (30 days ago)
Kate, are telling me this because you’re interested?
Kate Spring (26 days ago)
What do you think? 😉
Mutarr Barry (30 days ago)
nice topic
bryan snyder (1 month ago)
I want to try these with Kate and see if she likes me
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Good luck with that Bryan! 😉
im ugly (1 month ago)
Girls will definately not be into me no matter what. Lol!! Oh well
im ugly (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring well ive been looked down upon all my life so there is no point to inject any positivity into me. Waste of time doing that.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
You seem to believe that a little too much and maybe that's the reason why. How about you try to inject more positivity in your attitude and work your way from there? 😉
Awesome insights
Nasman (1 month ago)
Hey here’s a tough one for you. I’m really confused on a girl. I do security at the mall and this girl that works there stares at me all the time and always hovers around me and asks the other guards about me. When I go to talk to her she talks to me like she is really pissed off and crosses her arms not wanting to talk. So does she like me or not? 🤨
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
That stare and all her other actions could have a rather negative meaning Nasman. Why don't you watch this video and see if you can spot a few more signs and if you do, then you have your answer. Here's the video link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQVTBNr5tYY
Daniel Valdes (1 month ago)
So here's my story. I was really interested in this girl, but she rejected me, so i did the only thing I could do, and I started hooking up with other women. One day in the lunchroom, my female friend is sitting next to me, I step out of the lunchroom, and I realize that I left my phone on the table. I certainly back in to the lunchroom, and I notice I have missed call from a girl that I was starting to get semi serious with...... And I wasn't certain, but I was pretty sure my female friend saw this. Later on in the day, she comes into my work area, and just stares at me, I ask her wats wrong, and she says nothing, just walks out. I also noticed that she blocked me on Instagram, but I didn't make a big deal out of it. So flash forward to maybe 3 monhs after this incident, me and my female friend decide to go to a happy hour together. We are having a good time, and the topic of the girl I'm dating comes up.... And she goes ballistic. She tells me "fuck that bitch" "I don't give a fuck about that bitch" "I saw her call you in the lunchroom" "fuck her" and this went on for a while. Eventually I pressed my forehead up against hers, grabbed her hand and put it over my heart, and I attempted to call her down. This worked momentarily, but she began to cry profusely. We go outside and sit in the car, and she continues to cry. She tells me she loves me, but that her ex-husband has ruined her, and that she's broken, that she can't have anything with anybody. We interlock hands, I start carressing her head to calm her down, and eventually she does. We agree to see each other the next day, but come the following day she tells me she can't see me, cause she has her kids with her. So the next week at work( yea, we work together) she is extremely cold. She only makes the smallest of small talk, and she more or less completely ignores me. I then try to make plans with her, and she tells me she can't beacause she has a date with someone that night. please help me!!! What is going on with this woman? What is the truth here.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Sorry to hear that Daniel. It looks like she still has issues with her past. What happened between her and her ex husband is obviously affecting her decisions to get into a relationship and that's why she can't move forward. I suggest you keep your distance for now since she definitely needs more time to get her emotions sorted out. Of course, that time away from each other will make her miss you and amplify her feelings for you, so it's definitely worth the wait. Good luck!
HAYDENMUSICTV (1 month ago)
when they laugh at your jokes is a good sign a woman likez you
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
True. Most especially when you throw a lame joke and she still somehow laughs at it 😉
Neil Heckley (1 month ago)
Hi Kate, I don't know how I lost your subscription. I'm glad to be back
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Glad to hear it Neil. Working on new vids and I'll have them up as soon as they're ready. You just sit back and relax for now 😉
Paul Hemmendinger (1 month ago)
I have a question to ask I gave a Christmas gift to the girl I'm talking to I saw her day after Christmas she was smiling and looked happy when I was talking to her face to face I noticed she was nervous I saw her picking and peeling her nail polish off from her finger nails and I found out that she told me on the phone that I was making her nervous that's why she was picking her nail polish what does that mean?
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
It could be interpreted as something positive but you'll need to look for a few more signs to know if she likes you or not. I have a video here that can help you with that Paul. Watch it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Edward Masters (1 month ago)
Thank you, beautiful.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
You're welcome Edward! 😊
Oliver8111 (1 month ago)
It can't get it: you're so good looking and yet your eyes look so bored, or is that only a thing specific to people from the west coast of Canada?
Film Buff 92 (1 month ago)
A girl at my work has been winking at me, well at least she did last week. This Monday I got her name, she asked mine, I winked at her yesterday and she talked to me a bit about her life. I’m thinking about asking her out or at least for her number. Today she gave me the silent treatment for the short moment I was in her office aside from one look of hello earlier. What do?
Film Buff 92 (1 month ago)
Turns out she has a boyfriend. Lol fml. Women ya know...
Film Buff 92 (1 month ago)
Kate Spring thanks for the advice though. I appreciate it
Film Buff 92 (1 month ago)
Kate Spring I asked her out Friday and got her number. Texted her a bit Saturday and now she went silent again. Maybe I am giving it too much thought
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
You're giving it a little too much meaning. There's a lot of reasons why she did that and and I don't think any of those reasons should stop you from giving it a go. Just carry one with your plan and ask her out. Good luck!
Simple Mind (1 month ago)
Resistence makes the seduction process ever so thrilling 😉
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Some get disheartened while others like you take it as a challenge and that's how you should handle resistance!
Nrgizd Btw (2 months ago)
Kate is fucking GORGEOUS
Orlando Flores (2 months ago)
OMG. one more observation that I was missing... her eyes but is hard to notice unless you are close enough to notice..yes woman are definitely the most beautiful things that God created but the most complex, emotional complicated souls on earth. there heart is a Galaxy of billions of feelings and trillions of emotions, no wonder we have some much issues understanding them.
Orlando Flores (2 months ago)
Well thanks, I am still hurt for some emotional separation long ago, we back together some time ago and thing are cold as ice, emotionally and sexually...I talk to other womans and find the hard way.. iam a guy who try to modify when I have to.. but this latin young generation 25 30 40 there are a different word...but I will keep checking your videos, like I said I like the way you project your self. I love your neutrality but your honesty at the same time. Thanks.
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
It's not that hard understanding women once you get the hang of it Orlando, and it looks like you're on a good track towards that based on everything you just wrote 😉
Bon Vivant (2 months ago)
I think I am just watching these videos because Kate is so cute / crush <3
Bon Vivant (2 months ago)
@+Kate Spring you mean besides that your decent make up matches your top and compliment your green eyes, ^ ^ well, yes a lil bit, but honestly I couldn`t fully focus on what you were saying tho *gg*
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Thank you. Hope you learned something while you're at it 😉
Ahmad (2 months ago)
Wait.. Then all of this time I was.. Naaah that can’t be right.
Leo Yuan (2 months ago)
6:34 you're so cute when you try to pronounce "imagine"
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Thanks... I guess? 😅
micro aggressive (2 months ago)
Hey Kate. I like your natural hair color better. Brings out your skin tone and eyes.
micro aggressive (2 months ago)
+Kate Spring I also love the fact that you don't wear a lot of makeup. I know you don't have to. You're what I call a natural beauty.
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Thank you! 😍
Javon Williams (2 months ago)
Wow you’re beautiful
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Thank you Javon! 😊
ASAP TANK (2 months ago)
You got gorgeous eyes ms.spring 🙏🏼 I’ve felt & seen towards me by a girl that is married to a relative & I feel wrong.
GTD_Bing (2 months ago)
Just trust your gut feeling most of the time it’s right
Marrow (8 days ago)
Mine wasn’t right /:
BMan2Cool4U (8 days ago)
Uhhhhh no... I've asked many girls and this never works for me.
ZuluHan Yeah true, before knowing all those masses of signs that confirmed my feelings, I'd always look at how I feel things, how I feel the emotions and the vibrations of the girl lookin' at me, starin' at me, smilin' at me. Why did that girl looked DOWN especially after 4 seconds of stare-off ? Always believed my gut and those videos are confirmations. Now I gotta take advantage of all the opportunities I'll have to talk or walk up to them or just showing them they interest me by the use of a smile (because with some girls, I accidentely always look away after 1 second of eye-contact if I'm not ready 😂😂). But too many girls, I gotta do a top priority list of let's 4 girls.. I've noticed that the ones that attract me the most are also the girls I attract the most and that give me the largest numbers of signs (Some Law of Attraction stuff).
WingedArchon (1 month ago)
Hell, I hope not... That would be boatshill for me
Tempor Rage (2 months ago)
What if one day she shows all these signs but the next she doesn’t.
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Women in general don't like to be very obvious about their feelings to someone they like. It's all got something to do with wanting to be chased and it's pretty rare for someone to display these signs in perfect consistency. I have another video(link below) that talks about other signs you can look for to know if she's into you. If you notice her do one or two, then I suggest you go for it and make your move! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
starlight122012 (2 months ago)
When has anyone noticed a girls pupils dilate?? if you can see that from across the bar, then wow great vision!
VJ Vijay Iyer (2 months ago)
What if she touches me with her feet while sitting next to me when in office?.. I know she does it on purpose but says sorry later, this gets me all the time
VJ Vijay Iyer (2 months ago)
+Kate Spring 😀 I don't like to touch anyone but I'll keep that in my mind -just in case,the next time this happens I should ask her out,would that be right?
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Hard to tell with just that. Why don't you flip the tables on her and *you* touch her with your feet the next chance you get? Flirting is a two-way street and this is a good way if you can get any reaction from her. You might also want to watch this video and see if you can get more signs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
SALKA AHSINA (3 months ago)
write this because i don,t understand spoken english
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Good thing I had it posted on my blog too Salka! You can read the written version at https://www.katespring.com/psychological-ways-girl-likes-you/
nathantimes (3 months ago)
Right so, what if I'm getting all of these signs, but the next day none of them and it alternates like that. Also, on top of those she gives proper flirty comments to me, saying I have really beautiful eyes like a Disney character and saying I have a beautiful face and saying how I'm cute. She told me near the start of the friendship she wasn't interested romantically and it's been a while since then and we have progressed as friends quite deeply and I'm sending the best signals I can. What do I do in such a situation because I'm genuinely baffled.
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
That's all enough for me to say you should give it a go and try to ask her out. Yes she said she didn't want anything romantic but feelings change and she may have developed some feelings for you by then so go for it! Good luck!
Jorge Vera (3 months ago)
hi Kate! so what if I invited a woman out for coffee and her response was she would let me know. when her pupils would get big and she would always smile and carried long conversations with me. so yeah I'm confused
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
How long has it been since you asked her? If you asked like a few days ago then wait for at least a week and ask her about that coffee date again Jorge. Try not to be a little too obvious if she blows you off again and show her it doesn't bother you. You can ask again about 2 or 3 weeks later after that and if she's still doing the same thing, then it's time to take the hint that she's not interested and is just politely declining you. Good luck!
YR peter (4 months ago)
How to kiss her
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
I got you fam 💪 Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nl-qHxk8nrQ
Naqib Naderi (4 months ago)
Kate, you have been looking at me with dilated pupils the entire time you were talking, does that mean you are in to me????????
Naqib Naderi (4 months ago)
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
We were using my friend's camera while shooting this and I wanted to take that camera home 😍
Mohit Meena (4 months ago)
You looks beautiful in real rather than in edited thumbnail
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Thank you Mohit 😊
jrocker152 (4 months ago)
For the last few minutes of the video, the app Bumble has taught me that I am very lucky, and also very unskilled at socializing 😅 very mixed feelings about that. Thanks a million Kate.
Tennis Life (4 months ago)
Here's a tip/disclaimer: Don't worry if she does not contact you first. Many girls interested may be a little shy or a bit pressured at first to contact you. In this case, just make sure to talk to her outside of the digital world and make consious efforts to notice other signs she might be into you!
Lilliam Pumpernickle (5 months ago)
Pretty hard to see if her eyes dilate if they're a very dark brown 😕
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Tough luck there Lilliam 😕
Nathan Toth (5 months ago)
Thank you for sharing video.
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
You're welcome Nathan! :-)
Kris S (5 months ago)
You’re cute
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Thank you! 😍
cjt74 (6 months ago)
Great video👍🏾👍🏾
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Thank you! :-)
Dorman Davis (6 months ago)
Thank you Kate
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
You're welcome Dorman! :-)
Tim Wilson (6 months ago)
Forgive me for not being a gentleman but Kate you're on fire
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Aww, thank you Tim! 🔥❤
xxXHighTensionXxx (6 months ago)
hi Kate, there is this co-worker that i really like, but i dont know if she thinks the same and i want to ask her out. she is really shy and insecure and i know from other co-workers that she had some bad relationships in the past and now she is almost 3 years single. when i talk to her at work, we have normal conversations and when i make jokes she always laugh but smetimes she looks nervous. i m looking for your tips but the only one i sometimes see is the pupil one. when i text her she always replies with long answers and uses emoji's and sometimes we text for like 2 hours. a few days ago we had dinner in a restaurant with a group of co-workers. we met at a parking and she was the first to arrive and i was second. so i got out of my car and gave her a kiss on the cheek, but it was a little bit uncomfortable for the both of us. then when we wanted to drive to the restaurant i said i was driving and without thinking twice she said she wanted to drive with me in my car. we talked but her answers where short, maybe because the shyness (it was just us in my car. t,e other co-workers drove in another car.) so do you think she is in to me or not and if it's worth a shot to ask her out? sorry for the long post :p
EssTeeAySeaEeWhy (2 months ago)
TranquilDark180 it’s been 3 months
TranquilDark180 (4 months ago)
How'd it go?
xxXHighTensionXxx (6 months ago)
Kate Spring thanks a lot for the response and the link, it gave me more confidence, i will try to ask her out :p
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
You should totally go for it. Expect a bit of resistance on her part, especially because of the fact that you mentioned she's got some bad relationships in the past so you don't want to rush things and just take it slow. It could take a while for her to open up and trust again so you need to be a little patient with her. The shy ones are usually a tough nut to crack, so you might want to check another video of mine and see if you could get more signs if she's into you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Ronald Sprowal (6 months ago)
Ronald Sprowal (6 months ago)
Kate Spring Yea I really do
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Looks like you really do Ronald. You're welcome! :-)
Russell Mccune (7 months ago)
Actually I've successfully taught a cat to backflip
brownpunk (13 days ago)
Love to see it..pls post🤣
daniel robin (1 month ago)
Show us on youtube!! I wanna see the video.
ronald fitzsimmons (1 month ago)
Russell Mccune 😂😂😂
David Bolha (1 month ago)
Lucky feline. 😅
Tibor Osváth (7 months ago)
Kate, what if you tell a joke? Is it a sign that she is looking at you while laughing ?
Tibor Osváth (7 months ago)
Kate Spring Maybe I should tell some really lame jokes so that I can see whether she is still laughing át my jokes.
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Definitely. Especially if there's touching involved, or say, if she still laughs even if the joke is *that* lame 😉
mumbus 27 (7 months ago)
Powerfully articulate Kate...nice work...
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Thank you! Appreciate it 😊
Rough Traveller (7 months ago)
Most women are attracted to me.I am tall and have muscular build. The signs are always obvious and if she plays hard to get i move to the next one. Sex is good but most women are not even good at it. They think having a vagina is enough.
Doug _ (7 months ago)
I can’t express how much your videos have helped me. I feel like you’re a trusted friend. 🙏🏼
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Glad to know that Doug! Always a pleasure to be of help my friend 🤗
scottdeaussie (8 months ago)
You should look at changing your reference clips, they seem to all be the same for all of your advisory videos!
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
Hey, thanks for the reminder! I actually thought of changing it a couple of weeks ago. Guess I should be doing it sooner than later 🤔
Edward Kennedy (8 months ago)
Hi Kate, that's a good video. A woman I know at work is doing some of the things you described. The problem is that I'm not interested; I'm interested in someone else. Can you recommend a nice way of letting her know I'm not interested?
Edward Kennedy (8 months ago)
Thanks Kate, that's good advice. I'll be discreet about it. 😉
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
Unless she's gonna confess that she likes you straight up, then I think you just leave it as it is Edward 😉
jeffthewhiff (8 months ago)
Another very good video, Kate! I actually like it when a woman will contact me first. I have been fortunate to have had women do this to me while online and it is very flattering to say the least. I don't think that the man should always be expected to take the initiative and make the first move toward a woman.
Chris Alonzo (8 months ago)
Thank you!
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
You're welcome Chris! :-)
Lucky Singh (8 months ago)
My pupils dilate when u tell girl stuff with that calming voice :) its relaxing when trying to understand some hard stuff :P
Saharsh Jordan (8 months ago)
Sexy spring
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
Thanks Saharsh!
Murli Nayak (8 months ago)
A girl look at me time and again but don't laugh and shows me some sings what does it means
RG11 (9 months ago)
I have a problem and don't know what to do. There is this girl at the gym that i like and see probably twice a week. I think that she is so pretty and I really like her. We tend to have eye contact with each other but not over eye contact. I don't know if this is because she is just cautious of me or because she doesn't want to seem too obvious incase I don't like her. So right now I don't know what to do whether she like a me or not because I'm crazy about her. Right now I'm on holiday so I can't do anything about it but still are unsure about whether she likes me or not. Anyone know what to do?
artissp (9 months ago)
My girlfriend does all these 5 but i am still not sure, if she just wants to be friends or something more. The fuck i should do?
1elimos (9 months ago)
Question for Kate. What does it mean if she ask or talk about your FB status/post in person, ( without liking it or commenting to it on FB) ?
Joseph Mpota (9 months ago)
Kate,can u make a video on how to get to ur heart?.....there is this aura abwt u....i dnt know hw to descrbe it,but its out of this world....um on ur channel jst to c u talk n talk n talk n talk.....u r great at this
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Thanks Joseph! I call it the Kate-magic. Pretty effective huh? ;) Not sure about your video request though. Pretty sure my husband-to-be won't approve ;)
john jingles (9 months ago)
Kate your so hot!
veezo zeezo (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring Hi Kate r u single.
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Thanks John! ;)
Jared Sanford (9 months ago)
So if a woman asks to hang out with you and then ghosts would that be a sign she's not interested?
gokul krishna (9 months ago)
HI Kate, 3 signs are so perfect, but i have problem with 4th and 5th sign... She contacts me only at office and some personal issues of her @ office. She asks me only few questions about my personal stuffs...
Tracy Hawley (9 months ago)
Quantum physics isn't near as hard to understand.
David Otarres (1 month ago)
That is actual truth
Mike Cummings (7 months ago)
Tracy Hawley that's because physics is logical, women are emotional
Jeremy Hayden (9 months ago)
What if she reached out to you, but it was through another coworker's phone?
Jeremy Hayden (9 months ago)
Thanks, that is what I thought. Although this happened last Aug. I reached out to her gave her my number twice and she said first she accidentally washed it and then she lost it. Fast forward a few months later and she then said to get a life she was not interested and then to leave her alone and do not contact her again. That was November. So I have not. You can see she clearly was not sure what she wants/wanted. Keep in mind from Aug to Nov I let her know I was still around, but I still lived my life.
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
No need to overthink it. What matters is she reached out to you. Make your move ;)
Nick (9 months ago)
I taught my cat a double back flip
EssTeeAySeaEeWhy (2 months ago)
Nick she probably likes animals so I bet she’ll be all wet if you get the chance to get in her underwear
Nick (9 months ago)
Kate Spring thanks for your concern,my gf is more of a dolphin person though. It would be nice to make a video that explores what would be the biggest flirting turn-offs for a girl when you meet her for first time..what to avoid in other words but by avoiding I mean in a genuine manner... As I type these words my cat is doing another backflip just for the meow of it.
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Good for you Nick! I bet your date will be quite impressed. If she likes cats, that is ;)
superwout (9 months ago)
Very simple and informative, it will be of help when I see a fine woman I've been going out with later on today. Most of these indicators I've been observing but not very consciously. You're swell, Kate!
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Thanks! Good luck with your date :-)
Music lovers (9 months ago)
Kate my best relationship was with a lady who approached my started with a simple suggestion to join her her brother and his lady, this relationship only ended when her sister and husband were killed she became mother and father to three children and went back to her parents house, I adore children and stability wasn't a problem I just think she was overwhelmed and heartbroken her and her sisters were really close. She's still in touch however we never pushed trying we talked allot about it now her parents aren't able to be alone, it's very sad we were together 6 years.
le trouble fête (9 months ago)
You are a very beautiful woman with magnetism
Max Gio (10 months ago)
If a girls likes you, she will touch you, talk to you, smile, start the conversation. Seen it numerous times. The SAME girls that won't give ONE guy the time of day, will JUMP all over a guy they want and find attractive. That's why men don't approach anymore. They know that when a girl likes a guy, she WILL ACT. You don't need to do ANYTHING.
micstabby moremilk (7 days ago)
There are of course, exceptions. And most of those being of shyness or self esteem. Which is actually very common. Instead of speaking directly to you, a girl may confide in her group instead. If you spot a group of girls throwing you looks and one girl seems to be the center of their attention, that's a sign that the girl in question expressed interest to her friends about you. Without ever going up to you. And these ladies are common. Unless unintentionally put, or pressured, in a situation where they are expected to engage you, they usually express their interest privately, and leave w/o a word. These ladies are opportunities lost. And although the tips in the vid are great, It's also good to keep in mind the importance of learning attraction from a distance as well.
long phan (9 days ago)
You are half right
tim walsh (16 days ago)
Nailed it!!
almostgifted (19 days ago)
Wrong. If you are waiting for her to make the first move you've missed a lot of opportunities to pull.
Israel Makinde (1 month ago)
very true
Alejandro V. (10 months ago)
Very tough to tell, as once u r engaged in a conversation, one gets carried away and forgets to look out for these signals.... Trust me I'm soooooo soooo bad at this @ Kate Spring, that I need specialized customized help and sadly have never really experienced any of this , primarily the one where she contacts you first, except for maybe 2 instances or recently with my personal trainer, but had to do with our session, hahaha... do you do vids directed at individuals with inhibited social skills???... itd be helpful if you do!
Fisty (10 months ago)
Omg your beautiful
Fisty (10 months ago)
Kate Spring U should make a vid talking about how to talk to ur crush or open up. Be less shy...
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Why, thank you Fisty! ;)
jncyj (10 months ago)
can I compliment her jewelry, like I like your earrings, that's a nice bracelet, great watch?Because she did choose to buy or wear those items so in theory I am complimenting her style or choices not on the material item.......is that correct? Because a girl did compliment my watch, "that's a nice watch" I said "thanks" I kinda wondered if she did just like to watch. if she just being nice?
Hoss Phoenix (10 months ago)
She also mostly is calculating the resources that will be available to her.
artwass artwas (30 days ago)
as any women who ever lived
Richard Payne (10 months ago)
Kate, what if she doesn't necessarily contact you first, but shows up, unannounced, to your regular "hang out" spots looking for you? Especially if she's had a bad day, week, month, etc., and sometimes, just to say hi. For instance, I go to a particular pool hall on a regular basis. I have a lady friend who will show up, looking for me, and engage in conversation (usually venting, but then conversation followed by deep revelations). She will even partake in events or activities that she really has no interest in, or just aren't a part of her life... what could this mean? Do you need more details for a more accurate asessment?
hededcdn (1 month ago)
Bro, you're just the beta male she can talk to. She's not into you.
Gerald Bruce (10 months ago)
Great videos! Some kind of made me laugh 😉
Walter Romanoff (10 months ago)
Like your videos. Most attractive girls claim to have boyfriends. How about a video on how to approach friendly woman who have a boyfriend without coming across as creepy?
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Thanks for your suggestion Walter! I'll surely consider making one :-)
Adrian Alpes (10 months ago)
You’re absolutely stunning
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Thanks Adrian! Appreciate it! :-)
Hero21 (10 months ago)
I guess she just likes the chase.. she won’t cut me loose but won’t commit to a date. She says she’s interested in me and wants to get to know me better. I try, but her schedule/work always seems to get in the way. I’m at the point where I’m going to cut myself loose and focus on the other girls. Yup, I keep my options open.
Hero21 (10 months ago)
Kate Spring you are on point! I let her know this morning, I told her not to take this the wrong way but I need to know because I like to focus on one girl.. I told her I’m sure you have options as well, in which she said yes, she’s hit on everyday. She had her hair in a ponytail, then she undid it then back into a ponytail and undone once more all while never breaking eye contact with me. I kind of lol’d to myself. Anyways, now that she knows of the other girls, she was quick to set a date and time..
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Good thinking John. If she realizes that she's not the only one out there, then she think twice about playing hard to get again ;) Best of luck!
Akash Misier (11 months ago)
I have a killer smile with amazing theeth so in my case it would be to smile and show my theeth and this works for me.
Zero Wolf (24 days ago)
Keep it going man!
larry5200 (11 months ago)
Is this only for young people? Im 47 and havent been on a date in over 8 years. This is mostly because i feel women around my age want younger men.
Avenger Verde (11 months ago)
Are you hard to get? kate
C Zilla (11 months ago)
Eh! All, I know the signs. Keeping them interested is the problem. So if you like watering the flowers each day you shouldn't have a problem. 😙
Kate Spring (11 months ago)
Then avoid making her lose interest! I've got the video for just that! ;) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IEcTgdxl-c&t=61s
a10 (11 months ago)
Kate Spring Imma bout to Spring over there rn! Lol
Mikey Hackley (11 months ago)
Hey Kate thanks for the video! I do have another question for you though. I messaged a girl I am interested in and never heard anything back. It shows it has been read but no response. You think that’s my sign to move on or is there some way I can get her to give me a shot?
Kate Spring (11 months ago)
Hi Mikey! Giving up just because of that seems like a bad idea. How about you watch this video and then give it another try? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1Ku9EwkjVA

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