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5 Secret Physiological Ways To Tell A Girl Is Into You

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http://www.KateSpring.com/Free --- 5 Secret Physiological Ways To Tell A Girl Is Into You Have you ever noticed a chick staring at you and wondered what she was thinking? Does she think you’re cute? Has she spotted some leftover lettuce in your teeth from lunch? If your fly is down? Trying to tell if a woman likes you by looking at her is like trying to teach your cat a backflip. Pretty unrealistic. Women have mastered the art of mixed signals and playing hard to get. So trying to tell if a woman likes you just by a glance is a pretty difficult, if not impossible, feat. Women will, however, send subtle signs that indicate that they’re interested in you with more than just a look. And that is what this video is all about: The subtle physiological signs that let you know what a woman is thinking about you. Hey guys, for those of you who don’t know me -- I’m Kate Spring. A dating and relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. If you’re new to my channel, welcome. And for those of your returning, welcome back. Before I dive into the nitty gritty details of this video, be sure to subscribe to my channel and ring the little bell where you can stay up to date with my latest videos and you can then leave all of your questions in the comments section below. Quick question, how do you usually tell if a woman likes you? If she looks at you? or if she smiles at you? Take the poll and let’s see how you all tell if someone likes you. If you haven’t got a clue, relax because women have been encouraged to be coy and play hard to get for centuries with the notion that romantic uncertainty increases attraction, and it does. But don’t remain uncertain. There are signs that give a clear indication of interest because today body language is a topic widely observed and studied. In fact, we’re now able to interpret slight changes in a woman’s body that can reveal her true feelings and motivations. Unlocking the mystery of a woman’s attraction can be as simple as looking for these 5 physiological indicators of interest. 1. Her pupils dilate when she speaks to you: You know the saying that “the eyes are the window to the soul.” I think it should be, “the eyes are the window to the libido.” I once thought that this was a fallacy, a myth circulated by one of the original pick up artists, but, upon looking more deeply into the topic, I was pleasantly surprised that there is considerable research that supports the idea that there is a biological response to attraction. The studies found that our pupils dilate up to three times the regular size when we see something stimulating, exciting or interesting in order to take in more of the pleasing surrounding. In fact, women in 16th century Italy would take this medicine named “belladonna,” which would keep their pupils dilated because dilated pupils were seen as more attractive and seductive. It follows, then, that when you want to tell if a woman likes you, see if her pupils are dilated when she’s talking to you. It’s also important to note here that if you’re in a dark room, her pupils will enlarge as a simple fact that there is not enough light in the room. So try to see it in different lighting. 2. Her feet are crossed: One of the physiological ways to tell that a woman is interested in you, not that she wants to marry and have children with you, but that she’s interested in at least talking to you, if she is standing facing you and her feet are crossed. When someone is uncomfortable their feet generally don’t point towards the person with whom they’re speaking. Their feet tend to point away, and only their torso is facing their conversation partner. Subconsciously, their feet are preparing for them to exit the conversation. However, on the flip side of this, when someone’s feet are pointed towards you, that means that they are engaged in the conversation and are in no rush to get away. And an even better sign is when a woman’s feet are crossed. When her feet are crossed, it’s much harder to make a quick getaway. This is a sign that a woman is essentially planting herself in this spot and is engaged in her conversation with you, which is a great sign. So look at her feet, are they pointed towards you, or are they crossed? If so, take note that this is a subconscious response that she is interested in you and this interaction. More at: http://www.KateSpring.com/Free
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music (12 hours ago)
how in the world am i supposed to notice her pupils are dilated? she must be a couple of inches from my face to notice her pupils.
Daniel Ikupu (20 hours ago)
dating coach, freaking reading from the screen. bull crap!!!!
Little Boy For Jesus (11 days ago)
Kate What made you want to do this type of channel For free no less
Little Boy For Jesus (5 days ago)
You are a beautiful woman Miss +Kate Spring Hope your intimacy friend is an equal catch
Little Boy For Jesus (7 days ago)
Kate Spring your generosity is an awesome coat you wear Covered in robes of righteousness Is your boyfriend/fiancé now the greatest relationship ever because of your newfound knowledge?
Kate Spring (7 days ago)
It's a long story but let's just say that I got inspired when a good friend of mine needed a little push, and then I realized he's not alone 😉
Johnny Cardinale (17 days ago)
All this...or....learn how to play guitar.
Kate Spring (14 days ago)
Can't say that wouldn't have any positive effect. It's certainly an attractive skill to have and a big plus 😉
IKAIKA Pateno (21 days ago)
Ur presentation is bad. Like ur reading off a paper
Kate Spring (18 days ago)
Yeah, I'm working on it. Appreciate the feedback though. I'll do my best to improve next time. 🙂
J D (22 days ago)
Looking at you while laughing is a dead giveaway and sometimes they get caught doing this and revert gaze quickly away from you
Kate Spring (18 days ago)
Yep! I even experienced this myself 🙋‍♂️ lol
lucsan (25 days ago)
Thank you for a clear and informative delivery. One small and insignificant point, while your information on pupil dilation is accurate and comprehensive, Bella Donna was not a medieval medicine, it is a poison (its common name is deadly nightshade), however, the association with females and dilation is clear, Bella Donna is Latin for Beautiful Lady, (due to its effect on the eye). According to the Roman poet Ovid (Publius Ovidius Naso 43BC) in his work Ars Amatoria (The Art of love) he suggests 2 things (at least) for women to heighten their attraction, rubbing red berry juice on the lips (to redden them) and Bella Donna which, according to Ovid, is applied directly to the eye (not taken orally).
Jeff Stone (28 days ago)
Although my cats are trying to flip it’s not looking good. The eyes have all of the info needed, the go-nogo happens quite quickly. But the hair twirling is always a sure fire sign of interest
Nosuuddo (1 month ago)
Send a dick pic, if she sends one back, it was meant to be
Kate Spring (28 days ago)
If she sends one back, then it's definitely not a "she" 💁‍♀️😉
tier1solutions28 (1 month ago)
You're a beautiful girl.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Thanks! 😊
Raphael MINJAREZ (1 month ago)
What's 6 inches long, is in every mans pants, and all women want it? A: A dollar bill
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
LOL! Good one 😂
Bento for Japan (1 month ago)
I’ve never had problems with girls, but I just love learning these things.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
You'll definitely keep improving because of that attitude. Keep it up! 👍
l Wicked l (1 month ago)
This cute girl always saying Hi When she sees me and trys to convo with me, idk if she being friendly but ima go for it
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Good luck buddy!
marco peranteau6 (1 month ago)
How to the point I really like that about you. How about a video on older guys! How woman feel about them? Thank you enjoy your day!
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
I'll think about making one Marco. Thanks for the suggestion!
Soma TV (1 month ago)
Hey... Just stopped to say You're really pretty💖
Soma TV (1 month ago)
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Aww, thank you! 😊
Niners4Lyphe (1 month ago)
The last two are rather obvious
Niners4Lyphe (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring I've been known to be clueless or too scared to react at times. :)
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Trust me, there's a lot of men out there that just can't grasp the obvious 😉
Bryan McCallum (1 month ago)
Great video Kate! I get so many mixed signals it's hard to understand, I smile but seem to be, I can't find the words to say! I guess too much information to figure out what's right , and what is wrong. Thank you this is a perfect video for me!
James Vaught (1 month ago)
God, girl, you are HOT!!!!!
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Why, thank you James! 😊
Jordan Jenkins (1 month ago)
Kate you are very beautiful! Your eyes hypnotize!!!
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Thank you Jordan! 😍
AC Custodio (1 month ago)
Why am I even watching this? Sucks to be single.
AC Custodio (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring Right, thanks. It's been years now. Ha
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
There's pros and cons whether you're in a relationship or single. You better enjoy the single-life perks while it lasts 😉
searcy mcfly (1 month ago)
shes foxy... and makes sense . wow
Jess Bones (1 month ago)
She kinda looks like Fiona apple
Cole Keleher (1 month ago)
You have beautiful eyes, Kate
Cole Keleher (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring I actually think it's a borderline shame that we're in separate countries, because I would like to meet you.
Cole Keleher (1 month ago)
+Kate Spring I'm just to tell it like it is kind of person, that's all
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
Thank you Cole! 😍
Francis Dang (1 month ago)
Beautiful n cute presentation. Out of 10 I give u 9.6.
Kate Spring (1 month ago)
My my! Thank you Francis! 😊
Jeff paul (2 months ago)
If she is interested will she avoid eye contact? Thing is when she does make eye contact it's really soulful, and she will laugh at my jokes even if I'm not directly talking to her. She overhears it, looks at me and big smile. What do you guys think? Be honest. Thx
Marco Franciosi (22 days ago)
+Kate Spring oh, so she's not really interested in him, she's interested in a lot of guys like him, and the "strongest" one will win the race. Basically you're an object in a shelf, she cant decide because she just like some average qualities and not be able to spot/understand how different a person could be from the others. This is why i stay away from women with not crystal clear behavior, most of them are just like that, so sad the truth.
Antony Piniepedus (1 month ago)
No, she's actually using you to make the dude who saw her with you jealous.....return to wanking is my advice!
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Those are definitely positive signs Jeff, though you need a little more than that to know if she's really into you. I suggest you watch this video and see if you can spot a few more signs. If you do, then you better make your move soon before someone beats you to it! Here's the video link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
D.M.S. (2 months ago)
I don't know I am still not sure. She ask me out for activities (it is always her), but she does not write first, we hug, but in a more friendship way, we talk about deep stuff sometimes and she laughs about my jokes, but we don't actually flirt, she asks me if we go see a movie and I should pick it, but we see the film and thats it, we eat together, but always mid day and never dinner somewhere else. I'm just confused...
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Get yourself out of the friend zone before it's too late. Watch here how: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juo5zwRe3mk
D.M.S. (2 months ago)
+Tut Liu yep, I know since today.
Tut Liu (2 months ago)
You're in the friend zone
Naveen gupta (2 months ago)
gud video quality👌
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Thank you Naveen! 🙂
Ryan vtec (2 months ago)
What about when she follows you around. She always initiates conversation. Asks dumb questions she knows the answer to
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
That depends. Is that all you're getting from her? You may want to watch this video and see if you can spot a few more signs to know if she's into you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Suraj Gupta (2 months ago)
Hello Kate.I just want to know how to tell her that `I love you' because when I am around her and wanted to propose her I become nervous and many negative thoughts came into my mind 😣😣.so plzzz plz help me.I have only 20 days left to tell her.please
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Hey Suraj! I wrote something a while back that would really help you a lot. Check it out here: https://www.katespring.com/quit-being-shy/
Mont Brae (2 months ago)
Dilated pupils can mean your endorphin and adrenaline are high, or it can change according to the brightness or darkness of the area (to let light in or close it out). It may be caused by attraction, but most of the time it's because of something else.
rmgraphics (2 months ago)
how can I spot a person's dilating pupils when she's like 100ft away?
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Get closer of course 😉
Lee Leroy (2 months ago)
Hey, i am totally useless when it comes to realizing if a girl likes me. just the other day at work a girl told one of my colleagues she likes me but i am too shy ( which i am ) i've liked this girl for a long time but never got the impression she liked me, now im not sure what to do.
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
That girl went out of her way to let you know she likes you Lee. You can't keep on letting her make all the moves or else, you'll risk her losing interest. Nothing else for you to do now than man up and ask her out. Stop making your shyness an excuse and just go for it. You'll totally regret it if you miss this chance. Good luck!
Gaetana Nelson (2 months ago)
Just ask her out. She says no. You ask another one. There. Done.
chris scott (2 months ago)
hmmm. I usually get all the first txts and usually have intimate personal questions asked in the txts what does that mean??
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
Those are positive signs Chris. It means she wants to get to know you more but you can't keep on making her make the first move or else she'll start to think that you can't take the initiative and lose interest. Go and ask her out and take it from there! Good luck 😉
kaps ravager (2 months ago)
I love you kate
Kate Spring (2 months ago)
THE SIMPLE DEVIL (3 months ago)
To tell you the truth Every ladys i meet wants to be near me or talk to me,Likewsie iam nor a player nor a talkative person.i just focus on me just to get successful, and im asian i cant see the dilated pupils everywhere black eyes😅
Tomka19 R. (3 months ago)
You look nice Kate:)
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Thanks! 😊
Jerry Tinaza (3 months ago)
You want women's attention? It's very simple. Ignore them and don't give them attention and they'll do anything to get your attention... works everytime I ignore my wife...except I get a slap on the face a pinch or bite on the lips in return 🤣
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Ouch! 😫
Bojo David (3 months ago)
Background reminds me of 2005
christian ogando (3 months ago)
Unless the girl has light colored eyes, it’s hard asl to tell if her pupils r dilated
Sergio Mendez (3 months ago)
nice content. The only subsconcious i´d say is regarding the feet. The rest mentions are more thinking inside or for herself rather than the subsconcious, since it´s the concious. Keep it upp
Gregory Hismarney (3 months ago)
+Kate Spring c
Gregory Hismarney (3 months ago)
Add a public reply...
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Thanks Sergio! There's a few more interesting topics on my channel that you might want to watch! 🙂
Sergio Mendez (3 months ago)
starts at 2:15
thejediway (3 months ago)
I've missed a lot of those. Probably more than I realize. Also get a lot of mixed messages. From these examples I've often given the impression that I'm not interested. Oh well.
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
On a positive note, you won't have to worry about missing chances anymore since you now know which signs to look for!
Stephen Forman (3 months ago)
I found this very informative!! Great video!
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Glad to hear it Stephen! There's a few more helpful videos similar to this on my channel that you can watch. Feel free to check them out! 🙂
Joshua Chigumira (3 months ago)
I miss your vids
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
No worries. New ones are on the works and I'll have them up as soon as they're ready! 🙂
paulo sócrates (3 months ago)
Smile Kate, smile.
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Anton Boludo (3 months ago)
Nice looking girl with big blue eyes :)
Indegruv (4 months ago)
you kind of look like Fiona Apple.
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
Yeah, I get that a lot. Thanks 😊
R K (4 months ago)
So, here's a question for you. I was out solo last night at a place I've been to several times. Black and red Merino wool zip neck sweater, black tapered leg jeans, black Chukka boots, and a slim black and gold watch along with a red soft shell ski jacket. I'm on a first name basis with a few of the female bartenders but I never "flirt" with them figuring that's uncool as they probably get that all the time. One in particular is really chatty. She's also pretty hot and smart with a mouth on her. Not swearing, just a brutally sarcastic streak that showcases an uncommon intelligence and awareness. So, she's chatty as usual but when she finishes her shift she comes around the bar, taps me on the shoulder and tells me "move over, I'm coming in". So I scoot my bar stool over to make some room and she hops up on the stool next to me and we start talking. At this point I should probably mention that she once told me she's 27 and I'm a good 2 decades older even though people tell me I look at least a decade younger than my actual age. That's another reason I've never flirted with any of those bartenders, I don't want to be that creepy older guy. She mentions that she has a boyfriend but then proceeds to tell me he has a problem with alcohol, embarrasses her a lot from what I can gather, and she generally proceeds to trash the guy. I listen but don't offer up an opinion because I really don't know her situation. Then the conversation gets round to her New Year resolution to get on a diet and lose weight. Next thing I know she's showing me pictures of herself in swimsuits on her phone so I can see what she looked like and what figure she's trying to get back to. Of course I gave her compliments on the photos and told her she looks great now too. So I start thinking she's either really really open with people in general or maybe she's trying to let me know she's interested. The chat goes on for a while and a male bartender still on duty comes over and asks if she wants another drink. I see her glance at my glass of wine which was half filled and and say yes to another drink. Mind you it's 10:30 and she got off work a half hour ago at this point. So next, another female bartender comes over and tells her a couple of guys even older than my geezer ass want to buy her a drink. The bartender pours her a shot and she toasts them from down the bar but stays planted next to me. A guy from her clique plants himself on the other side of her. She exchanges greetings then literally turns so her back is to him and we go on talking until I finish my wine. I ask for my check and when I look at the bill it's ten dollars and change. Mind you I had dinner, three glasses of wine, and a couple of cokes. I look at her and she gives me a big smile and says "I take care of my own". I thank her and slip a $20 bill into the little folder with the bill. Now I'm really thinking she's giving me signals. But I can't help thinking it would be creepy to ask her out because of the age difference and because she told me she has a boyfriend. I say goodnight, we hug and I give her a kiss on the cheek then head out. So OK, I know I'm a moron when it comes to reading women. But is any of this a sign she's interested? Is she trying to give me a green light to ask her out? Or am I just a delusional older guy reading too much into it? LOL, stupid guys need help with the obvious.
R K (3 months ago)
@Zero Wolf.....You think I should get it cut down to 12"?
Zero Wolf (3 months ago)
Too fucking long lol
R K (3 months ago)
LOL, I'm not being hard on myself. More like chuckling at the situation. I just have trouble accepting a woman that much younger and that good looking would try to flirt with an older guy like that. Maybe that's just a cultural hangup I've bought into. She's done it more than once but not as overtly or for as long. And I'm not really as clueless as my first post indicated, just trying to be self deprecating rather than cocky about it. But it was really nice to get a woman's perspective on it. So thank you for that and the advice Kate. Actually, there's another woman bartender there, 37 years old, blonde, and even hotter but at least she's closer in age. I've never really had a conversation with her per se. But she acknowledges me by name when I come in even though I've neglected to find out her name. Feel bad about that. It feels rude. Not my style. So I was in there a couple of weeks ago to see a live band and the brunette I mentioned wasn't working that night. So this blonde bar tender comes over and wishes me a Happy New Year and we chat for a minute while she sets me up with a glass of wine and a menu at the bar. I should mention that this isn't some neighborhood bar. It's an upscale wine bar and grille in a tony bedroom community in the suburbs of New York City. It was sort of a dead night. So the next thing I know she's back and chatting with me. I found out she's single with a 7 year old daughter. She told me about her day job working sales to restaurants and bars for a liquor distributor. We talked about her New Year resolution to get back in the gym. Meanwhile she looks like a fitness instructor and she's positively busting out of a pair of black stretch pants and a low cut black top. At some point she admires a new cashmere zip neck sweater I was wearing then reaches over the bar and places her hand on my upper chest then proceeds to run her hand from there slowly down my left arm all the way to my wrist while locking eyes with me. Gulp. That got me excited. She basically never left me all night except to wait on customers and then come back. I never got around to asking how she knew my name or getting hers. Gotta work on my manners. So, after that night and then the brunette basically doing the same thing a couple of weeks later I'm wondering..... Am I in the middle of some sort of bet between them? Have I stumbled into some female competitive thing? Is this just the culture in that place? Does the lighting in that place do wonders for my appearance, LOL? I'm certainly enjoying all the attention but I have never been a lady's man. I'm really fit and I dress well but I've never exactly had women falling all over me. Especially much younger women this hot. I should probably just go with it and stop over thinking things. Yes?
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
You're being too hard on yourself Deklan. It's normal to actually get confused in situations like this and it takes a lot of man to admit it than pretending to know what's going on. She's definitely flirting with you but the fact that she's still in a relationship makes it a bad idea to make a move on her. Last thing you'd want is to be the "other guy" that she can dump anytime. I suggest you keep things as they are for now. Maybe she'll break the status quo one day and say she's now single. That would be your green light to ask her out if you want. Good luck! 😉
Rick Uyeda (4 months ago)
I've never had to talk to women. Matter of fact, my first "crush" at 13, she sent her friends to tell me she wanted to dance. I said no because I thought they were teasing me. My first girlfriend asked me to have lunch with which is how we met. The next was a waitress that gave me an apple pie on the house. My roommate liked a girl whose best friend was his Boss's daughter. He use to pick them both up to go cruising. My roommate suggested we get something to eat. His Boss's daughter was waiting for me by my car. She said it was too crowded in my roommates car and wanted to ride with me. The list goes on and on.
football68541 (1 month ago)
Here's a cookie: 🍪
Vishesh Singh (4 months ago)
4:42 that guy 😂😂😂😂🤭
Anthony deville (4 months ago)
Kate, are telling me this because you’re interested?
Kate Spring (3 months ago)
What do you think? 😉
Mutarr Barry (4 months ago)
nice topic
bryan snyder (4 months ago)
I want to try these with Kate and see if she likes me
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Good luck with that Bryan! 😉
unanimous !! (4 months ago)
Girls will definately not be into me no matter what. Lol!! Oh well
unanimous !! (4 months ago)
+Kate Spring well ive been looked down upon all my life so there is no point to inject any positivity into me. Waste of time doing that.
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
You seem to believe that a little too much and maybe that's the reason why. How about you try to inject more positivity in your attitude and work your way from there? 😉
KrishnaNand PattabiRaman (4 months ago)
Awesome insights
Nasman (4 months ago)
Hey here’s a tough one for you. I’m really confused on a girl. I do security at the mall and this girl that works there stares at me all the time and always hovers around me and asks the other guards about me. When I go to talk to her she talks to me like she is really pissed off and crosses her arms not wanting to talk. So does she like me or not? 🤨
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
That stare and all her other actions could have a rather negative meaning Nasman. Why don't you watch this video and see if you can spot a few more signs and if you do, then you have your answer. Here's the video link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQVTBNr5tYY
Daniel Valdes (4 months ago)
So here's my story. I was really interested in this girl, but she rejected me, so i did the only thing I could do, and I started hooking up with other women. One day in the lunchroom, my female friend is sitting next to me, I step out of the lunchroom, and I realize that I left my phone on the table. I certainly back in to the lunchroom, and I notice I have missed call from a girl that I was starting to get semi serious with...... And I wasn't certain, but I was pretty sure my female friend saw this. Later on in the day, she comes into my work area, and just stares at me, I ask her wats wrong, and she says nothing, just walks out. I also noticed that she blocked me on Instagram, but I didn't make a big deal out of it. So flash forward to maybe 3 monhs after this incident, me and my female friend decide to go to a happy hour together. We are having a good time, and the topic of the girl I'm dating comes up.... And she goes ballistic. She tells me "fuck that bitch" "I don't give a fuck about that bitch" "I saw her call you in the lunchroom" "fuck her" and this went on for a while. Eventually I pressed my forehead up against hers, grabbed her hand and put it over my heart, and I attempted to call her down. This worked momentarily, but she began to cry profusely. We go outside and sit in the car, and she continues to cry. She tells me she loves me, but that her ex-husband has ruined her, and that she's broken, that she can't have anything with anybody. We interlock hands, I start carressing her head to calm her down, and eventually she does. We agree to see each other the next day, but come the following day she tells me she can't see me, cause she has her kids with her. So the next week at work( yea, we work together) she is extremely cold. She only makes the smallest of small talk, and she more or less completely ignores me. I then try to make plans with her, and she tells me she can't beacause she has a date with someone that night. please help me!!! What is going on with this woman? What is the truth here.
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Sorry to hear that Daniel. It looks like she still has issues with her past. What happened between her and her ex husband is obviously affecting her decisions to get into a relationship and that's why she can't move forward. I suggest you keep your distance for now since she definitely needs more time to get her emotions sorted out. Of course, that time away from each other will make her miss you and amplify her feelings for you, so it's definitely worth the wait. Good luck!
HAYDENMUSICTV (4 months ago)
when they laugh at your jokes is a good sign a woman likez you
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
True. Most especially when you throw a lame joke and she still somehow laughs at it 😉
Neil Heckley (4 months ago)
Hi Kate, I don't know how I lost your subscription. I'm glad to be back
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Glad to hear it Neil. Working on new vids and I'll have them up as soon as they're ready. You just sit back and relax for now 😉
Paul Hemmendinger (4 months ago)
I have a question to ask I gave a Christmas gift to the girl I'm talking to I saw her day after Christmas she was smiling and looked happy when I was talking to her face to face I noticed she was nervous I saw her picking and peeling her nail polish off from her finger nails and I found out that she told me on the phone that I was making her nervous that's why she was picking her nail polish what does that mean?
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
It could be interpreted as something positive but you'll need to look for a few more signs to know if she likes you or not. I have a video here that can help you with that Paul. Watch it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Edward Masters (4 months ago)
Thank you, beautiful.
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
You're welcome Edward! 😊
It can't get it: you're so good looking and yet your eyes look so bored, or is that only a thing specific to people from the west coast of Canada?
football68541 (1 month ago)
It's called a resting bitch face
Film Buff 92 (5 months ago)
A girl at my work has been winking at me, well at least she did last week. This Monday I got her name, she asked mine, I winked at her yesterday and she talked to me a bit about her life. I’m thinking about asking her out or at least for her number. Today she gave me the silent treatment for the short moment I was in her office aside from one look of hello earlier. What do?
Film Buff 92 (4 months ago)
Turns out she has a boyfriend. Lol fml. Women ya know...
Film Buff 92 (4 months ago)
Kate Spring thanks for the advice though. I appreciate it
Film Buff 92 (4 months ago)
Kate Spring I asked her out Friday and got her number. Texted her a bit Saturday and now she went silent again. Maybe I am giving it too much thought
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
You're giving it a little too much meaning. There's a lot of reasons why she did that and and I don't think any of those reasons should stop you from giving it a go. Just carry one with your plan and ask her out. Good luck!
Simple Mind (5 months ago)
Resistence makes the seduction process ever so thrilling 😉
Kate Spring (4 months ago)
Some get disheartened while others like you take it as a challenge and that's how you should handle resistance!
Nrgizd (5 months ago)
Kate is fucking GORGEOUS
Orlando Flores (5 months ago)
OMG. one more observation that I was missing... her eyes but is hard to notice unless you are close enough to notice..yes woman are definitely the most beautiful things that God created but the most complex, emotional complicated souls on earth. there heart is a Galaxy of billions of feelings and trillions of emotions, no wonder we have some much issues understanding them.
Orlando Flores (5 months ago)
Well thanks, I am still hurt for some emotional separation long ago, we back together some time ago and thing are cold as ice, emotionally and sexually...I talk to other womans and find the hard way.. iam a guy who try to modify when I have to.. but this latin young generation 25 30 40 there are a different word...but I will keep checking your videos, like I said I like the way you project your self. I love your neutrality but your honesty at the same time. Thanks.
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
It's not that hard understanding women once you get the hang of it Orlando, and it looks like you're on a good track towards that based on everything you just wrote 😉
Bon Vivant (5 months ago)
I think I am just watching these videos because Kate is so cute / crush <3
Bon Vivant (5 months ago)
@+Kate Spring you mean besides that your decent make up matches your top and compliment your green eyes, ^ ^ well, yes a lil bit, but honestly I couldn`t fully focus on what you were saying tho *gg*
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Thank you. Hope you learned something while you're at it 😉
Ahmad (5 months ago)
Wait.. Then all of this time I was.. Naaah that can’t be right.
Leo Yuan (5 months ago)
6:34 you're so cute when you try to pronounce "imagine"
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Thanks... I guess? 😅
micro aggressive (5 months ago)
Hey Kate. I like your natural hair color better. Brings out your skin tone and eyes.
Antony Piniepedus (2 months ago)
In English, 'colour' is written with 'ou' - stupid yankee.
micro aggressive (5 months ago)
+Kate Spring I also love the fact that you don't wear a lot of makeup. I know you don't have to. You're what I call a natural beauty.
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Thank you! 😍
Javon Williams (5 months ago)
Wow you’re beautiful
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Thank you Javon! 😊
ASAP TANK (5 months ago)
You got gorgeous eyes ms.spring 🙏🏼 I’ve felt & seen towards me by a girl that is married to a relative & I feel wrong.
GTD_Bing (5 months ago)
Just trust your gut feeling most of the time it’s right
NoseKey (3 days ago)
Nope, my gut instinct has been wrong 100% of the time each time
Damnnn :D (16 days ago)
Did you watch endgame Remember Dr Strange say what "If i say it , it wont happen"
Tyler Blevins (23 days ago)
My gut feeling is to whippersnapper my long dick out
D.M.S. (2 months ago)
My gut says “The hell am I suppose to know?“
Tempor Rage (5 months ago)
What if one day she shows all these signs but the next she doesn’t.
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Women in general don't like to be very obvious about their feelings to someone they like. It's all got something to do with wanting to be chased and it's pretty rare for someone to display these signs in perfect consistency. I have another video(link below) that talks about other signs you can look for to know if she's into you. If you notice her do one or two, then I suggest you go for it and make your move! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
starlight122012 (5 months ago)
When has anyone noticed a girls pupils dilate?? if you can see that from across the bar, then wow great vision!
Vijay Iyer guitar (5 months ago)
What if she touches me with her feet while sitting next to me when in office?.. I know she does it on purpose but says sorry later, this gets me all the time
Vijay Iyer guitar (5 months ago)
+Kate Spring 😀 I don't like to touch anyone but I'll keep that in my mind -just in case,the next time this happens I should ask her out,would that be right?
Kate Spring (5 months ago)
Hard to tell with just that. Why don't you flip the tables on her and *you* touch her with your feet the next chance you get? Flirting is a two-way street and this is a good way if you can get any reaction from her. You might also want to watch this video and see if you can get more signs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
SALKA AHSINA (6 months ago)
write this because i don,t understand spoken english
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
Good thing I had it posted on my blog too Salka! You can read the written version at https://www.katespring.com/psychological-ways-girl-likes-you/
nathantimes (6 months ago)
Right so, what if I'm getting all of these signs, but the next day none of them and it alternates like that. Also, on top of those she gives proper flirty comments to me, saying I have really beautiful eyes like a Disney character and saying I have a beautiful face and saying how I'm cute. She told me near the start of the friendship she wasn't interested romantically and it's been a while since then and we have progressed as friends quite deeply and I'm sending the best signals I can. What do I do in such a situation because I'm genuinely baffled.
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
That's all enough for me to say you should give it a go and try to ask her out. Yes she said she didn't want anything romantic but feelings change and she may have developed some feelings for you by then so go for it! Good luck!
Jorge Vera (6 months ago)
hi Kate! so what if I invited a woman out for coffee and her response was she would let me know. when her pupils would get big and she would always smile and carried long conversations with me. so yeah I'm confused
Kate Spring (6 months ago)
How long has it been since you asked her? If you asked like a few days ago then wait for at least a week and ask her about that coffee date again Jorge. Try not to be a little too obvious if she blows you off again and show her it doesn't bother you. You can ask again about 2 or 3 weeks later after that and if she's still doing the same thing, then it's time to take the hint that she's not interested and is just politely declining you. Good luck!
YR peter (7 months ago)
How to kiss her
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
I got you fam 💪 Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nl-qHxk8nrQ
Naqib Naderi (7 months ago)
Kate, you have been looking at me with dilated pupils the entire time you were talking, does that mean you are in to me????????
Naqib Naderi (7 months ago)
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
We were using my friend's camera while shooting this and I wanted to take that camera home 😍
Mohit Meena (7 months ago)
You looks beautiful in real rather than in edited thumbnail
Kate Spring (7 months ago)
Thank you Mohit 😊
jrocker152 (7 months ago)
For the last few minutes of the video, the app Bumble has taught me that I am very lucky, and also very unskilled at socializing 😅 very mixed feelings about that. Thanks a million Kate.
Tennis Life (8 months ago)
Here's a tip/disclaimer: Don't worry if she does not contact you first. Many girls interested may be a little shy or a bit pressured at first to contact you. In this case, just make sure to talk to her outside of the digital world and make consious efforts to notice other signs she might be into you!
Lilliam Pumpernickle (8 months ago)
Pretty hard to see if her eyes dilate if they're a very dark brown 😕
Joey P (18 days ago)
Chanelle Ed azns too
Joey P (18 days ago)
Chanelle Ed (2 months ago)
Antony Piniepedus umm…not only black people have dark brown eyes boo
Antony Piniepedus (2 months ago)
Don't date niggas!
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
Tough luck there Lilliam 😕
Nathan Toth (9 months ago)
Thank you for sharing video.
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
You're welcome Nathan! :-)
Kris S (9 months ago)
You’re cute
Kate Spring (8 months ago)
Thank you! 😍
cjt74 (9 months ago)
Great video👍🏾👍🏾
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Thank you! :-)
Dorman Davis (9 months ago)
Thank you Kate
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
You're welcome Dorman! :-)
Tim Wilson (9 months ago)
Forgive me for not being a gentleman but Kate you're on fire
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Aww, thank you Tim! 🔥❤
xxXHighTensionXxx (9 months ago)
hi Kate, there is this co-worker that i really like, but i dont know if she thinks the same and i want to ask her out. she is really shy and insecure and i know from other co-workers that she had some bad relationships in the past and now she is almost 3 years single. when i talk to her at work, we have normal conversations and when i make jokes she always laugh but smetimes she looks nervous. i m looking for your tips but the only one i sometimes see is the pupil one. when i text her she always replies with long answers and uses emoji's and sometimes we text for like 2 hours. a few days ago we had dinner in a restaurant with a group of co-workers. we met at a parking and she was the first to arrive and i was second. so i got out of my car and gave her a kiss on the cheek, but it was a little bit uncomfortable for the both of us. then when we wanted to drive to the restaurant i said i was driving and without thinking twice she said she wanted to drive with me in my car. we talked but her answers where short, maybe because the shyness (it was just us in my car. t,e other co-workers drove in another car.) so do you think she is in to me or not and if it's worth a shot to ask her out? sorry for the long post :p
EssTeeAySeaEeWhy (5 months ago)
TranquilDark180 it’s been 3 months
TranquilDark180 (7 months ago)
How'd it go?
xxXHighTensionXxx (9 months ago)
Kate Spring thanks a lot for the response and the link, it gave me more confidence, i will try to ask her out :p
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
You should totally go for it. Expect a bit of resistance on her part, especially because of the fact that you mentioned she's got some bad relationships in the past so you don't want to rush things and just take it slow. It could take a while for her to open up and trust again so you need to be a little patient with her. The shy ones are usually a tough nut to crack, so you might want to check another video of mine and see if you could get more signs if she's into you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7-09X9aKg8
Ronald Sprowal (9 months ago)
Ronald Sprowal (9 months ago)
Kate Spring Yea I really do
Kate Spring (9 months ago)
Looks like you really do Ronald. You're welcome! :-)
Russell Mccune (10 months ago)
Actually I've successfully taught a cat to backflip
Damnnn :D (16 days ago)
Lol make a video
PJZ MSV (26 days ago)
But you still can’t tell if a girl is into you
Monoï (27 days ago)
It's easy, if it was as easy to get a girl i'll fuck everyday.
geoo. V (1 month ago)
Tibor Osváth (10 months ago)
Kate, what if you tell a joke? Is it a sign that she is looking at you while laughing ?
Tibor Osváth (10 months ago)
Kate Spring Maybe I should tell some really lame jokes so that I can see whether she is still laughing át my jokes.
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Definitely. Especially if there's touching involved, or say, if she still laughs even if the joke is *that* lame 😉
mumbus 27 (10 months ago)
Powerfully articulate Kate...nice work...
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Thank you! Appreciate it 😊
Rough Traveller (10 months ago)
Most women are attracted to me.I am tall and have muscular build. The signs are always obvious and if she plays hard to get i move to the next one. Sex is good but most women are not even good at it. They think having a vagina is enough.
Doug _ (10 months ago)
I can’t express how much your videos have helped me. I feel like you’re a trusted friend. 🙏🏼
Kate Spring (10 months ago)
Glad to know that Doug! Always a pleasure to be of help my friend 🤗
scottdeaussie (11 months ago)
You should look at changing your reference clips, they seem to all be the same for all of your advisory videos!
Kate Spring (11 months ago)
Hey, thanks for the reminder! I actually thought of changing it a couple of weeks ago. Guess I should be doing it sooner than later 🤔
Edward Kennedy (11 months ago)
Hi Kate, that's a good video. A woman I know at work is doing some of the things you described. The problem is that I'm not interested; I'm interested in someone else. Can you recommend a nice way of letting her know I'm not interested?
Edward Kennedy (11 months ago)
Thanks Kate, that's good advice. I'll be discreet about it. 😉
Kate Spring (11 months ago)
Unless she's gonna confess that she likes you straight up, then I think you just leave it as it is Edward 😉

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