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20 Things to Avoid to Become a Real Lady

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Some people consider the rules of etiquette to be outdated and old-fashioned. However, good manners never go out of style. If you want to be taken seriously, you should know there are things that can ruin your image of a true lady. We at Bright Side have come up with a list of typical etiquette mistakes a lady would never make. Keep them in mind, and you'll always make a great first impression. TIMESTAMPS Wearing poor-quality fake designer items 0:34 Making fashion mistakes 1:20 Slouching 1:59 Not taking good care of yourself 2:30 Wearing too much makeup 3:00 Being too fussy 3:25 Finishing your soup 3:59 Being rude and spreading rumors 4:32 Talking and laughing loudly 4:49 Arguing 5:17 Eating on the go 5:43 Being too honest 6:07 Wearing white high heels 6:25 Being late 6:50 Leaving an umbrella open to dry 7:12 Responding to another person's sneeze by saying "Bless you" 7:39 Not wearing pantyhose 7:58 Refusing food or drinks offered by a host 8:18 Dancing with your hair down 8:41 Blowing on your food to cool it down 9:00 SUMMARY - You don't have to spend all your money on some ridiculously expensive designer bag. But if you can't afford it, buying a much cheaper copy is not an option. A replica, even of good quality, can be easily spotted. - A true lady would never wear an oversized sweater or a pair of overly tight shorts. She knows how to choose the right types of clothes that say a lot about her style. - Improving your posture is not as difficult as it may seem at first. Including regular exercises in your schedule will strengthen the muscles in your upper back and shoulders and improve your posture. - A true lady takes good care of herself. She loves sports, maintains a healthy diet, pays attention to skincare, and consults specialists if necessary. - If a woman pays special attention to skincare, her skin looks amazing. She knows exactly what makes her face stand out and uses makeup accordingly. - A true lady knows how to take control of her nervous habits — if she has any. - To get the last spoonful of soup, you need to slightly tilt your bowl or soup plate. Although table manners say you should tilt the plate away from you to avoid splashing, it's better not to finish the soup at all. - Being rude, gossiping, and whining are taboos for a true lady. It's beneath her. Neither would she listen to someone else's whining and gossiping. - It's very important to watch the tone of your voice. Laughing loudly, yelling, and offensive language is unacceptable. - A true lady always has her own opinion, and she's 100% sure of it. However, she'd never force her ideas on anybody, nor would she argue her choice. - Etiquette rules say you need to use cutlery when you're at the table. So even if pizza is your favorite food, don't order it in a restaurant. - A true lady is never too much when it comes to communicating with new people. - A pair of white pumps can be worn either with a white wedding gown or with a white summer dress. If such a pair is decorated with a colorful detail, such as a bow or something of the kind, it is easier to integrate the shoes into your outfit. - A lady knows that it's unacceptable to be more than 15 minutes late, both for business and personal meetings. And if the event is a wedding, graduation, or funeral, it is absolutely unacceptable to be late. - Close your umbrella before entering a building. Shake the water off, and hang it to dry. You can also use a special drying machine if it's available. - Many people respond to someone else's sneeze by saying "Bless you," but this is only acceptable if the sneezer is a close friend or family member. - According to modern business etiquette rules, a woman must wear pantyhose to work and formal receptions. Even on the hottest summer day. If it's too hot, you can wear thigh-highs or pants instead of a dress or a skirt. - A true lady would never refuse food and drinks offered to her. If a host asks what drink she prefers. - A true lady cares about other people's health and safety. - It's unacceptable to blow on your food, which is why a true lady waits for it to cool down naturally. The best way to do it is to take a spoonful of your dish and hold it while you support the conversation. What do other etiquette rules you follow? Write to us in the comments; we will be happy to know your opinion! Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightside/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightgram/ SMART Youtube: https://goo.gl/JTfP6L 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: https://www.goo.gl/8JVmuC Have you ever seen a talking slime? Here he is – Slick Slime Sam: https://goo.gl/zarVZo ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://www.brightside.me/
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BRIGHT SIDE (2 months ago)
What do you think it means to be a true lady? Also, be sure to check these etiquette rules if you wanna be a real lady https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F19UQrXCY7w&t=3s
Mazal Siani (5 days ago)
very shallow, insulting and sexist. don't want to be your lady anyhow!
Pink Pakjira (1 month ago)
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GCatherine Carr (1 month ago)
Carr
Mandie Civ (1 month ago)
BRIGHT SIDE this video is sexist
Jyoti Rajput (2 days ago)
the best bonus tip would be to be oneself without copying others... it is nt always necessary to have a unique identity everytime
Ruth marichuy (3 days ago)
Imma finish my soup because I probably paid for it.....every single drop. I seriously think being a lady according to this list is too much for an ordinary person like me.
Ved Lyme (4 days ago)
Is this a joke, I mean the “bless you” and the pantyhose? The soup?!?!
This video is terrible. 💩💩💩 #sorrynotsorry
Bonolo Tlou (6 days ago)
DAngmatt
JYOTI MONDAL (6 days ago)
Hiii Actually please give me some idea that how can i change my self, I talk too much, and how some bad habits so please please help, how can i change my self
Anita White (6 days ago)
Why does there have to be rules on how to be a lady??? Can’t we just do whatever the F** k we want??
LPS Lily (6 days ago)
What do you mean " yoga is a very lady-like thing "
Anne Z (6 days ago)
This is how I hate social media, always setting for standaaaards
R Picifica (7 days ago)
People are actually offened 🙍. If you don't like move on to a different video.
Meow meow Sakura (7 days ago)
Hello Bright Side,thanks for these advice you gave us they are so usfel,new subscriber.
Verònica Lopez Matos (8 days ago)
I am 8 year old and I am watching this
Tiffany Prospert (9 days ago)
This is quite judgemental
Bee Plummer (11 days ago)
Wow this is utter bullshyt 😂
Pied Peculiar (12 days ago)
So basically never enjoy life?
Neisha Larbi (13 days ago)
Oh come onnnnn, not the oversize shirtssss
Hey bright side , please make a video on being a true girl
Starboyramy Derick (14 days ago)
Being a lady is what you're but who you are
Iotonic (14 days ago)
there are men that make better ladies than me
Krishti Lamichhane (16 days ago)
A true lady loves herself and respects other ladies too...
Karin Wassenhoven (19 days ago)
I could not finish the video because of the voice ☠️
Sayed Saphia (20 days ago)
Wrong information
Gloria Webster (21 days ago)
Ne’er say negative word about another person. It will always come back three fold, with horrible repercussions guaranteed.
Jada Tabron (22 days ago)
Im sorry but they lost me at "never wear a oversized sweater"
Hannah Reitsch (22 days ago)
Most of this is true...however not being comfortable on your own home is something that EVERY lady is entitled too..there is nothing wrong with being comfortable in the privacy of your own home😊
Fakhra Akram (22 days ago)
Is there any lady... really classy like james bond... female version of daniel Craig?
The Lexi Jade (22 days ago)
Nah, real ladies aren't perfect
Vivian Reginalds (23 days ago)
I'd rather not be a true lady than do some of these rules listed e.x someone sneezing and you say "bless you" has suddenly become unethical, nonsense!!!
sassy niinii (24 days ago)
Why women shouldnt get advice on you tube. Some of this is pure non sense.
Sera Mertoğlu (24 days ago)
I prefer pay for the quality more than a label too :)) a lady would dress appropriately
Mika's So Random (24 days ago)
#5 is my favorite😂😂😂
Liv J (24 days ago)
I will be more and more lady like. Thank you so much for helping me.
Nadezhda S (25 days ago)
This is incredibly sexist.
Yvone Mungure (25 days ago)
so a real lady should be rich then
garmtpug (26 days ago)
The usage of the word "lady" is a turn-off for me! I couldn't get past the voice-over saying yoga was "feminine" so I guess that means it will allow your "lady" status to stay intact! Ugh!
Emily Lalala (26 days ago)
laughing loudly? HAHAH
Emily Lalala (26 days ago)
a BROACH? WOAH WOAH WOAH stop the train
Tresia Nyjamba (27 days ago)
soo true thank u😊
Alex M (28 days ago)
When I saw this video, I just clicked on it because the title was sort of offensive and to scroll of the comments.
Amór Voyage (30 days ago)
stop creating stereotypes. let the person be real not fake.
Rebecca Kuntz (1 month ago)
Sacrificing Nutrition for a cup of coffe???!! Not lady like! A light snack maybe.
L Gomes (1 month ago)
So you expect me to stay quiet and pretty to fit others liking I have an opinion I will use it
Anna Garcia (1 month ago)
Such a disappointing and superficial list! A true lady does not think like this!
Dua Fakhar (1 month ago)
Excellent This documentary VVNice Lady correct Thanks.
Prateeti mehta jain (1 month ago)
U r just presenting a lady who is supressed
kyliejanneri (1 month ago)
A real lady is that girl that is happy doing what she really loves. Im a mechanic, I love cars and I'm a lady.
hi there (1 month ago)
This is so stereotypical🙄 ok being a true lady is important but what you said doesn't make any sense 🙄 you know ,not all ladies are as rich as YOU are!🙄
Or you could eat the surface of the soup.
Mads So Random (1 month ago)
If this was said by a man in the video they would’ve been destroyed!!!! Just because it’s a girl voice saying this doesn’t make it right!!!!!!!!! COME ON BRIGHT SIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Carol King (1 month ago)
This video would have been more relevant in 1950, but in this day and age where women must speak up for themselves in order to get fair pay - and balance being both a breadwinner and a mother requires women to be bold and not wallflowers. Your rules for being a lady can breed suppression of individuality and creative expression and the manipulative tactic of trying to shame women into wanting to “behave like a lady” in order to avoid being ordinary is reminiscent of the Puritanical days of yore. Where is your video with your rules for how men must modify their behavior to be labeled a “man”?
Happy Living (1 month ago)
I’m finishing my soup 🍜 if it’s so good thank you next! Because me finishing my soup whether I can tilt the plate or not shouldn’t matter. I think this doesn’t even match up biblically
Cynthia Jang (1 month ago)
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Jannie Schlüter (1 month ago)
The common and ordinary are more attractive anyway
Simrandeep Kaur (1 month ago)
Now i feel like a total disaster 😂 i got a lot of work to do on myself
Katherine Schindler (1 month ago)
sexist.
rhodopsin0608 (1 month ago)
Most of these are superficial, sexist, and unrealistic. Obviously, don’t gossip or be late to a wedding.
Saja 09 (1 month ago)
In Germany it’s really rude to not say „bless you“ ( „Gesundheit“) after someone sneezes
Ysik Cruz (1 month ago)
acabo de perder 2 de mi tiempo en escuchar como una persona se cree con derecho de jusgar a otras mujeres por la ropa y accesorios que usa.. sencillamente lamentable.
Senada Pasic (1 month ago)
nothing wrong with loose clothes. it's modest and doesn't attract attention from all men. and weirdos.
Gurp Preet (1 month ago)
get rid of the 10 cats, dont dye your hair pink and shriek in public about how men/Trump oppress you. there, now you are a true lady.
Isabel Crespo (1 month ago)
I’ve heard that guys find oversized sweaters cute... 😦
God blesses and loves you
always say bless YOU
love you! thank you for helping us and sharing the bright side. :) you make life worth living
?Question Mark? (1 month ago)
A real lady will never watch videos as such because she knows who she is.
Êmpty Løvê (1 month ago)
I wanna be girly
Metka Krijestorac (1 month ago)
This video is just......bad
moonlight soul (1 month ago)
I wear baggy clothes because they are comfortable i really don't care what people think of me
Yuru Wu (1 month ago)
I'm not in a hurry to become a real lady, because I'm a TOMBOY. I almost NEVER pay attention to the size of my clothes. A t-shirt and baggy jeans are my go-to look. Dresses and makeup, don't even think about it.
loki5537 (1 month ago)
Anyone else think this is a bunch of outdated bs?
Lauren Klein (1 month ago)
You people are tragic, sad and pathetic. News Headlines: "Women slammed for wearing sweats and eating pizza." Miss Cardi would have some choice words about this vid. #extraordinarilyme
FyreForce 1600 (1 month ago)
*_MY ORDINARY SQUAD WHERE YOU AT_*
FyreForce 1600 (1 month ago)
*_but I don’t want to be a lady. I can do whatever the heck I want._*
Chrissy Strader (1 month ago)
is this comedy?
Angelique B (1 month ago)
Annnnd... *Unsubscribes*
caths kitten (1 month ago)
Did they do one of these for the "True Man"? I feel like I've been time travelled to the 50s.
Tho Le (1 month ago)
Can you make a video of how to study without being stressed? And how to be a polit girl?
Isabella Poole (1 month ago)
I don’t think I’ll EVER be a lady
Kelsey Ann (1 month ago)
Eff this noise.
Ella Suhailah (1 month ago)
...
Laura Perez Diez (1 month ago)
watching this makes me wanna jump off the Titanic as well
Ilma Rani (2 months ago)
Its not about expensive cloths . Real ladies don't judge
Butter Pecan Rican (2 months ago)
Apparently I'm not a lady, and I'm ok with this lol.
NyanCat1907 (2 months ago)
New title idea: how to give woman a headache
annabelle (2 months ago)
1:25 a real lady is whatever she wants to be. Why do you set limits? This is one of the most sexist videos I've ever seen, sure you want to help but you're ruining your impression if you stereotype ladys. being a lady is a choice of behavior, not of clothing.
ope nasiru (2 months ago)
I can accept everything from this list except the dancing oppression. When it comes to dance, I dance and thats it. What is the point to be an oppressed lady?
Crazy Corgi368 (2 months ago)
You gotta be joking "She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable" SERIOUSLY that's exactly why u should wear baggy clothes
Dunimay Hernandez (2 months ago)
Rule number 2 is crazy. Better not to dance, really? I love dancing and it’s beautiful and joyful. Those rules are for robot women unhappy people. Some of them are ok but this one is unacceptable for me.
Evelyne Ernest (2 months ago)
MADAM YOU’ RE JUST SPEAKING YOURS MIND O
Gacha Freak (2 months ago)
I’d rather dance while I can I’m still young but just because I can’t dance doesn’t mean I can’t be a lady so I disagree with this whole video
BRIGHT SIDE (2 months ago)
TIMESTAMPS Wearing poor-quality fake designer items 0:34 Making fashion mistakes 1:20 Slouching 1:59 Not taking good care of yourself 2:30 Wearing too much makeup 3:00 Being too fussy 3:25 Finishing your soup 3:59 Being rude and spreading rumors 4:32 Talking and laughing loudly 4:49 Arguing 5:17 Eating on the go 5:43 Being too honest 6:07 Wearing white high heels 6:25 Being late 6:50 Leaving an umbrella open to dry 7:12 Responding to another person's sneeze by saying "Bless you" 7:39 Not wearing pantyhose 7:58 Refusing food or drinks offered by a host 8:18 Dancing with your hair down 8:41 Blowing on your food to cool it down 9:00
Sr Bi (2 months ago)
this is boring person, not tru lady.
Narita Bajaj (2 months ago)
Just take down this video
Marley Bernberg (2 months ago)
I love all the tips I learned today and the numerous tips by a columnist named MISS MANNERS. I could not wait til Thursday paper arrived. She was aticulate, correct, with a lovely dry wit. Thank you today and Miss Manners for a lifetime!!!!
Earaj Aamir (2 months ago)
I'd rather be an ordinary girl than a 'True Lady'. At least I'll be classified into humans. All of this sounds to me like the 16th century rubbish that english women had to endure.
## shruti ## (2 months ago)
Well I suddenly realised that I actually don't act like a lady .. I am really very open and act according to my comfort zone... Well I don't really wanna be a perfect lady if ladies are robot.....
P Vincente (2 months ago)
Now tell us and wrote a list of 20 things that tell us men, what to do to become ......real gentlemen.
Ilda Ramirez (2 months ago)
Wear pantyhose even in summer..lol...so old fashioned!!
Prarthna Nanda (2 months ago)
How regressive is bright side when it comes to such videos.. I thought this video would talk about respecting yourself etc etc., instead it tells me that you're not a lady if you wear baggy sweaters while blowing at your soup which you're not even going to finish while also showing your leg skin.. What!? Which era are we all living in?

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